is it WRONG, to go out with someone 2-4 years younger |
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 Jun 29 2004, 08:41 PM
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yeah, depends on the person
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Jun 29 2004, 09:16 PM
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 did someone fart?! Group: Member Posts: 1,528 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,662 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 28 2004, 9:37 PM) noo.... im 13 and im going out with a 17 y/o guy!!! and iv gone out with other 16 y/o's also... its not that bad... juss dont do stuff!!!! Ooh. I think I'm a little on the same page as you.. except our age difference is bigger. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 21. A lot of it depends on the person, like others have said.. but there are always differences. For example, a Senior in HS going out with a Freshman in high school. Big difference, huh? That's around 3/4 years age difference. But then if you're 24 dating a 20 year old. That's not so bad. A lot of it also depends on the maturity of the person. But hey, as long as you're not 25 dating a 13 year old, and you like her for the right reasons then go ahead. Girls for the most part are more mature than guys--a 16 year old girl is way more mature than a 16 year old guy. That's why a lot of girls like going out with older guys. I say why not. 
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Jun 29 2004, 10:28 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
sometimes it's illegal lol .. but if you're happy then there's no reason why not ..
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Jun 29 2004, 10:55 PM
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hahah illegal.. yeah laws these days..
i feel so much better about my situation now.. lol.. hehe.. so yeah..l thanks.. so sophomore with 8th grader aint bad.. its only TWO years.. what bad can happen girls mature quicker then guys.. but is the girl im into.. into me.. if she avoides me and stuff.. does it mean she is shes confusing me.. =/ haha 
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Jun 29 2004, 11:09 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
i dont see anyting wrong with it. i went out with my ex ex when he was a senior and i was a freshmen. no biggie
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Jun 30 2004, 09:56 AM
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 hello. Group: Member Posts: 1,105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,600 |
well mii parents are ten years a part yes 10 years so 3 to 4 years isnt dat much...
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Jun 30 2004, 10:00 AM
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i don't think there's anything wrong with that. when i was 12, i dated a guy that was 16. i liked to date older guys cuz they were more mature, so i'm sure she feels the same way.
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Jun 30 2004, 12:16 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jun 28 2004, 7:06 PM) well.. if your a girl.. i guess it doesnt matter. im more into tradition.. i like the guy to be older but if u reli love him.. age doesnt matter.. my frien is currently dating a guy that is 11 yrs older than her..  11 yrs older?! whoa! i dunno..im kinda in the same boat with you cause i'm 14 and this guy is 17 and he likes me..but i don't know know if i should go out with him anways maybe i should stop babbling... 
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Jun 30 2004, 04:23 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
i'd never go out with a guy 2-4 yeard younger than me. but i've been out with a guy 2 years older than me...
so it depends |
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Jun 30 2004, 04:25 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
no, just make sure u dont get sued.
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Jun 30 2004, 04:53 PM
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it seems that people tend to date people their age while in school...but who knows...i don't think it's wrong to date a younger girl...i'm a girl and would like a guy who's older...that's for sure!
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Jul 3 2004, 03:30 AM
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i see.. haha.. problem is..
one .. .see each other once or twice a week umm sometimes not even once a week and umm a little to far.. from each otehr,,, sad isnt it,,, haha |
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Jul 3 2004, 05:09 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Honestly, I don't think age really matters. But I guess it should only be important between those in the relationship. If you're not bothered by it, then why should anyone else. I don't think it's wrong.
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Jul 3 2004, 08:13 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
age SHOULDNT matter... but some ppl still make it a matter.. just like how u SHOULDNT judge a book by its cover but ppl still do it rite? i think age matters depending how old u are, im a girl and im 17 the oldest ill go for rite now is... 21? thats 4years difference but if im 26 ill go for 30something... but yet again if im 12 i wont go for 16 ill probably go for 14 and thats it.. it really depends how old u are ..
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Jul 3 2004, 08:20 PM
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 carmii x33 Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,665 |
age shouldn't matTer. if yoo really do like or love them enough it shouldn't be a pr0blem for anyone. i broke up with my exbf before for that reason but a while later i realized that however someone looks, or what their age is shouldn't matter or affect the relationship at all
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Jul 3 2004, 08:24 PM
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its pretty young and i wouldnt date anyone that young cuz its like dating my little bro! but as long as you like/love him, its ok
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Jul 4 2004, 12:05 AM
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 monster hunter Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,203 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,188 |
Like Chinkiee said, if you don't want to be the next Michael Jackson, don't. When your 30, and shes 27, age won't really matter.
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Jul 4 2004, 10:42 AM
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there was a 25 year age difference between my parents when they married, she was 25 and my father was 50...so my mother can't really say much about older boys i might bring home...but i am 18...so there is a a slight difference....between me being 15 and bringing home some one who is 19...issues of legality arise
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Jul 19 2004, 09:52 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
well, i think it's fine. the oldest guy i've ever gone out with was four years older than me.
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Jul 19 2004, 09:59 PM
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 28:6:42:12 Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,269 |
Age doesn't matter, I'm 15(16 in Feb) and my bf is 17(18 in march). As long as ya love each other and your not doing anything wrong its alright ^_^
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Jul 20 2004, 12:18 AM
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yeah, i think it is perfectly fine. if you like her and she likes you i dont see the problem.
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Jul 20 2004, 12:38 PM
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age is just a number. love doesnt care for it
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Jul 20 2004, 02:09 PM
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1 year -- Sure!! Go out with them.
2 years -- Pushing it... but sure. Matters on how mature they are. 3 years -- If they're REALLY mature, have a relationship but don't go TOO far. 4 years -- I don't think so. 
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Jul 20 2004, 04:01 PM
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awww...well...there's always that "older guys, younger girls" thing...but what the heck!
My boyfriend's 1 year 9 months younger than me...and it was really weird because while I was 14, he was just 12 a month ago! But it really depends on your feelings. Do you really really like him/her that much? I mean...there are people who marry other who are, like, 16 years older/younger, and it doesn't really matter! |
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Jul 20 2004, 11:57 PM
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 i will be LOVED, some day. Group: Member Posts: 238 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 263 |
It depends.. If you're a girl then it just wouldn't seem right.. And if you're a guy then thats fine but you're 18+ and she's 4 years younger and under 18 then watch out.. Dont step in R-Kelly's shoes.. J/K!! J/K!!!
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