"I Gave My Boyfriend 'A Night Off' -- With Another Woman" Options

[sixfive]

http://www.lemondrop.com/2010/09/17/the-fr...lshare_facebook

Our conversation went on long into the night -- but what if it weren't a fantasy? What if it were reality? What if, in the course of our relationship, we each wanted to do someone other than each other who wasn't Russell Crowe? Then what?

It was almost exactly the same conversation that is the crux of the new movie, "The Freebie," a Sundance hit directed by and starring Katie Aselton, along with her co-star Dax Shepard. Part of the mumblecore movement, the film opens today and is a talky, thinky, indie romantic comedy about a young married couple, bored with their sex life, who each agree to spend one night with someone else.

"It's kind of like an itch you can't scratch any other way," admits Annie, the wife, who enters into the bargain -- at least at first -- a bit reluctantly.

In the case of me and David, we, too, wound up talking for hours about taking our fantasies out of the safety of our bedroom. Here's how it played out in real life when it finally happened.

[batman]

there's so much wrong with this.

first off, what he did was more like cheating and not "partaking in a freebie." a one-night stand isn't something you plan a coffee date for with someone you see on a regular basis. and if he was going to use this as his "freebie," he should have run it by her first. tbh, it would almost be better if he just got drunk and f*cked some girl he met at a bar.

she has a warped view of relationships and monogamy. i feel the same way about this as i do about open relationships. stupid.