i hate my friends, a testimonial thread Options

[goth-nina]

I hate my friends. Thus, I have no friends. & I'm happy.

[hypnotique]

My one best friend just recently had a kid (at age 18) with her unbearable boyfriend/weekday baby daddy. And I say weekday because she actually lets this bastard off the hook every weekend to not call her or check up on his son for an entire weekend and he has also never actually spent the night or babysat with his own son. oh and yes he has a daughter he gave up to foster care just barely a YEAR before this bundle of joy came along.

Needless to say shes in love and feels its forever, yet he still has yet to get a job, her mother has to drive him to his little video game design school, and she keeps hinting towards marriage and he keeps pushing back further and further from her yet shes too dumb to notice this.

I hate her so much at this point because she will only crawl back to me and my other best friend only to bitch about this idiot manchild (hes 25) or look for a babysitter so that her and her precious hubby to be can be together alone, shes also not willing to hang out with us unless her man is present with her to cuddle and make her feel i guess have a purpose?!? idk.

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[karmakiller]

^ Kind of reminds of a problem one of my friends is having with her younger sister. Her sister is 19 and getting married to man who constantly cheats on her. She will call up my friend (her sister) and complain about everything he does and how he treats her. He will go weeks before he says her and she makes excuses for him and actually believes that he's being faithful to her during his absences. I'm not really surprised, based on her past, because she had a son when she was 16 and gave him up for adoption and claims that now she's ready to start a family. Sorry, but, 19 and marrying and a guy who cheats on you does not seem like you're ready to have a family.

[hypnotique]

So i deleted her off facebook and myspace and also blocked her phone number after getting fed up with her flippy floppy bubble head bullshit.

she promised me and my male best friend we would be her sons godparents for the last 2 years but as of 2 days ago decided to go with her lovely baby daddy/boyfriend/daytime father's crackhead sister and her boyfriend who is currently in jail and actually went as far as not inviting any of her close friends to the baptism and it seems only his family and friends are going to be there.

so me and my group of friends just decided to kick her ass to the curb at this point.

[jpf-furious]

I am 31 year old guy writing this message aimed at my boring, using, deceitful, "friends." To give you a little background information the friends in reference are a group of 5 or 6 guys I have been friends with since high school. We where the kind of friends who went on holidays together, went to concerts together, and went out on friday and saturday night together. For the past few years they have neglected to ask me along to night outs, concerts, etc. I have been guilty of not facing up to the truth until recently and have made an effort to start socialising with other people. Instead of phoning or texting my old mates to see if they had any plans for the weekend etc, I am now making an effort to go out with new people and have a proper laugh instead of being ignored, lied to, sneared at when Im in their company, listening to them indulge themselves in their boring pretentious conversations. being ignored by them when Im in their company, the list goes on....
Ok, you must be thinking "what took you so long to catch yourself on you bloody doormat." Well, I know and I cant quite believe it and I am ashamed. But I have started to change this and this feels like a very cathartic thing to do so please let me indulge myself.Just before I begin my rant I would just like to add their has been a sudden interest in me from my old friends, it seems the less I have been trying to socialise with them the more they want to invite me along to for a night out or a drink at their house. The thing is I just want to ignore them now, I feel as if they are pestering me and are nothing but an irritation,I cant stand them now. So I just want to get it off my chest.
I feel this is a good point to start my rant in proper. WARNING! THE LANGUAGE I AM ABOUT TO USE IS ABSOLUTLEY FOUL.

