Fighting make couple stronger? Options

[shoryuken]

is that true? when we fight/argue alot.. we get stronger and love each other alot..

or

when you fight/argue alot.. you get tire and say peace out..

[-DressYourEyelid...]

i don't think negativity, in any sense, is good for the relationship. i doubt a relationship will flourish because of an argument. :/

[Smarmosaur]

...that's total crap.

arguing is completely natural. depending on who you are, it could go either way. or sometimes both. i'm not in a relationship, but my best friend is a guy and i love him to death, i'd date him if i could with no doubt. we argue, not a lot, but often. sometimes it's little arguments when we're just stressed, but we give eachother a few hours then apologize and it's good. if you're not strong enough to do that, then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship. sometimes we have mediumish arguments, where we bicker for a while then don't talk until the next day. ONCE we had a tremendously insanely huge argument...bickered all night, etc. we both apologized and moved on, but it definitely made us a little stronger.
however, don't expect to just always move on...you have to work to fix what's wrong. you have to want it and work to keep what you built through the argument. be understanding, etc. if not, then you turn out the other way where you'll hypothetically kick him out of the house every time he says something you don't like.
but yeah. end rant. it just depends on who you are.

[Tramatize]

Depending on the arguement, yes

[ley]

is that true? when we fight/argue alot..

False.

[brooklyneast05]

Depending on the arguement, yes

[-DressYourEyelid...]

...that's total crap.

arguing is completely natural. depending on who you are, it could go either way. or sometimes both. i'm not in a relationship, but my best friend is a guy and i love him to death, i'd date him if i could with no doubt. we argue, not a lot, but often. sometimes it's little arguments when we're just stressed, but we give eachother a few hours then apologize and it's good. if you're not strong enough to do that, then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship. sometimes we have mediumish arguments, where we bicker for a while then don't talk until the next day. ONCE we had a tremendously insanely huge argument...bickered all night, etc. we both apologized and moved on, but it definitely made us a little stronger.
however, don't expect to just always move on...you have to work to fix what's wrong. you have to want it and work to keep what you built through the argument. be understanding, etc. if not, then you turn out the other way where you'll hypothetically kick him out of the house every time he says something you don't like.
but yeah. end rant. it just depends on who you are.

that's true. i guess we've always avoided fights because we both come from very violent households and could not possible see a benefit of fighting.
thanks from ranting. i think i see the plus now :D

[kryogenix]

N-N-NOW DAT DON'T KILL ME
CAN ONLY MAKE ME STRONGER

[none345678]

Doesn't matter because:

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[iGio]

is that true? when we fight/argue alot.. we get stronger and love each other alot..

or

when you fight/argue alot.. you get tire and say peace out..

It honestly depends on the person. Some people when they come across an argument once or twice in a relationship they're ready to say f-ck this its over. (i've been with people like that only).



But I think it makes you stronger only if you're willing to work at it in the sense that you are going to fight more in the future and deal with it. But if you don't wanna deal with that type of sh-t then no.

[mipadi]

It depends on how you argue, and whether you reach a resolution. Two people who are close to each other are bound to disagree. If, when you argue, you resort to, e.g., name-calling or belittling each other, then no, arguing is not healthy. However, if you stick to the issue and work towards a resolution, then arguing is healthier than keeping the issue to yourself.

[illriginal]

No... fighting doesn't help a relationship out.. by any means. Communicating does.

[Smarmosaur]

No... fighting doesn't help a relationship out.. by any means. Communicating does.

arguments come from the lack of communication. as mipadi said, as long as you don't you resort to name-calling or belittling each other, and the arguing is because you're trying to reach a resolution, you're communicating because of the lack of communication. come on, face it, there's no way any couple can sit down calmly and say "let's communicate"...sorry, not gonna happen. but yeah, arguing is completely natural, as long as it's for a valid reason, and you stay on topic and try to reach a resolution.

[creole]

i guess it's okay if ur like this



or fighting is okay if ur like this










you be the judge cbfags

[Tramatize]

No... fighting doesn't help a relationship out.. by any means. Communicating does.

Ah, i see what you did there.

[illriginal]

arguments come from the lack of communication. as mipadi said, as long as you don't you resort to name-calling or belittling each other, and the arguing is because you're trying to reach a resolution, you're communicating because of the lack of communication. come on, face it, there's no way any couple can sit down calmly and say "let's communicate"...sorry, not gonna happen. but yeah, arguing is completely natural, as long as it's for a valid reason, and you stay on topic and try to reach a resolution.

I'm just gonna put this out there, you can take it or leave it.


I've NEVER, EVER, have gotten into an argument with my family, friends, nor girlfriends in the past. There's was only ONE girl, who happens to be Puerto Rican (go figure), who was completely and utterly immature and always looked for meaningless trouble.

Trust me, 5 weeks of starting that relationship, no matter how hot she was, or how nice her voice was... she was not worth my time. And the sad thing is, she was 20 when I was 18... what an embarrasment.

[karmakiller]

I've NEVER, EVER, have gotten into an argument with my family, friends

That's insane, just sayin'. I've never fought with my family or friends, but we've had disagreements which are pretty much arguments.

[illriginal]

That's insane, just sayin'. I've never fought with my family or friends, but we've had disagreements which are pretty much arguments.

When I say arguments, it's when you have negative emotions towards each other while speaking to one another, once that starts, the raising of voices begins, then it continues to aggravate the situation.

I simply don't have the patience nor tolerance for what I believe is considered an argument.

[hypnotique]

No... fighting doesn't help a relationship out.. by any means. Communicating does.

agreed

[illriginal]

agreed

[mytangerine]

arguments might end with makeup sex, this is good.

[illriginal]

lol make up sex.

[kstar14]

to an extent, fighting does make a relationship stronger, but obviously only if you get through it together. my most recent relationship went to the dawwgz cos we argued all the time, so if your attempting to make a relationship stronger, i wouldn't purposely create arguements, the occasional one or two are okay though,.

[sixfive]

no like
seriously
wtf