sluts and whores Options

[batman]

there's this quote going around on tumblr that sort of annoys me.

I don’t hate sluts/whores. I pity them. They’re mistaking lust for love. Once they get old, no one will “love” them anymore. That is, until they figure out what love really is. Good luck.

do you think this is true? i don't. i'm pretty sure everyone knows the difference between lust and love. it's just a choice you make whether to go for one or the other. or both. or maybe you just like sex and want to have fun. why does love even have to fit into the equation?

[datass]

i guess sluts and whores probably forgo love and go for lust. to them it's probably easier that way?

[none345678]

I don't know, but I do know I like sluts more then I like people who "pity" other people.

[batman]

^ same

[Blyat]

I think they are labeled sluts when they hit the point that they're flirting or fooling around with other guys when they have girlfriends or if the girl herself has a boyfriend

[creole]

idk ask liz

[tokyo-rose]

idk ask liz

Meh, I make it a point never to call another girl a slut or whore unless I know for a fact she sleeps around because she doesn't have enough self-respect and caution to be safe and control herself (but even then, what business do I have judging others' sexual activities?). There's always that one girl who's a walking chasm of STI's, and I don't call just anyone that type of girl without evidence. Also, it only makes it okay for males to call women sluts, bitches, and whores because women say all that to other women first. I know you aren't a girl and you were just joking, but you never know what effect your words could have when "it's just the Internet": look at Suzette and how she tried to delete CB because of things that happened strictly online.

Anyway, just because you exercise your right to have sex with whomever you want doesn't mean you're a slut; that's ridiculous and a rather naive statement to make. Whoever said that needs to grow up and see what it's like to want to sleep around and have to restrain herself for the sake of doing it only with guys she at least likes, if not loves, and to feel like a slut for having such thoughts/committing said acts.

[sixfive]

Meh, I make it a point never to call another girl a slut or whore unless I know for a fact she sleeps around because she doesn't have enough self-respect and caution to be safe and control herself (but even then, what business do I have judging others' sexual activities?). There's always that one girl who's a walking chasm of STI's, and I don't call just anyone that type of girl without evidence. Also, it only makes it okay for males to call women sluts, bitches, and whores because women say all that to other women first. I know you aren't a girl and you were just joking, but you never know what effect your words could have when "it's just the Internet": look at Suzette and how she tried to delete CB because of things that happened strictly online.

Anyway, just because you exercise your right to have sex with whomever you want doesn't mean you're a slut; that's ridiculous and a rather naive statement to make. Whoever said that needs to grow up and see what it's like to want to sleep around and have to restrain herself for the sake of doing it only with guys she at least likes, if not loves, and to feel like a slut for having such thoughts/committing said acts.

you can safely call liz a slut

[brooklyneast05]

are we talking about real whores or just the title given to girls who sleep around

[tokyo-rose]

are we talking about real whores or just the title given to girls who sleep around

I'm assuming the latter, since most people throw the terms around to describe females who are sexually active and willing to talk about it, though not necessarily the latter.

[Reidar]

Being promiscuous says absolutely nothing about your incentive for doing so in the first place so that quote has zero basis for presuming someone who sleeps around is looking for anything more than fleshly pleasure.

It's one of those instances where someone takes the obvious (in this case, how being too easy can be something you'll regret later), rewords it as a novelty in an attempt to sound profound and deep, and somehow f*cks the entire point up in the revising process.

[creole]

Meh, I make it a point never to call another girl a slut or whore unless I know for a fact she sleeps around because she doesn't have enough self-respect and caution to be safe and control herself (but even then, what business do I have judging others' sexual activities?). There's always that one girl who's a walking chasm of STI's, and I don't call just anyone that type of girl without evidence. Also, it only makes it okay for males to call women sluts, bitches, and whores because women say all that to other women first. I know you aren't a girl and you were just joking, but you never know what effect your words could have when "it's just the Internet": look at Suzette and how she tried to delete CB because of things that happened strictly online.

Anyway, just because you exercise your right to have sex with whomever you want doesn't mean you're a slut; that's ridiculous and a rather naive statement to make. Whoever said that needs to grow up and see what it's like to want to sleep around and have to restrain herself for the sake of doing it only with guys she at least likes, if not loves, and to feel like a slut for having such thoughts/committing said acts.

What would you call a girl that you know that slept with your boyfriend, and all of your friend's boyfriends, hell maybe even your siblings or your own dad?

[Simba]

is this topic about liz

[gojira]

yes, yes it is about liz

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i don't refrain from calling girls sluts or whores, especially if they lack certain morals. ex: sleeping with your friend's boyfriend or ex-boyfriend. i just call liz a slut because it's fun :) love you, bitch

[tokyo-rose]

i don't refrain from calling girls sluts or whores, especially if they lack certain morals. ex: sleeping with your friend's boyfriend or ex-boyfriend. i just call liz a slut because it's fun :) love you, bitch

That's the only time I ever consider a girl to be either one of those, too. Why ex-boyfriend, though? Because "that's just like, the rules of feminism"? I re-watched Mean Girls recently and occasionally quote lines from it in real life lol.

[batman]

^ it shows a lack of respect and consideration for the friend if you sleep with their ex.

[tokyo-rose]

^ it shows a lack of respect and consideration for the friend if you sleep with their ex.

That's true. I can't empathize because I've remained a virgin (lol, late bloomer I guess :p), but I know I wouldn't appreciate it if a friend slept with ex without at least asking how I'd feel about it.

[libertie]

sleeping with =/= dating

..because apparently I committed suicide within my sorority by entering into a serious relationship with a guy who used to date a girl in the sorority I barely know. Who knew.

[DoubleJ]

I personally believe that no woman is a slut or a whore.

[sixfive]

I personally believe that no woman is a slut or a whore.

heh