Here goes - f*ck OFF!I f*ckIN HATE YOU c**ts!I DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU FANNIES. I HATE YOU LOT AND YOUR f*ckING CHARMLESS AS f*ck BINTS YOU CALL GIRLFRIENDS OR WIVES OR WHATEVER. I HATE YOU c**ts AND YOUR SHITTY LITTLE MIDDLECLASS WANNA BE LIVES, WITH YOUR TWEE AS f*ck "LETS ACT SOPHISTICATED AND MIDDLE CLASS DINNER PARTIES" THAT YOU PURPOSEFULLY EXCLUDE ME FROM AND THEN INVITE ME ALONG TO ONE OF YOUR WEDDINGS LIKE YOUR THROWING A DOG A f*ckING BONE. I HATE YOU AND YOUR SHITEY BORING AND PREDICTABLE AS f*ck US SKY 1 SERIES THAT YOU WATCH AND THEN MAKE UNFUNNY AS f*ck REFERENCES TO. YOU ARE JUST FANNIES AND I DONT WANT TO WAISTE MY TIME AND MONEY ON YOU.
f*ck YOU! f*ck YOU ALL!

[DoubleJ]

wow oddly enough I am going through the same thing right now.

[jpf-furious]

I am 31 year old guy writing this message aimed at my boring, using, deceitful, "friends." To give you a little background information the friends in reference are a group of 5 or 6 guys I have been friends with since high school. We where the kind of friends who went on holidays together, went to concerts together, and went out on friday and saturday night together. For the past few years they have neglected to ask me along to night outs, concerts, etc. I have been guilty of not facing up to the truth until recently and have made an effort to start socialising with other people. Instead of phoning or texting my old mates to see if they had any plans for the weekend etc, I am now making an effort to go out with new people and have a proper laugh instead of being ignored, lied to, sneared at when Im in their company, listening to them indulge themselves in their boring pretentious conversations. being ignored by them when Im in their company, the list goes on....
Ok, you must be thinking "what took you so long to catch yourself on you bloody doormat." Well, I know and I cant quite believe it and I am ashamed. But I have started to change this and this feels like a very cathartic thing to do so please let me indulge myself.Just before I begin my rant I would just like to add their has been a sudden interest in me from my old friends, it seems the less I have been trying to socialise with them the more they want to invite me along to for a night out or a drink at their house. The thing is I just want to ignore them now, I feel as if they are pestering me and are nothing but an irritation,I cant stand them now. So I just want to get it off my chest.
I feel this is a good point to start my rant in proper. WARNING! THE LANGUAGE I AM ABOUT TO USE IS ABSOLUTLEY FOUL.

Here goes - f*ck OFF!I f*ckIN HATE YOU c**ts!I DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU FANNIES. I HATE YOU LOT AND YOUR f*ckING CHARMLESS AS f*ck BINTS YOU CALL GIRLFRIENDS OR WIVES OR WHATEVER. I HATE YOU c**ts AND YOUR SHITTY LITTLE MIDDLECLASS WANNA BE LIVES, WITH YOUR TWEE AS f*ck "LETS ACT SOPHISTICATED AND MIDDLE CLASS DINNER PARTIES" THAT YOU PURPOSEFULLY EXCLUDE ME FROM AND THEN INVITE ME ALONG TO ONE OF YOUR WEDDINGS LIKE YOUR THROWING A DOG A f*ckING BONE. I HATE YOU AND YOUR SHITEY BORING AND PREDICTABLE AS f*ck US SKY 1 SERIES THAT YOU WATCH AND THEN MAKE UNFUNNY AS f*ck REFERENCES TO. YOU ARE JUST FANNIES AND I DONT WANT TO WAISTE MY TIME AND MONEY ON YOU.
f*ck YOU! f*ck YOU ALL!

[Fat2death]

Ok. You're clearly mad.

[jpf-furious]

Ok. You're clearly mad.

and your point is?

[Maccabee]

You are clearly scordid.

[Maccabee]

You are wrong. fix your attitude. Your focusing your life on the wrong things. I hope you find what you really need in life.

[jpf-furious]

You are clearly scordid.

scordid ? you have lost me with one.

[Maccabee]

your mother obviously wasnt enough of a harridan. Shame.

[jpf-furious]

wow oddly enough I am going through the same thing right now.

