girlfriend is angry/upset at me and i dnt knw why.., woman ai ai |
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 Jul 13 2010, 08:37 AM
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ok so i've been seeing this girl for about +- 2months now, i really like her alot and we get along very well, but lately anything i say is wrong... like for example i said "hey" on that fb chat thing and then i get a msg bk "Oh so all you can say is hey.." at first i was like ok maybe she is in a mood, so we chatted all nice after that, but then she started to get angry at me again for little things i said... but when she had to go offline to go out or something i said "ok cool, bye :) mwa mwa" and then all hell broke loose, its like she is on defensive mode, telling me how can i only say bye and i dnt show enough "love" for her and bla bla... then later that nyt i sent a msg saying sorry if i upset her in anyway and that i miss her to bits.... havent heard back from her since, pls help... im a confused male that just likes things to be simple and i hate fighting.
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Jul 13 2010, 08:39 AM
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awww mahhh geeeeeeee ded u lyk cal hur n stufff? maybe shez jus havin a hxcore moood... u shud send her sum mydol
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Jul 16 2010, 09:29 PM
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thats one crazy bitch, hope that cootch is worth it
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Jul 16 2010, 11:00 PM
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lmfao http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pmdd/AN01372 maybe she has PMDD
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Jul 16 2010, 11:01 PM
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 Sarcastic Mr. Know-It-All Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 29 |
throw some
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Jul 16 2010, 11:02 PM
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she prolly is trying to piss you off so you break up with her so she doesn't look like the bad guy
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Jul 17 2010, 06:32 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Maybe you'd have more success being single. It's only been 2 months, it will only get worse.
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Jul 17 2010, 07:34 PM
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u guys are definitely not the most positive group of people.
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Jul 17 2010, 08:52 PM
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DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
QUOTE(sighter @ Jul 17 2010, 07:34 PM)  u guys are definitely the most honest group of people. fix'd. |
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Jul 17 2010, 09:30 PM
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QUOTE(sighter @ Jul 17 2010, 08:34 PM) u guys are definitely not the most positive group of people. Sorry we're not gonna give you flowers and say it'll get better truth hurts |
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Jul 18 2010, 12:17 PM
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Sarcastic Mr. Know-It-All Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 29 |
QUOTE(sighter @ Jul 17 2010, 08:34 PM) u guys are definitely not the most positive group of people. lol i'm plenty happy with my life sorry your life sucks dude oh wait i'm not lol |
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Jul 18 2010, 01:03 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
i'll give you some positive advice my son
you can't win when women are like this. nothing you do will be good enough. tell her you love her 50 times a day? too bad you insensitive bastard, you should have said it 60. try 60 the next day? what kind of jerk are you? shoulda said it 70. i call these types of people multipliers. everything you do has to be multiplied and you have to do more and more and more and more. this shit isn't sustainable. what you should do is, as rationally and nicely as possible, explain that how she is acting is ridiculous. that you can't read minds and if something is wrong and she wants to fix it, then she needs to tell you what it is. if she can't tell you what's wrong then she doesn't need to be acting like a bitch in the first. say all that crap that people always say about how "communication is key". explain to her that it's unfair for her to make up a set of rules in her head (like about what constitutes as showing enough love when saying bye), not share the rules with you, and then punish you when you don't abide by them. everyone is allowed to do dumbass shit and be irrational here and there in relationships. but if she can't see that she's being an idiot, then you should just get rid of her. there's almost nothing worse than being under the influence of a crazy woman who is impossible to please. you'll go crazy too. you'll start living your life differently and walk on egg shells 24/7 in attempts to make her happy. nothing ever will and it will always be a matter of time before her next meltdown over nothing. - Dr.  |
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Jul 18 2010, 01:54 PM
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the colonel just went around the world and back....
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Jul 19 2010, 12:34 PM
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Thanks JC, will try that with her.
And when i said you guys arent the most positive bunch of people i wasnt been serious, was just saying it allowed if you knw what i mean. Close thread please. Thanks |
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Jul 19 2010, 02:57 PM
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QUOTE(sighter @ Jul 19 2010, 01:34 PM) Thanks JC, will try that with her. And when i said you guys arent the most positive bunch of people i wasnt been serious, was just saying it allowed if you knw what i mean. Close thread please. Thanks Topic closed. |
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