all alone again Options

[unf0rsak3n]

not that long ago, i was supposed to fight this girl. we were a little bit of friends last year. but then this year she was talking about me to her friend, my ex-bf's new gf. n then i called her a name, she got pissed off then we were supposed to fight. but then my friend, who was a little of hers, was in between so nothing happened because i listened her. however, after that both of us, me and this friend, stopped talking completely. she said that she mad at me because at times when we would go to church, my cell phone would ring and i would just start talking [ that was b4 or after the service] but she did the same exact thing. now someone just goes to my xanga and writes stuff about how this best friend was talking about me. i want to confront them but i also don't want to lose the status of our friendship, or whatever you want to call it when she doesn't bother to talk to me anymore.
that someone on my xanga also wrote that all of my friends hated me and all the guys don't want me at church at all. i want to ask but it would seem so low. what am i supposed to do?