The only thing I can say is cut off your connections with them and move on, if you are not doing that already. Good luck man, thanks for replying.

your mother obviously wasnt enough of a harridan. Shame.

Yep, but I feel this was a good thing.

Reason for edit: Posts merged darling- Diana

[colddesert]

I hate most of my friends.. they f*ckin piss me off. I would do away with them but then I would be lonely. I have major problems with hypocritical people and my "best friend" is a major hypocrite. I wont be mean and tell her to her face because I know that not everyone is perfect, but it just f*ckin tears me up inside.

[heyo-captain-jac...]

I hate humans in general. Love yourself every night man.

[Annabean]

I hate most of my friends.. they f*ckin piss me off. I would do away with them but then I would be lonely. I have major problems with hypocritical people and my "best friend" is a major hypocrite. I wont be mean and tell her to her face because I know that not everyone is perfect, but it just f*ckin tears me up inside.

Can't you like associate with other ppl?
If you cut them off you shouldn't be lonely. Find some other ppl.
out of all the ppl in the world, u just can't limit urself to
a select few...

[colddesert]

Can't you like associate with other ppl?
If you cut them off you shouldn't be lonely. Find some other ppl.
out of all the ppl in the world, u just can't limit urself to
a select few...

That's easier said than done...

[tokyo-rose]

Merged with "i hate my friends: a testimonial thread."

[StubbornFemme]

i hate how one of my best friends just gets so pissed or shes been getting pissed off at me lately because she feels as if shes doing the planning for a lot of things and etc and i usually say no...WHY? because im dead flat broke, being laid off isnt fun and i just barely started my new job..and she knows this but she f*cking doesnt it get it stimes! its not that im doing it on purpose...its either you want to pay for me or i cant go. its just pissed me off to the pt to where she needs to put herself into my shoes..im not made outta gold.

[rnicron]

my friends didn't want to spend $500 to have someone make their reception invites, so they asked me. they didn't tell me that it would have cost them that much until i was done making them. i did it to be nice, but now i feel used. asses

[Annabean]

I wouldn't say i hate my friends, but i do strongly dislike some
of the things they do when it comes to me. They both help and hurt.

Quote: "easier said then done" Yeah, i was kind of thinking that
when i was replying to you, but if you want to you can find
new people. It'll take time, but it'll happen. Some indiviuals
who run over you or just act like idiots are not good for you.
cut them loose. {in my opinion}

[colddesert]

I wouldn't say i hate my friends, but i do strongly dislike some
of the things they do when it comes to me. They both help and hurt.

Quote: "easier said then done" Yeah, i was kind of thinking that
when i was replying to you, but if you want to you can find
new people. It'll take time, but it'll happen. Some indiviuals
who run over you or just act like idiots are not good for you.
cut them loose. {in my opinion}

The thing is that most people meet all of their friends in high school and then meet people through them and so on. I don't have any friends from high school. When you have no or few friends it is very hard to meet new friends.

[AngryBaby]

wow oddly enough I am going through the same thing right now.

this^ its crazy... i was thinking about my situation when i typed in "creatblog", and then i see this topic lol.


ill probably go more in depth later but if there is a few words to describe our relationship they would be...."competitive"..."superiority complex"...."false endeerment"....and "using" (of me specifically) im more aware of these things going on with my friends then they are so i try to make SURE i don't fall into it myself. but im literally at the point where i feel the need to distance myself...seriously. matter of fact i know i have to.

[jpf-furious]

this^ its crazy... i was thinking about my situation when i typed in "creatblog", and then i see this topic lol.
ill probably go more in depth later but if there is a few words to describe our relationship they would be...."competitive"..."superiority complex"...."false endeerment"....and "using" (of me specifically) im more aware of these things going on with my friends then they are so i try to make SURE i don't fall into it myself. but im literally at the point where i feel the need to distance myself...seriously. matter of fact i know i have to.

You put that in a more succinct and eloquent way than I ever could and it sums up exactly the way I feel. Thanks