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Rei
post Mar 17 2004, 07:24 PM
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Daym im only 15 and i have a 3 month old daughter my husband divorced me. i dont know what to do and i know this isnt the place to talk about it but i cant find any other place i need advice. i really do.
 
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post May 21 2004, 08:00 AM
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she left! oh no i didnt get to say what i wanted..u guys think that u may have scared her away?? _dry.gif
 
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post May 21 2004, 09:29 AM
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personally, I thinks a large number of guys walk out when that have a kid at such a yound age. due to the fact that they know they are not going to be able to be responsible and take care of it. Also they might be afraid and not know what to do with the rest of there life

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post May 21 2004, 05:43 PM
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post May 21 2004, 05:58 PM
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I think it's best to put the baby up for adoption cuz if you're that young, you need to focus your life on school and all that important stuff. Taking care of a baby would hinder your goals for the future since you need to spend all that time caring for the child and you don't have time for other stuff...
 
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post May 21 2004, 05:58 PM
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shouldve used condomz... ^_^
 
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post May 21 2004, 06:13 PM
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this isn't real. people, stop commenting.
 
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post May 31 2004, 01:49 PM
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QUOTE(waccoon @ May 21 2004, 6:13 PM)
this isn't real. people, stop commenting.

For real..i think i just noticed that.
 
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post May 31 2004, 07:53 PM
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you could always give your baby up for adoption....
 
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post May 31 2004, 08:10 PM
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QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Mar 23 2004, 12:59 AM)
Aww, well maybe you should've gotten an abortion or something. But then, did Bush ban abortions? I heard he did.. but I'm not sure..

i don't think abortions are right, with the exception of rape. you know what you are doing so you shouldn't kill a human being just to solve your problems.

anyway, if your parents don't help out you should get child support from your ex. that's a way to go. you could get help from welfare and there are places to help young mothers or something of that sort. you should look more into it. there are definitely services like that to help you. you just need to look into it.

my friend had a baby at 16. i don't even know how you cantake a care of a baby at that age, but you have to be grown now and deal with what comes. just look into those services. there should be tons of those around.
 
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post May 31 2004, 11:54 PM
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uhh...is this real?? well anyway..i am sorry you are a "teen mother". but. yeah. if youre gonna ask for help...the best thing to do is at least read and check back up..but yeah...
 
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post Jun 1 2004, 12:23 AM
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this could be true and all but i wont belive it at all. i have come across people who fake to be moms especially in kiwibox so ill just ignore it and close my mouth...
 
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post Jun 30 2004, 07:38 PM
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i'm 15...and i don't think i'll have to worry about that till i'm twice my age! ^_^
 
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post Jul 7 2004, 08:38 PM
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ask parents to help, pray, and he or his family, depending on his situation, or maybe both? im pretty sure have to pay child support so press that!
 
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post Jul 7 2004, 08:48 PM
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woaaaahhhhh amazing i didnt know none of that
 
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post Jul 7 2004, 08:51 PM
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uhh..sorry, but you cant get married when you're 15. pinch.gif
 
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post Jul 7 2004, 09:42 PM
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how can your be married when your 15.....? like legally married? so bs..
 
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post Jul 8 2004, 10:53 AM
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i was adopted, my birth mom had me when she was 16, personally, im VERY glad she did,(give me up for adoption)you should consider open adoption, then you can see your child from time to time and watch her grow, but you wont have to give up your life to raise her/him. my birth mom went to pharmacy school and shes really smart and im proud of her. I didn't know you could get married at 15?!? But anyway, consider it. You could call places mayb like planned parenthood or sumthin? hope this helps! email me if u need to kno ne thing else its dumblonde101@hotmail.com.
 
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post Jul 8 2004, 11:48 AM
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im sorry for what happened :( but r you in school? if not go back, maybe find a nicer man later, ask your parents for help if you can
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 05:21 PM
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i was looking around the old threads in the girls locker and i found this and youre pregnant and youre asian!?! you make us look bad. you just made the girls look like sluts
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 05:24 PM
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im sry... idk how to help but maybe u can go to ur family for help like ur mom dad grandparents any relatives!
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 06:17 PM
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QUOTE(AznPryde324 @ Aug 16 2004, 5:21 PM)
i was looking around the old threads in the girls locker and i found this and youre pregnant and youre asian!?! you make us look bad. you just made the girls look like sluts

Dude man seriously your pissing me off. dude i dont care if this thread real or not she might be pregnant or what so ever but you dont call a girl you dont know a slut. youre making asians look bad not her a-hole.

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post Aug 16 2004, 07:02 PM
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eeks. bad situtation! idunno how to help. sorry!
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 08:26 PM
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ur in the wrong situation in the wrong time.. never do stunts like those... go listen to Dr. Laura or even better... call her. she will give u advice. stay wit ur parents (if ur not right now) n just take care of the kid... let ur maternal instinct take over.. do wats right for they kid.

well note to all the gurls that are reading.. dont have sex before Marriage. if u do... use a stupid condom dam... if ur to afraid of buying one in the stores.. then ur not ready to have sex. so yea..
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 08:41 PM
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this isn't real. people, stop commenting.


how do you know it isn't true.. i have a 13 year old friend who is pregnant 8 months already, and don't even ding dong tell me it isn't true... because i went to the doctors with her alright? and if she IS lying then that's just low.. but i think she's telling the truth..
 
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post Aug 16 2004, 08:54 PM
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i think u should like go tell someone about it. if u hav a whole future ahead of you , you could give the child to adoption, or soemthing.
i feel sry for you..
 
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