he hasnt talked to me for 3 days, did he just break up with me?, please be nice, i need advice..im at fragile state here ;[ |
he hasnt talked to me for 3 days, did he just break up with me?, please be nice, i need advice..im at fragile state here ;[ |
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okay, its almost 3 months ive been dating this guy mike..the last time i hung out and talked to him was this past weds. we were totally fine, nothing different about him, we spent the whole day and almost all night together. i got home and we usually play scrabble online on fbook (yes we're nerds like that) and we're both competitive and i was winning and he was getting pissed.but im like im sorry ure all mad and hes like "no its ok its not ur fault ur good..and hes like im just mad right now im gonna go to sleep..gnite" usually when me and him play and either of us gets pissed..we get over it and he always gets ovr it the nxt day.
well thursday-saturday (yest), we havent talked to each other..and my paranoid self got so worried and wondering wtf is going on. hes done the no talking thing for a day at the most but he'll explain and apologize the very nxt day bc he knows already i dont like it when im trying to talk to him and im left in the dark w/no answers back. but i didnt do anything like txt or call him on thrs. friday i txted him sthing simple like hey what are u up to?, saturday i called him on my lunch break@wrk around 1pm..and my bestie was like u know what give me his# so she called him and he answered..so shes like call him right now..so i did..he didnt pick up. my friends are telling me that hes straight up being a dick and hes clearly ignoring me and that i should just break up with him..so now im just wonderin wtf im supposed to do and im wondering if its even possible for s.one to just have no feelings for me all of a sudden in the past 3 days? and is this his way of breaking up with me? this is the 4th time hes done this whole no talking to me thing..but its NEVER EVER been this long. i am planning to break up with him..im just worried that ifi make that decision..that its the wrong thing..but everyones saying how he cant be that busy for 3 days and that he wouldnt ansser some randoms person # and ignore urs, and theres a very slim chance that theres a legit reason/excuse to why hes doing this. if he doesnt get back to me today..im leaving his shit on his doorstep tomorrow. im not gonna call or txt him at all today or anything. im done with this mess, thats the only answer he'll get from me is that i left his shit on his doorstep = breakup. |
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