Something different, ... maybe |
Something different, ... maybe |
May 19 2010, 06:44 PM
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BBM: 310ED181 Group: Member Posts: 613 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,976 |
Ok I have a serious dilemma, I can either:
Reason for 2: I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 6 months now. She completely despises the fact that I'm trying to 'man up' (her words, not mine). She likes the old (weak) person I was and despises the new person I'm becoming (in her words: a douchebag). What am I supposed to do? |
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May 19 2010, 06:58 PM
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Sarcastic Mr. Know-It-All Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 29 |
useless without pics of your girlfriend
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May 19 2010, 07:02 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
damn what is wrong with your friends. your friends are going to leave you if you get in better shape? if you wanna weight lift then why not, it's good for you. i've never heard of a girlfriend who didn't like a guy in good shape and would rather him be weak and scrawny. she should get over it. just because you want to gain confidence physically, be able to relate more to other guys, etc doesn't mean you're a douchebag.
i don't really understand the other part about how you're trying to show no pain or emotion. what do you mean? do you just cry a lot and get hurt a lot now or something? if lifting weights to "man up" is going to make you feel better about yourself then you should do it. |
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May 19 2010, 07:36 PM
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BBM: 310ED181 Group: Member Posts: 613 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,976 |
QUOTE i don't really understand the other part about how you're trying to show no pain or emotion. what do you mean? do you just cry a lot and get hurt a lot now or something? I'm usually just a empathetic person (among guys: HUGE disadvantage, but girls love it), but I'm tired of just getting all this shit from other guys in gym. I'm always called a f****t and cocksucker and shit like that. I just want to prove them that I can be a guy (and less of a weakling). The general hypermasculine stoic stereotype in our high school reigns supreme. The only sport that I'm good at (surfing) , I can't play where I live. And according to the male student body (Jock = Good, Girls love you, etc.) (Not in a sport= stupid, pathetic, ugly, gay, retarded, etc.) also (any emotion besides anger= extreme weakness, [no balls, ect.]) (anger= powerful, commands respect) My girlfriend said to try out for the football team next year (sure... great idea 5' 11', 188 pound guy would be perfect for football). Also, people at my school hate the fact that i hate wrestling, MMA; the only sports team i've ever respected is the Yankees. I don't watch sports, i don't play sports. |
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May 19 2010, 07:55 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
f*ck you f****t. MMA ftw
Work out if you want to. It doesn't have to be a social event. Ignore the other guys and just listen to some music or some shit. I know plenty of guys that, while they don't care if someone will works out with them, they would rather keep the socializing down to a minimum until there just cooling down. Tell the others to suck your dick because your trying to work out. If you are dating a girl who would break up with you for working out then that's your issue. |
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May 19 2010, 08:56 PM
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BBM: 310ED181 Group: Member Posts: 613 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,976 |
Apparently i'm also gay because of my schedule:
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May 20 2010, 02:36 AM
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‹(. .)› Group: Official Member Posts: 2,367 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,089 |
your high school appears to be full of idiots. like what you like, do what you do, and f*ck what others think.
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May 20 2010, 09:18 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,454 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 696,018 |
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May 20 2010, 09:22 AM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,020 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
Apparently i'm also gay because of my schedule:
You're not gay but you're a f****t for being insecure and a pussy for not doing anything about it. So you're a f****t pussy. They were right, somewhat. |
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May 20 2010, 09:22 AM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,020 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
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May 20 2010, 09:41 AM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
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May 21 2010, 02:08 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,223 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,356 |
What the f*ck kind of school and friends do you go to/have?
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May 21 2010, 02:08 AM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
^I am pretty sure he attends one of the schools on the Disney channel.
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May 21 2010, 05:42 AM
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This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
your high school appears to be full of idiots. like what you like, do what you do, and f*ck what others think. Yeah.. This is so strange, that people would care so much about what YOU do. If you want to work out, you should do it because you want to, not because your friends want you to. And if working out/getting tougher or whatever ends up being something that makes you happy and your girlfriend doesn't like it, then she's being incredibly selfish. |
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May 21 2010, 08:35 AM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
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May 21 2010, 08:56 AM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,020 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
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May 21 2010, 01:18 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
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May 21 2010, 09:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
Be yourself.
Do what you want to do. if sacrifices happen, thats they're fault not yours. |
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May 22 2010, 12:56 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Dec 2009 Member No: 756,299 |
six months is not that long, you shouldn't let your girlfriend tell you what to do or what not to do. there are plenty of fish in the sea and if she don't like what you're becoming today well tough. you should do what makes you happy.
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Jul 14 2010, 05:22 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Jul 2010 Member No: 761,084 |
Im also a skinny guy, sports not my thing... u mustn't take what ppl say so seriously. Just push it aside and be who you want to be. It works for me, my friends respect me for it because it shows who i am and who i dont wanna be. And its high school? who remembers high school after 10 years? and with the subjects u studying I bet you gonna be some body awesome while those other guys are just gonna be the same dumb jocks that wont knw more than 2+2 = 4 at the end of the day. But then again american's culture is very different to ours (no offence)
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Jul 14 2010, 09:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
why cant you be both?
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Jul 15 2010, 03:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 706 Joined: Sep 2009 Member No: 745,302 |
anyone else notice this bitch is saying all that just so he could post his schedule to look smart? f*ck you you scrawny shit stain
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Jul 16 2010, 10:02 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
agreed
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