Your opinion on pre-marital sex? |
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 Apr 17 2009, 03:35 PM
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I don't know if there is a topic already similar to this. If so, I apologize.
I would just like to know what people's thoughts are on pre-marital sex? Is it ohkay? Bad? Honestly, I think it's ohkay. In my opinion, people should be able to live life the way they wish. If someone wants to have sex before marriage, go ahead. But, if a person wants to wait until marriage, there's nothing wrong with that either. I just find it weird how some people can make a big deal out of it. The same goes for the first time one has sex. I honestly didn't find it that big of a deal. For me it was just "Ohkay. I'm not a virgin now... Time to go to practice." I just don't see what the big ordeal is. Yea, there's the whole "Don't waste it on someone" blahblahblah. But, wouldn't someone just not have sex with that person to begin with if he/she did not want to waste it? |
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Apr 17 2009, 04:57 PM
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You can't spell, "okay", ok? If you can't even spell "okay"... what makes you think that your opinion even matters? Actually, what makes you think that you're responsible and mature enough to have pre-marital sex?
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Apr 17 2009, 06:32 PM
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QUOTE(illmortal @ Apr 17 2009, 05:57 PM)  You can't spell, "okay", ok? If you can't even spell "okay"... what makes you think that your opinion even matters? Actually, what makes you think that you're responsible and mature enough to have pre-marital sex? You're kidding, right? |
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Apr 17 2009, 06:36 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
i think there is a topic like this or very similar
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Apr 17 2009, 06:59 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
QUOTE(YukkaPukka @ Apr 17 2009, 07:32 PM) You're kidding, right? WORD. |
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Apr 17 2009, 07:40 PM
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QUOTE(illmortal @ Apr 17 2009, 05:57 PM) You can't spell, "okay", ok? If you can't even spell "okay"... what makes you think that your opinion even matters? Actually, what makes you think that you're responsible and mature enough to have pre-marital sex? Hey, hey. Some people aren't good at spelling, but it doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed to give their opinion on something. |
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Apr 17 2009, 07:42 PM
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QUOTE(interpretation @ Apr 17 2009, 08:40 PM) Hey, hey. Some people aren't good at spelling, but it doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed to give their opinion on something. If they can't spell, "okay", I can only imagine they don't have an education in sex ed. 
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Apr 17 2009, 08:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
QUOTE(A1Bassline @ Apr 17 2009, 09:14 PM) What makes your think you can start ragging on another member? They were just giving their opinion. BRB |
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Apr 17 2009, 08:30 PM
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QUOTE(illmortal @ Apr 17 2009, 08:42 PM) If they can't spell, "okay", I can only imagine they don't have an education in sex ed. You don't need sex ed to have pre-marital sex, or to have an opinion on it. |
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Apr 17 2009, 08:36 PM
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QUOTE(YukkaPukka @ Apr 17 2009, 09:30 PM) You don't need sex ed to have pre-marital sex, or to have an opinion on it. Just in time. Well let me ask you this. Does the quality of the opinion matter? If so, what makes the opinion have a low or high quality? Would it be an educated opinion that's considered a quality opinion or does any random opinion that you personally agree with have a higher quality? I personally think I have more hairs on my beard than the OP has correctly spelled English vocabulary words. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hey OP how old are you anyways? EDIT: Oh wait, I see she's from Jersey.. nevermind, she'll probably have STDs or get pregnant before she gets into college. I'll stop caring now 
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Apr 17 2009, 08:44 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Y'know I hear the same thing about FL, ohkay?
There's an old topic like this in Girls Locker, but I see no reason why this topic can't stay here (unless someone comes across a more recent thread). |
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Apr 17 2009, 08:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
QUOTE(illmortal @ Apr 17 2009, 09:36 PM) Does the quality of the opinion matter? If so, what makes the opinion have a low or high quality? Would it be an educated opinion that's considered a quality opinion or does any random opinion that you personally agree with have a higher quality? I personally think I have more hairs on my beard than the OP has correctly spelled English vocabulary words. Wow. An opinion cannot be of low or high quality. If I agree with an opinion, then I agree with it, but that's all; I don't consider it "higher quality." To respond to the OP: I agree with what you said about living your life the way you want to, and having premarital sex if you feel like it. No need to wait until marriage, unless you feel like it. |
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Apr 17 2009, 09:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
I've already made my point.. or lack of... I was just bored anyways.
Anyways OP.. don't spread your legs. Don't expect respect from men if you can't even respect yourself. 
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Apr 17 2009, 09:19 PM
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Seriously. Stop it. I just lowered your warning today, don't make me regret it.
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Apr 17 2009, 09:27 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
well anyway back to the topic at hand. no premarital sex isn't bad. be safe and you're good.
i don't think it's that big of a deal. even though i do think people should put at least a little bit of thought into who their first time is with. |
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Apr 17 2009, 09:32 PM
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QUOTE(illmortal @ Apr 17 2009, 09:36 PM) I personally think I have more hairs on my beard than the OP has correctly spelled English vocabulary words. And how many words did the OP misspell? One, with the exception of the word "Yea", which is actually a word. And why in the world does it matter? Ohkay sounds just as much the same as okay, regardless of how it's spelled. This is why most of the people here don't like you. You have to pick a fight about everything, don't you? |
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Apr 17 2009, 10:09 PM
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Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
^ I understand the need to respond, but please don't instigate.
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Apr 20 2009, 08:32 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Pack a vest for your jimmy. ^_^
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Apr 20 2009, 08:39 AM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
QUOTE(WarMachine @ Apr 20 2009, 08:32 AM) Pack a vest for your jimmy. ^_^ Better wear an umbrella for rainy weather? I think that premarital sex is healthy, if done responsibly. |
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Apr 20 2009, 08:40 AM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(superstitious @ Apr 20 2009, 09:39 AM) Better wear an umbrella for rainy weather? 
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Apr 20 2009, 08:49 AM
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 AIDS at RAVES. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,386 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,878 |
Pre marital sex when your mature enough for it, dont loose it in middle school or high school, but I dont really care about college
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Apr 20 2009, 11:51 AM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(synatribe @ Apr 20 2009, 08:49 AM) Pre marital sex when your mature enough for it, dont loose it in middle school or high school, but I dont really care about college |
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Apr 20 2009, 07:14 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
if your ready to have sex, your ready. if you have doubts or kinda jittery, don't. marriage is a more stable environment to have a child, if you accidentally get pregnant when having sex, or if you want to have a child. to some people, sex after marriage is more meaningful. whatever floats your boat, but i don't think there is a problem on pre-marital sex. be mature, safe and it's okay to have sex before marriage.
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Apr 20 2009, 07:18 PM
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poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
if you know your ready then go
if you have the slightest regret then save it |
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Apr 20 2009, 08:24 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
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