Does this constitute as a rejection?, and if so, what should i do? |
 May 16 2009, 02:10 PM
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 CheccMate Foo!  Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531  |
Okay so I met this girl while I was with another chick and started talking. Long story short, I chilled with her one night and we ummm "bom chicka bow wow" lolz. but it was a while ago and we haven't hanged out since. Now she gave me a reply message when I hinted in my message that I just wanted to hang out at home, cook dinner, and watch a movie with her.
It goes: ehh.. im the type to only spend time like that with a guy that im actually going out with.. i know that night at your house we did a lotta stuff and all but i think we jumped into that too fast. i never thought i'd do anything like that outta nowhere. you know i got standards right. so im just saying i like being friends right now. i'm not gonna be doing anything with anyone for a while.. sorry. she still wanna be friends but... like is that a rejection? and wth does that "standards" part mean? |
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May 22 2009, 02:01 PM
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May 24 2009, 03:42 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
hahahahz guys would probably poop their babies out in supersized toilets at the hospital.
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May 24 2009, 10:58 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
I haven't given up on this girl yet and I'll see to it that I have undeniable and undisputable closure for us. Summertime, I hope, will be our time to shine.
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May 24 2009, 11:22 PM
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 Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
....you are going to rape this bitch, arent you?
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May 24 2009, 11:25 PM
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QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ May 24 2009, 11:22 PM)  ....you are going to rape this bitch, arent you? No, but I am. |
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May 24 2009, 11:28 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
Video tape it, please.
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May 26 2009, 06:33 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Wait, wait, wait. Just out of pure curiosity, ahem, what constitutes as rape? I mean I'm pretty sure she'll be like okay.
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May 26 2009, 06:36 PM
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i thought you liked guys
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May 26 2009, 06:46 PM
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QUOTE(MrStrife @ May 26 2009, 07:33 PM) Wait, wait, wait. Just out of pure curiosity, ahem, what constitutes as rape? I mean I'm pretty sure she'll be like okay. rape is forced, unwanted sexual intercourse. and now women/men do not only have to say the word "no" for a case to be considered a rape, but they can say something as vague as, "i should go home", when put in an unwanted sexual situation. |
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Jun 7 2009, 09:43 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
That's good to know. lol. But really, I should let this go huh?
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Jun 7 2009, 10:03 PM
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QUOTE(DressYourEyelids @ May 26 2009, 04:46 PM) rape is forced, unwanted sexual intercourse. and now women/men do not only have to say the word "no" for a case to be considered a rape, but they can say something as vague as, "i should go home", when put in an unwanted sexual situation. not all the time |
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Jun 7 2009, 10:05 PM
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I LIKE TO CALL IT SURPRISE SEX
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Jun 8 2009, 11:29 AM
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QUOTE(MrStrife @ May 24 2009, 11:58 PM) I haven't given up on this girl yet and I'll see to it that I have undeniable and undisputable closure for us. Summertime, I hope, will be our time to shine. That my friend is called being a STALKER |
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Jun 8 2009, 11:55 AM
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pics of mrstrife
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Jun 20 2009, 05:04 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
I am so sad that it didn't work out. My homegirls tell me that I should just forget about her but like, how am I suppose to just forget about someone I was kinda close with?
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Jun 20 2009, 10:02 PM
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^she kind of make it clear that it was a one time thing and not to expect something more out of it.
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Jun 22 2009, 11:11 AM
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QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ May 24 2009, 11:22 PM) ....you are going to rape this bitch, arent you? You can't rape the willing. |
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Jun 24 2009, 07:18 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
HA!!! I got a date with her soon and I'm soo going to get laid.
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Jun 24 2009, 11:03 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
^Well congrats.
Keep us updated 
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Jun 25 2009, 08:26 AM
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Shutup man, you got free sex. Good job!
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Jul 5 2009, 10:13 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
JEEZ!!!! How the hell is it possible that it happens to me yet AGAIN?!??! Long story short, I slept with ANOTHER girl I met last year last night. Totally awesome time, but wtheck man. She makes all these excuses that she can't make time for me, that I might be falling for her and she can't have that, she just got out of a relationship (me too dumbass), and it just seems that it was a horrible decision especially when we both tried to take things really slow.
I guess I only have myself to blame, well along with her. |
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Jul 5 2009, 10:21 PM
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QUOTE(MrStrife @ Jul 5 2009, 11:13 PM) JEEZ!!!! How the hell is it possible that it happens to me yet AGAIN?!??! Long story short, I slept with ANOTHER girl I met last year last night. Totally awesome time, but wtheck man. She makes all these excuses that she can't make time for me, that I might be falling for her and she can't have that, she just got out of a relationship (me too dumbass), and it just seems that it was a horrible decision especially when we both tried to take things really slow. I guess I only have myself to blame, well along with her. you're a douche. |
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Jul 5 2009, 10:55 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
excuse me?!?! come again???
hell, it's like i'm the only one that gives a damn about the friendship, putting in a lot of effort. I know I'm wrong for giving in to temptation but so is she. If she just wants to let me go so she can live her life, then what can I say or do, huh? I feel like crap right now ok. If I knew this was going to be a deja vu like with that other girl earlier in this post, then I would've never done it. I thought it would be different. |
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Jul 5 2009, 11:00 PM
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QUOTE(MrStrife @ Jul 5 2009, 10:55 PM) excuse me?!?! come again??? hell, it's like i'm the only one that gives a damn about the friendship, putting in a lot of effort. I know I'm wrong for giving in to temptation but so is she. If she just wants to let me go so she can live her life, then what can I say or do, huh? I feel like crap right now ok. If I knew this was going to be a deja vu like with that other girl earlier in this post, then I would've never done it. I thought it would be different. you're the man bro, keep it up |
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Jul 5 2009, 11:03 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
LMFAO!!! well it was the best 4th of July, EVER!!
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