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 May 9 2009, 05:54 PM
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 I'm Jc  Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556  |
do your parents get along well with your gf/bf?
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May 9 2009, 06:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,036 Joined: May 2009 Member No: 727,246 |
too well.
my father is a retired jazz musician and took the liberty of taking my boyfriend, a musican also, under his wings. when they're together, there is no way i'm going to get a word in. |
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May 9 2009, 06:11 PM
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So ugly, was your pops a jazz musician his entire career?
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May 9 2009, 06:14 PM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ May 9 2009, 07:11 PM)  So ugly, was your pops a jazz musician his entire career? yes, honey, among other things. |
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May 9 2009, 06:17 PM
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did he suck dick to pay bills? f*ck you mean your daddy couldnt even afford a toyota
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May 9 2009, 06:20 PM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ May 9 2009, 07:17 PM) did he suck dick to pay bills? f*ck you mean your daddy couldnt even afford a toyota maybe. i never asked. |
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May 9 2009, 06:37 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
can you shut the f*ck up steven and take your bullshit to some other topic?
you guys are ruining my topic |
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May 9 2009, 06:38 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
Steven...play nice.
My mom likes the current guy I have an interest in. Which is really something since she hated most of my exes,more specifically my ex fiance the terrible tattoo artist/guitarist who is responsible for me not wanting to see another artist/musician again. |
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May 9 2009, 06:40 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(hypnotique @ May 9 2009, 06:38 PM) Steven...play nice. My mom likes the current guy I have an interest in. Which is really something since she hated most of my exes,more specifically my ex fiance the terrible tattoo artist/guitarist who is responsible for me not wanting to see another artist/musician again. YOU MEAN THE WORTHLESS CAREER ONE? my family and my girlfriend's family are best friends. that's how i met my girlfriend cause we were forced to play together our whole childhood. i always thought it was kinda weird. i feel like her parents know me too well and vice versa sometimes. it's a weird change in dynamics. |
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May 9 2009, 06:45 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 9 2009, 06:40 PM) YOU MEAN THE WORTHLESS CAREER ONE? my family and my girlfriend's family are best friends. that's how i met my girlfriend cause we were forced to play together our whole childhood. i always thought it was kinda weird. i feel like her parents know me too well and vice versa sometimes. Pushing my buttons with this... He/it was only worthless because he didn't ever have a backup plan and because the fields of work he was trying to pursue were so unstable or almost non existent he spent most of the relationship being jobless and mooching off me so severely I ended up having to move back home. I refuse to take that kind of risk again. |
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May 9 2009, 06:58 PM
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Yep. Funny enough my family has to approve of the woman or man from bf/gf to fiance.
And I don't just mean my mother... but my whole family <,< |
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May 9 2009, 07:01 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(illriginal @ May 9 2009, 06:58 PM) Yep. Funny enough my family has to approve of the woman or man from bf/gf to fiance. And I don't just mean my mother... but my whole family <,< i always thought that would be pretty stressful for the one being judged for approval |
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May 9 2009, 07:05 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 9 2009, 08:01 PM) i always thought that would be pretty stressful for the one being judged for approval It's an old fashion thing... specifically because the Dominicans in my family adopted the idea from the Italians of my family and has never changed since then.  Who ever's marrying into the family, no lie, they need to prove that they've graduated college. Oh and that's another thing lol... our family is strongly against dating before or even during the years of education, including college. They believe relationships simply distort the mind and that family and education is more important than anything else, including friends. |
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May 9 2009, 08:40 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 9 2009, 04:40 PM) my family and my girlfriend's family are best friends. that's how i met my girlfriend cause we were forced to play together our whole childhood. i always thought it was kinda weird. i feel like her parents know me too well and vice versa sometimes. it's a weird change in dynamics. Aww, that's so cute, hahaha.  My parents would get along pretty well with the guys I've been interested in, as long as they don't know we're together.  My grandma thinks the guy I'm currently interested in is a wuss. 
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May 9 2009, 08:41 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(iDecay @ May 9 2009, 08:40 PM) My parents would get along pretty well with the guys I've been interested in, as long as he's not black FIXED TINA |
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May 9 2009, 08:46 PM
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Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Actually, my dad doesn't mind them. They just prefer me not to date them, rofl.
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May 23 2009, 02:51 PM
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QUOTE(hypnotique @ May 9 2009, 06:45 PM) Pushing my buttons with this... He/it was only worthless because he didn't ever have a backup plan and because the fields of work he was trying to pursue were so unstable or almost non existent he spent most of the relationship being jobless and mooching off me so severely I ended up having to move back home. I refuse to take that kind of risk again. Dont defend guys. They usually dont deserve it. Im mexican so pretty much my whole family gives me their opinion. My parents just hate them all. |
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May 27 2009, 10:54 AM
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Kyanna Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 661,304 |
nope. never have.
bad thing??? haha |
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May 27 2009, 05:17 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 9 2009, 06:54 PM) do your parents get along well with your gf/bf? They get along, but we try to avoid each others' parents... |
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May 27 2009, 05:26 PM
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QUOTE(monkeyxoxo @ May 27 2009, 06:17 PM) They get along, but we try to avoid each others' parents... Why? I don't think the parents appreciate that you're purposely avoiding them. 
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May 28 2009, 12:17 PM
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My mom and sister get along with my boyfriend. Phew. But my dad hasn't met my boyfriend yet. We don't live together and we aren't close. But they're going to meet when my bf finishes his studies. My dad = tyran. xD
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May 29 2009, 04:30 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
My boyfriend's parents are weird, but then again my parents are kind of weird too. I have a really bad relationship with my father (everyone on my mom's side does as well), so I haven't told him, although I am not sure if he knows or not.
My mother found out before I told her, but she kept quiet about it. I wasn't ready to tell her until right before senior prom, since I wanted to prove that I could handle a relationship and still do really well in school. My mom and the rest of my family like my boyfriend, so it's all good. Eh... it's weird between me and Tony's family. His dad jokes around, so I can't really tell if he likes me, but it seems like he approves since I go to college. His mother's too traditional so I don't really understand her most of the time. However, this is minor, since the person who holds the most authority in his house is his older sister. She thinks she's really "experienced" and knows everything since she's older, but she really doesn't, lol. She's really superficial, so his mother gets influenced by his sister. But I can somewhat be favored by her when she's not going through one of her "crazy vietnamese lady" moments. |
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May 29 2009, 08:00 AM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ May 29 2009, 04:30 AM) She thinks she's really "experienced" and knows everything since she's older, but she really doesn't, lol.
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May 30 2009, 01:52 PM
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durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 29 2009, 06:00 AM) It's true! Some shady guy came in and tried selling her fake an ipod nano, and she bought two of them! this was back when the first generation ipod nanos came out! I think she lost like $250 to $300 on them. And she's like "This is really bad, but well, you live and learn blah blah blah" And I was like  I know people who have been scammed before in much worse situations.My boyfriend and I were like, yea that's what you get for being so cheap. You can't cheat the system. Why buy them at all when you can just wait or buy an mp3 player that's NOT an ipod, or just wait until new ones come out for cheaper... /rant |
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May 30 2009, 05:01 PM
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QUOTE(Just_Dream @ May 29 2009, 04:30 AM) But I can somewhat be favored by her when she's not going through one of her "crazy vietnamese lady" moments. U SO PRETY U ROOK RIKE MODER |
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