is it WRONG, to go out with someone 2-4 years younger |
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 Jun 28 2004, 07:04 PM
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hey.. im wondering.. if it is wrong to go out with someone that is around 2-4 years younger then you.. i need advice..
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Jun 28 2004, 07:11 PM
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save a horse...ride a cowboy! Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,125 |
it depends on how mature they are and how serious you are i guess its not that wierd if they like to do the same things you do and want the same things out of the relationship.
if its a girl, they mature faster so she may be at the same level as you |
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Jun 28 2004, 07:32 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
how old are you and are you a boy or girl?
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Jun 28 2004, 07:49 PM
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The Pope Group: Member Posts: 371 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,272 |
if u look at his screen name it says boy
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Jun 28 2004, 08:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
well.. if your a girl.. i guess it doesnt matter. im more into tradition.. i like the guy to be older but if u reli love him.. age doesnt matter.. my frien is currently dating a guy that is 11 yrs older than her..
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Jun 28 2004, 08:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
oops haha i mean.. if ure a girl. it does matter.. and your a guy right? so.. i guess it doesnt
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Jun 28 2004, 08:28 PM
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umm yes im a boy.. haha wellz im almost 16.. and shes like um three years, four years? younger then me... so shes around 13..
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Jun 28 2004, 08:36 PM
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 Clinically Insane!! Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,734 |
no, there is absoloutley NOTHING wrong with that. I've done it all my life. I personally like guys that are older then me. Women to tend to mature faster then guys and that may be why you're with her now. If you really care about her and if she really cares about you then you should let absoloutley NOTHING get in your way. not even age. There is a law but laws are gay and no one listens to them anyway. I know I dont. Just follow your heart.
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Jun 28 2004, 08:49 PM
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So you're 14.
And the girl is 10? Don't your friends make fun of you? Do they ever call you Micheal Jackson? - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jun 28 2004, 08:51 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
age shouldn't matter.
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Jun 28 2004, 08:57 PM
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I don't think it matters.
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Jun 28 2004, 09:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,040 |
im a sophomore.. almost 16... my friends mad fun of me when i was 14 going out with a 7th grader.. two years younger.. and yeah..
but now.. its someone four years younger.. and my age is 15.5.. not 14 or 13.. or some younger age.. she is 12 turning 13 |
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Jun 28 2004, 09:37 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
noo.... im 13 and im going out with a 17 y/o guy!!! and iv gone out with other 16 y/o's also... its not that bad... juss dont do stuff!!!!
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Jun 28 2004, 10:06 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,040 |
hmm... it seems like she likes you .. but tehn all of a sudden she avoids you.. what is she trying to tell you?
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Jun 28 2004, 11:56 PM
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QUOTE(lidoaznboi89 @ Jun 28 2004, 8:06 PM) hmm... it seems like she likes you .. but tehn all of a sudden she avoids you.. what is she trying to tell you? She's leading you on. Well, she LEAD you on. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jun 29 2004, 12:44 AM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
QUOTE(lidoaznboi89 @ Jun 28 2004, 9:09 PM) im a sophomore.. almost 16... my friends mad fun of me when i was 14 going out with a 7th grader.. two years younger.. and yeah.. but now.. its someone four years younger.. and my age is 15.5.. not 14 or 13.. or some younger age.. she is 12 turning 13 naa, it is ok, your friend is the one who doesn't know his stuff. |
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Jun 29 2004, 01:20 AM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
QUOTE(x3_kelly @ Jun 28 2004, 8:51 PM) age shouldn't matter. okay. go date a 40 yr old |
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Jun 29 2004, 04:27 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 94 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,708 |
it'd feel wrong for the girl.. she'd only be 11-13... that's kind of young, don't you think?
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Jun 29 2004, 06:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I think it's okay. I mean, I'm 15 and I've gone out with an 18 year old. It's just the way you think.
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Jun 29 2004, 05:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,421 |
mmk. lets review if you like this girl then go out with her there is nothing wrong age doesnt matter i mean it'd be weird if it was like someone who was like 23 and someone who was like 55 lol but thats not the case its only 3 years and if you really like her then it doesnt matter and if she likes you then it doesnt matter and if your friends make fun of you who cares lol but anyways if you really like this chick then go out with her/ask her out
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Jun 29 2004, 05:12 PM
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 tag! you're it! ;D Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,572 |
well it shouldn`t matter since that isn`t a biq biq biq difference .. 20 years to me is a biq difference . but that`s me .. if you really like her .. try askinq her out .. hope this helped .
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Jun 29 2004, 05:19 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
age doesnt matter as long as you love them thats all that matters
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Jun 29 2004, 06:42 PM
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Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
dont fool around w her tho cuz itll look bad go slow with the relationship
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Jun 29 2004, 07:06 PM
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 i`m in love & always will be Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,769 |
yeah as long as you love them but it all depends.. when you are older age dosent seem like a big factor but if I dated an 8 year old it might seem a little strange
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Jun 29 2004, 08:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,040 |
hey.. im to topic starter.. and i just wanna say thanks to all of you who helped me on my "situation".. made me think a lot.. i used to didnt think at all about AGE.. as a factor and i dont know why i do now.. so yeah.. i guess im just going to go for it.. haha like 3 weeks later.. since i dont get to see her for 3 weeks.. sad.. =/
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