Is Phone Sex Cheating?, ... |
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 Feb 18 2009, 06:57 PM
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Do you consider phone sex to be cheating... if the two people involved do have feelings for one another but one still loves his girlfriend?
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Feb 18 2009, 07:00 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
if he loved his girlfriend and they had a healthy relationship he wouldn't even feel the need to talk to another girl like that. he would just go get the real non lame thing from his own girl.
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Feb 18 2009, 07:01 PM
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 kthxbai Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,832 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 621,203 |
Yes, it's cheating.
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Feb 18 2009, 07:06 PM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
Hm, I'm inclined to interpret this as emotional cheating. If the two are in agreement that this type of interaction is cool with other individuals, that's entirely different. It's not as if he's just been caught watching porn or something. He's actually engaging in sexual dialogue with another woman. Personally, I'd be pissed.
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Feb 18 2009, 09:38 PM
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I think in that situation it would count as cheating becuase your still wanting to have some type of pleasure with another woman,
i think the girl would feel betrayed knowing that her Boyfriend is secretly cheating on her |
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Feb 18 2009, 09:39 PM
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 Has a PhD in horribleness Group: Member Posts: 866 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 686,301 |
if you have to have phone sex with someone else while you're in a relationship... thats just sad...
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Feb 18 2009, 09:40 PM
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Yep. But since some people don't realize things until later on, they might think it's just out of fun and don't consider it to be cheating at first.
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Feb 18 2009, 09:40 PM
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kthxbai Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,832 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 621,203 |
QUOTE(shanaynay @ Feb 18 2009, 08:39 PM)  if you have to have phone sex with someone else while you're in a relationship... thats just sad... 
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Feb 18 2009, 09:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
Wanna know what's crazy? Religiously speaking, even the thought of another woman on a sexual perspective is considered adultery. Why do you think women in the Middle East where Hijabs and Abayas?
Or in other words this: 
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Feb 18 2009, 10:24 PM
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 f your couch Group: Official Member Posts: 3,089 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,301 |
yeah, it's cheating.
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Feb 18 2009, 10:28 PM
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 This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
QUOTE(superstitious @ Feb 18 2009, 06:06 PM) Personally, I'd be pissed. Yes, it's cheating. I'd personally be more upset over "emotional" than physical cheating, anyway, and to me this is a little bit of both. |
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Feb 18 2009, 10:32 PM
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f your couch Group: Official Member Posts: 3,089 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,301 |
^ me too. but i'd still be pissed if it was just a physical thing.
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Feb 18 2009, 11:18 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i consider it cheating.
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Mar 31 2009, 05:14 PM
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Is the boy currently dating his girlfriend?
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Mar 31 2009, 07:57 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(superstitious @ Feb 18 2009, 07:06 PM) Hm, I'm inclined to interpret this as emotional cheating. If the two are in agreement that this type of interaction is cool with other individuals, that's entirely different. It's not as if he's just been caught watching porn or something. He's actually engaging in sexual dialogue with another woman. Personally, I'd be pissed. Cosign. |
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Mar 31 2009, 08:09 PM
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QUOTE(iDecay @ Feb 18 2009, 09:40 PM) Yep. But since some people don't realize things until later on, they might think it's just out of fun and don't consider it to be cheating at first. Stop making excuses and face the truth. |
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Mar 31 2009, 09:56 PM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Feb 18 2009, 06:00 PM) if he loved his girlfriend and they had a healthy relationship he wouldn't even feel the need to talk to another girl like that. he would just go get the real non lame thing from his own girl. Co-sign. From a sexual perspective, he should probably come up with ways to spice up his sex life with his girl. |
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Apr 1 2009, 07:44 AM
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its honestly depends on who it is buh in my case yhes i do consider it cheating .... kinda :c
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Apr 1 2009, 09:02 PM
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Pathetic.
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Apr 1 2009, 09:12 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(angelle @ Apr 1 2009, 09:02 PM) Pathetic. Honestly it kinda is. I mean its one thing to have a flirty sexy convo with your boo pookie face or whatever. But to actually get off on it and be like OHHHH YEAHHHHH about it is kinda disturbing. |
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Apr 1 2009, 11:39 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Jan 2009 Member No: 709,849 |
(:
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Apr 2 2009, 06:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
any u ppl winnaa hookk princc u NUMBA...
lit chat sum tyme.. |
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Apr 2 2009, 10:59 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(shanaynay @ Feb 18 2009, 10:39 PM) if you have to have phone sex with someone else while you're in a relationship... thats just sad... You rock my socks.  To answer the question, yes. |
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Apr 3 2009, 12:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
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Oh wow, you know what would suck? If you're having phone sex with another person, but you don't realize that upstairs, your partner, is listening to your conversation on another phone. |
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Apr 3 2009, 01:14 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(Beenly @ Apr 3 2009, 01:58 PM) . . . Oh wow, you know what would suck? If you're having phone sex with another person, but you don't realize that upstairs, your partner, is listening to your conversation on another phone. Life fail 9000. |
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