friends with benefits., worth it? or not. |
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 Jun 30 2004, 02:11 AM
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when you are jus "friends with benefits" doesnt it bother you that you guys arent offically together.. as in "bf and gf"?
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Jun 30 2004, 02:27 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
sometimes if your feelings are that strong and you feel you can't be more than friends it is hard .. but if you just wanna see people it's perfectly fine to do as you please without strings attached =]
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Jun 30 2004, 02:30 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i wouldnt... im a jealous person.... soo yehh and feelings might get involed... and one or the other is gonna end up getting hurt... too risky for me!!!
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Jun 30 2004, 05:39 AM
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I don't think it's worth it. Someone's gonna end up liking the other person but when the other person doesn't feel the same, it sucks.
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Jun 30 2004, 09:29 AM
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save a horse...ride a cowboy! Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,125 |
i guess it depends on how strong you feel about the person...if you love them and want to be with them and its the closest thing you can get..then its worth it
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Jun 30 2004, 02:22 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
well if your friends with benefits, AND THEN YOU ALREADY HAVE A BOYFRIEND...that`s not a good thing.
 who would you choose? what? depends on the person? i hear that too much... 
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Jun 30 2004, 03:29 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
i want friends w/ benefits...MUAH! cus they can buy me toys when im sad. WOOT!
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Jun 30 2004, 03:31 PM
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 did someone fart?! Group: Member Posts: 1,528 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,662 |
Mini, you're a dork.
 Anyway, I wouldn't go for friends with benefits. My emotional side is way bigger than my sexual side. And besides, my emotional side feeds into my sexual side. I'm hornier with people I like than with people I don't like..
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Jun 30 2004, 04:11 PM
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 Got Me? Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,430 |
yeah, it bothered me. See there is this long complicated story...me and this guy named brandon were together for like 5 years, well his bestfriend tolbert liked me, and always hit on me, and secretly I always liked it and kinda liked him. Well, I was always a jerk to him tho, so when me and brandon broke up I immediately noticed how much I liked him. So we started hanging out more and we became friends with benefits becuz he was scared that I would hurt him. Well it sucked becuz that meant we were both free to like other ppl and crap, and I hated that...finally last week he asked me to go out with him and just be his gf becuz he doesnt like the just for fun thing either. Trust me...its much better when you are in a relationship, or atleast to me.
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Jul 1 2004, 01:26 AM
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QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Jun 30 2004, 2:22 PM) well if your friends with benefits, AND THEN YOU ALREADY HAVE A BOYFRIEND...that`s not a good thing. who would you choose? what? depends on the person? i hear that too much... FWB = u already have a bf? i never knew that lol |
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Jul 2 2004, 11:00 AM
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friends with benefits is bad cus eventualli one person is gonna hab feelings fo da other nd it will hurt if yoohs see da other person flirting.
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Jul 2 2004, 11:12 AM
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 lil______d00ks Group: Member Posts: 508 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,538 |
QUOTE(babixlilac @ Jul 2 2004, 11:00 AM) friends with benefits is bad cus eventualli one person is gonna hab feelings fo da other nd it will hurt if yoohs see da other person flirting. i agree |
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Jul 2 2004, 10:46 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
fwb=bad idea. someone alwa ys gets hurt
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Jul 2 2004, 10:48 PM
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yeaa.. sometimes, i guess bcuz then yu can't reli expect the other person to be completely loyal and faithful and stuff..
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Jul 2 2004, 11:06 PM
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ummm yeah it would be hard to not be together officially so i dont think its a good idea unless there is a good reason
well me and this girl is sorta like that she really cant date me cause of ... nways so she told me if i could wait for her we will go out .:tonY:. |
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Jul 3 2004, 01:03 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jul 1 2004, 1:26 AM) FWB = u already have a bf? i never knew that lol  huh?? i`m just using an example. when you have friends with benefits and then you already have a boyfriend, IT`S HORRIBLE. say you end up liking the FWB, but you already got a boyfriend. what are you going to do about that? fall in love with the FWB or stick with your first choice? i don`t want to end up in that situation...so i limit my relationships to a minimum. that happens too much in the movies and it MAY mislead some couples in love. |
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Jul 3 2004, 01:23 AM
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uhm. i guess it's ok if you just want to fool around with no strings attached.
but i wouldn't do it though. i would rather have a real relationship... doing certain things with people who aren't my boyfriend just seems weird to me and very icky. you'll never see the friend in the same way again. |
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Jul 3 2004, 02:11 AM
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 S*q*U*e*E*G*i*E Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,243 |
im a guy and i dont like it.....it makes her feel used...if she likes you and you dont like her dont use her and say lets be "FWB's"...screw that...dont hurt her more than she needs to be....if you like her back go out with her..stop being slow about it
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Jul 4 2004, 02:47 PM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
um...yea, that is sad. but are you in benefit right now? hmmmm.....i think i was in that situation before too.
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Jul 4 2004, 04:24 PM
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 Peter aka Peetah =) Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,046 |
Spidey2 the movie can relate to this thread
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Jul 4 2004, 04:53 PM
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 weeEee *smack* Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,490 |
hmm..not a good idea. Sooner or later one of the people will develop feelings and only wind up getting hurt in the end.
-Teressa |
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Jul 4 2004, 05:17 PM
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personally.. i dont think i like it either lol
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Jul 4 2004, 05:48 PM
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Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
QUOTE(pm3k @ Jul 4 2004, 4:24 PM) Spidey2 the movie can relate to this thread hmmm, your right. you are SO right. it does relate but don't ruin the movie for others... |
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Jul 4 2004, 05:51 PM
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QUOTE(faithin_felix @ Jul 4 2004, 5:48 PM) hmmm, your right. you are SO right. it does relate but don't ruin the movie for others... felix!! how come your not on msn?? |
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Jul 4 2004, 07:54 PM
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two wods... it suks.. but wat kan u do if u relly like the guys and tass the only way u kud eva have him
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