my wife need help please Options

[coto2009]

ko here my story..i not really good typo n inglish so please bare with me ty

for 5 year i wus a ***hole .i go out to club to dj como home around 4am 6am
my wife ask me to change i did alot of atuff the make her cry..if she sry n ask me to atay home n not to dj today i go and dj ..and not stay home .well i did a lot of atupid shit becuse a wus ignorate..but i have realize the i wus nott so good to her .so i make change n my life she ask to change and a did.know im super nice dont go out to club stay home go to work i became a realy good husban like sha ask before ..but know she is the 1 who 1 to go out and party .n go to her friend house n stuff ....n when we get to a figth she pull the pass on me .Her:she u do this before bla bla .ok but why do i have to listen to her bring the pass on me becuse im not the men no more .if she 1 me to change n i didi .why bring the pass everytime there is a figth ..or i say i dont like you go out ..her the reazon i dont 1 her out

1.she go out with frind ok the drick at the house then they go n drive to the club n drick more there then they drive back home .ok she is a mother of 3 so if she get pull over she will get a dwi n loss her licence ..so im no happy with that ..
2.i ask her i dont liek when u drick with friend n im not there becuse alchool leade to some else..ok but she get mad
3.she say they i dont let her go out to her friend ok the friend are only 3 house away
ok i tell her this make shure the door is open n do do anything the make other peaple belive you r doint some bad like meesing around with some 1 esle bla bla..make shure remenber your are married..just play cool
her a example

this girl name amanda she is a striper,bi,and she hit on me 1 or 2 time she say she like to f ... me.ok i ignore .i tell my wife ..know my wife his friend with her.here story
bi girl name amanda my wyfe say im goint to april house to have a drick i say ok 10 min later i call her she say im at amandas house i say ok
she live arounf 7:45pm i call her back around 9:45pm i say i goint to bed i got mad becuse i work 10 house a day i only see her for 1 hour so im not goint to wait no more im goint to bed.i ask her come get the house key.ok no i goint over the amanda house the froom door is close i opne the dorr n there is my wife .amanda my friend luis n my friend T I...all i ask my wife is to play cool ..so i tell her i wus very upset becuse i ask u to play cool dont forget you are married with kids if u see the door close please keep open tha way no 1 will belive there is something goin on n the house ...have som respent for me please...she say i dont trus her ..n im over react about that becuse there nothing goint on...rREMENBER this girl amanda 1 to f... me before know she all cool with my wife..n she love sex and she b around more then 1 men at time so im having problem with this matter..

everytime my wife point some aboutn me n need a change i change asap becuse i 1 her to b happy ..some time i dont like it but i do it becuse i 1 to make her happy.but i ask her to stop going out to much n stuff please don be n a room with 3 men becuse peaple will tall shit about you ,,,stop be cool with the girl amanda becuse peaple will look at you like they look at her to .....

please some tell me if im doint some bad please.....

[heyo-captain-jac...]

You're doing everything bad. She's going to rape you.

[coto2009]

wtf .im askk for help n i get this .waooo.

[heyo-captain-jac...]

I'm not even joking.

[coto2009]

ok so i have change to b a good husben now she doint the same i did before .so know u telling me im doint everything bad?

[-DressYourEyelid...]

there is obviously a void in her life that isn't filled. she's unsatisfied.

[karmakiller]

I'll agree with the poster above me, because I neglected to read all that you posted. I'm curious as to why you come to a design site that has a lot of younger users for help with your marriage.

[Maccabee]

Im glad that you are willing to do all those things for her. Just keep your cool and maybe she will come around just like you did. Don't get angry. If you are patient and kind, no matter how freaking hard it is as long as you are being the best you can be, you'll know that you are being a good husband and most importantly a good dad to your 3 kids.

If you would like to talk some more you can message me. Im a therapist.

[Deospeon]

[dilligrout]

I'll agree with the poster above me, because I neglected to read all that you posted. I'm curious as to why you come to a design site that has a lot of younger users for help with your marriage.

hah, exacttlyy [:

[coto2009]

I'll agree with the poster above me, because I neglected to read all that you posted. I'm curious as to why you come to a design site that has a lot of younger users for help with your marriage.

becuse im very confuse...n i fell if a talk to some 1 the i dont know i may get i good feeback..ty much..i try my best but im about to explote ....

[coto2009]

Im glad that you are willing to do all those things for her. Just keep your cool and maybe she will come around just like you did. Don't get angry. If you are patient and kind, no matter how freaking hard it is as long as you are being the best you can be, you'll know that you are being a good husband and most importantly a good dad to your 3 kids.

If you would like to talk some more you can message me. Im a therapist.

ty much...i try to do that ..n yes may i need to talk more with u becuse i have a lot of question ..about my family ty muchh

[illriginal]

Dood... you're askin a bunch of children, teens, and young adults about your marriage.

[ley]

ok so i have change to b a good husben now she doint the same i did before .so know u telling me im doint everything bad?

karmas a bitch.

[karmakiller]

^ I am not! :P jk

becuse im very confuse...n i fell if a talk to some 1 the i dont know i may get i good feeback..ty much..i try my best but im about to explote ....

Maybe you should post on a forum that usually deals with marriage problems. They are there... there are forums for pretty much anything. Or maybe you need to communicate better with your wife and work out your with her rather than trying to work out your problems online.

Dood... you're askin a bunch of children, teens, and young adults about your marriage.

He already knows.

[monkeyxoxo]

please some tell me if im doint some bad please.....

First, it is really hard to understand your post. It's not that literate..

Anyway, I'm not a relationship expert, but I've been using a method that you could try..Check it out for yourself. I'm actually using it now. Let me know if you like the idea and if you want help with it you can message me.

http://lovedare.bhpublishinggroup.com/

It's hard at first, but I found that it works and so have a lot of people.

Good Luck.

[Deospeon]

Just fkin ask on Yahoo fkin Answers and You fkin Question will be fkin Solved!

[emberfly]

The strapon ruined it :(

[hypnotique]

Just fkin ask on Yahoo fkin Answers and You fkin Question will be fkin Solved!

Dammit you beat me to it!

The strapon ruined it :(

I think thats the joke lol

[SweetBride202]

Because maybe your the first one doing some mistakes that's why she seems that shes doing some revenge to you.

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Reason for edit: no ads plz.

[lesliehp]

I'll agree with the poster above me, because I neglected to read all that you posted. I'm curious as to why you come to a design site that has a lot of younger users for help with your marriage.

Same here