what are you suppose to do when Options

[MoneyIsDaMotive]

when you look though your love's
myspace messages and you see stuff like
telling her friends she been going out
and shes so tired. and has cheated on you
before.but she tells me she hasnt. and been with
her son all night. and she promises.
tells me that she miss's me
her mom caught her phone off cause the bill was so high.
so we only talk 15mins a day, and around 9, if she calls.
she'll said she tired i need to go bed. and
maybe tellin her friends that to make herself look good???
and on myspace messages, guys asking can they pick her up
but she ignores them or make an accuse but i don't think she erases messages
she saves every message.....what do you think? has she been going out everynight?


mybad about not making full sentences.
i live in hawaii so
i talk pidgen. like "i go sleep"etc so its kinda hard to type perfect

[ley]

Call Joey Greco.

[karmakiller]

^ Haha, for sure.

Is there a reason why you can't physically go see her, and you only talk a little bit during the day?

[brooklyneast05]

why are you going through her messages

[none345678]

I don't meet up with ever guy on myspace who asks me out. So take that with a grain of salt.

[Mikeplyts]

Confront her about it.

[Maccabee]

Dump her. She cheated. How complicated is it? Unless it is a serious relationship then do what they said and confront her. Bring it up. Talk about it. Solve it.

[karmakiller]

^ I think this guy has a kid with her... or maybe I am thinking of someone else.

[none345678]

No I think it's the same guy.

[Mikeplyts]

Yeah, it's the same guy.

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

LOL no wonder why she got kids. I would have broke up with her once I stepped through that door and seen that baby face. Ain't no way I'll date a girl with kids unless I got kids of my own.

[MoneyIsDaMotive]

^ I think this guy has a kid with her... or maybe I am thinking of someone else.

YEA THATS THE DAMN PROBLEM

[Mikeplyts]

KC would give away his kid to charity...so, uh yeah.



I say dump her. If she's with someone else, the other guy can support her then. If he can't, then give the kid up for adoption or something if you don't plan on getting back with her and she can't support the kid.

[hypnotique]

LOL no wonder why she got kids. I would have broke up with her once I stepped through that door and seen that baby face. Ain't no way I'll date a girl with kids unless I got kids of my own.

How could you be so heartless?

[karmakiller]

^ LOL, you make it sound he'd give his kid to Goodwill or somethin'.

YEA THATS THE DAMN PROBLEM

Here's some tough love: You had sex with her. When you decide to have sex you should know that even if you do use some form of protection there is always a chance of having a baby. The baby isn't the problem. The baby is innocent in this situation, so if you're thinking about cutting all your ties with her and your child you should think again.

With that said, if she's been messing around on you GET A PATERNITY TEST, because there is a chance it might not be yours. You don't want to support a child with your money and time if it is not yours (even if the kid is wonderful, you shouldn't have a legal obligation to him/her if it's not yours.)

If the kid is yours, then you need to be civil with her. You're attached to her for the rest of that child's life, and since that child hopefully won't leave Earth before you, that means the rest of your life, too. Don't cause unnecessary drama. Don't hold anything she does/did against the kid. If you and her aren't getting along very well, then you might want to end it before your relationship gets ugly, because that might cause problems when it comes to your baby. I'd hope that you'd rather have your child know both it's parents and for you and her to deal with each other when it comes to that child than try to force this relationship to work and subject your child to growing up in that kind of environment.

[MoneyIsDaMotive]

i did get a test, its mine.
and my son isnt the problem,
its i don't wanna leave him.
and she said i better not leave her
she'll won't let me see the baby
or she'll report to the pigs. about
ah...what i been doing...and i can't
let that happen. so i can't leave.or
she'll snitch. i told her that ill take care
of xaiden and be her friend, but shes acting
pysco.she never acted like this before. she said
she needs me? damn i don't know what to do.

[Mikeplyts]

What have you been doing? Um, when you say pigs, do you mean the police?

[MoneyIsDaMotive]

What have you been doing? Um, when you say pigs, do you mean the police?

Ah, i can't say. and Yea thats the pigs.

yeah i did she don't care, not report him.but report me.snitch on me

why are you going through her messages

she had her myspace open in her inbox, and
i saw these messages from this guy, she never logs off
of myspace, but i don't go threw her shit.
but i was curios that one time and that 1 message was alot.

[brooklyneast05]

most of that shit didn't even have to happen
but you don't think about it when you out there trappin

[MoneyIsDaMotive]

most of that shit didn't even have to happen
but you don't think about it when you out there trappin

Any way she could prove i be trappin?

[brooklyneast05]

Any way she could prove i be trappin?

i duno, is there? i don't know how much she knows about your shit. this is the risk you knowingly take when you start with the trappin though.

[MoneyIsDaMotive]

she knows where the trap house at.
but she gonna get hated/or shot at if she snitches that out right?

[brooklyneast05]

ummmm, i don't know. it's not like you'd be off the hook. probably if she snitched YOU would get shot since it's your baby mama shit that caused it.

[MoneyIsDaMotive]

mayne i gotta find a way out this relationship

[brooklyneast05]