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Help Me, please take this poll! Input from any1!
you know this girl for 2 years, and you fall in love with her, but you don't want to tell because you don't want to loose your relationship. But if you don't tell her, you will be dissapointed at yourself. what will you do?
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shadow9677864
post Jul 1 2004, 03:23 AM
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PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
 
LiNHy POO
post Jul 1 2004, 03:26 AM
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you should tell her how you really feel... its best that she at least knows!!!
 
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post Jul 1 2004, 03:28 AM
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ok. if you're in love with her and she's not in love with you then you're in a bad place. if you love eeachother, spiffy! happy.gif but if she doesn't like you then you best stop liking her. it'll save you alot of pain and wondering. i know what you're goin through. i've been there. just ask her. eather way it goes is progress but just waitin around is...well... waiting around.
 
dani41790
post Jul 1 2004, 04:34 AM
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i think u should tell her.
 
lAzN YiN YanGl
post Jul 1 2004, 09:13 AM
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this brings back memories...it was this way with my best friend that i knew for 4 years and i knew i felt something for her ever since we met. i didn't tell her and she found out, i haven't tlaked to her since then (its been almost a year...)
 
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post Jul 1 2004, 09:57 AM
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Ask or feel forever regret. The worst that can happen is not as bad as you think. If she's a true friend, then she will stay your true friend even if the answer is no. If it's yes, then good job. It'll probably hurt if it's a no, but at least get the regret away first. Number one "killer."
 
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post Jul 1 2004, 10:42 PM
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i say tell her. if she is a really good friend then even if she doesnt feel the same way you can still be friends
 
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post Jul 1 2004, 10:56 PM
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DUDE. TELL HER. CUZ SHE MiTE BE FEELiNG THE SAME WAY TOWARDS YOU & iF YOU DON'T SAY ANYTHiNG THEN YOU COULD BE GiViNG UP THE ONE PERSON iN LiFE THAT EVER REALLY MATTERS. JUS TELL HER. NO REGRETS. LiVE LiFE TO THE FULLEST & TAKE CHANCES.
 
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post Jul 1 2004, 11:37 PM
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hell if _dry.gif she don't like you and she's a real friend then she'll just forget about it! ermm.gif go for it!



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post Jul 2 2004, 12:49 AM
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Wow it's been a long time!!
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You'll regret what you didn't do more than what you did do.


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post Jul 2 2004, 01:32 AM
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tell her.. cuz.. what if she likes u back..? you'll never know.. unless you get someone to help u ask..
 
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post Jul 2 2004, 01:36 AM
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i let girls do that job for me lol... girls making the first move..

it kinda means to me that she has some sort of confidence.. a good quality in one's personnality to have. happy.gif .. obviously, don't take that gay advice from a newb..

tell her how u feel. say that u want to have a relationship or.. taking our friendship to the next step.. something like that. have the balls to DO IT.

"many of life's 'almosts' are people who don't realize how close they are to success when they give up." <-- another good quote.. similar to TBoltz happy.gif
 
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post Jul 2 2004, 02:31 AM
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tell her of course .. =]]
 
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post Jul 2 2004, 10:34 PM
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TELL HER! NOWWWWWWWWW
 
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post Aug 2 2005, 12:32 PM
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I don't think you should tell her you LOVE her. That might be a little too much for this girl to take in. I think it's better to tell her you LIKE her, so it's not that over whelming.
 
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post Aug 2 2005, 12:34 PM
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COMMUNICATION-TELL HER DAMMIT!

You gotta tell the person. Your chances go up higher once you file an application!


I got that from a movie..Win a date with tad hamilton I think..
 
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post Aug 2 2005, 12:36 PM
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Ask her. In life, you don't regret your failures; you regret not trying at all.
 
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post Aug 2 2005, 02:48 PM
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well in this case, it would be a boy lol... but im taken lol.. but if i were in that situation with a boy i would tell him, even though it would be tough for me
 
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post Aug 2 2005, 04:41 PM
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Dammit...

You are in almost THE EXACT same position I was in.

2 years, close friends, all that.

What happend to me?


I told her (der)

What happend?

She basically accepted it and we got closer as friends.

What happend later?

Well, being the guy I was, I felt akward, and I made akward situations.

Result?

We grew farther apart and me being as deep into it as I was, was left with about a year+ of pain.


Solution?

Tell her, but don't be akward around her afterwards or you will scare her off.
 
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post Aug 2 2005, 05:04 PM
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something i dont understand is if you tell them how would you lose your friendship? if your friendship was really all that, then she would be fine with it because she knows you two are good friends
 
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post Aug 2 2005, 05:25 PM
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just ASK HER!!

If she sais she doens't like you as a bf type, than you can still cuntinue your friendship. _smile.gif

If she sais she likes oyu in that way as well, than that's aweosme shifty.gif
 
megan_x3
post Aug 2 2005, 05:33 PM
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Ask her. You'll regret if you don't ask her if you realy like her. Once when you have the guts to like her, maybe someone else will ask her out and then suddenly, shes not yours anymore. Think about it. Go ahead and try not to ask, its your choice. For me, go ask her.
 
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post Aug 3 2005, 12:33 PM
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You mean tell her, you put ask her happy.gif well I think you should tell her. Maybe she feels the same way about you or maybe not... cry.gif
 
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post Aug 3 2005, 12:33 PM
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You mean tell her, you put ask her happy.gif well I think you should tell her. Maybe she feels the same way about you or maybe not... cry.gif
 
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post Aug 3 2005, 06:35 PM
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tell her how you feel.
I'm in the same kind of situation, and I know how hard it is to tell a friend that kind of thing... but you'll regret it later if you don't.
 

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