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 Mar 27 2009, 09:31 PM
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So, i known this guy since forever. He's basically my best friend and we've known eachother since elementary until now our high school years. Until recently he has a new friend, we don't get long. She's a very tricky person and make up little lies. We have a problem with each other. Most of his other friends actually dislike her too, he's the only one whose close to her. Lately we argue about her all of the time and he admits she's a bad person and he also said he doesn't want to be friends with anymore. I encouraged it and he did it. Suddenly it backfired and he started ignoring me and my friends instead. Having this argument with him so many times i finally gave up and told him that i don't want to be friends with him anymore and listed every possible reasons i can have. His reaction was something far off, he became angry and in the end told me he respected my decisions and just a flat out he doesn't know how to respond and bye. I think what i did is right but i'm doubting it now
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Mar 27 2009, 10:38 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Friends come and go. I don't know why you come to a design site for relationship advice from strangers. You and him are friendly, so tell him what's on your mind; ask him what's wrong; communicate.
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Mar 28 2009, 12:04 AM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
Well because photoshop and HTML dorks know everything about keeping a stable relationship.
Btw i think you should go on chacha and ask one of them help my friends make some money plz. |
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Mar 30 2009, 02:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Mar 27 2009, 08:38 PM)  Friends come and go. quote for truth |
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Mar 31 2009, 03:33 AM
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 Ummm... I can't think of anything creative to put here Group: Human Posts: 410 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,965 |
If your friend wants to ignore you, f*ck 'em. Simple.
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Mar 31 2009, 11:11 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
Um, wow.
I would point out all the flaws to his new friend, and video record it. Heh, who knows, maybe you'll find something dirty.. |
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Mar 31 2009, 12:27 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,454 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 696,018 |
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Mar 27 2009, 11:38 PM) Friends come and go. I don't know why you come to a design site for relationship advice from strangers. You and him are friendly, so tell him what's on your mind; ask him what's wrong; communicate. ... wouldn't that be anybody who posts in the relationship forum? |
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Mar 31 2009, 12:53 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
^agreed.
If he was really your friend, then he wouldn't ditch you to hang out with someone he just met. It sounds like he just wants some punani, or he already is punani whipped. o.0 |
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Mar 31 2009, 03:31 PM
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DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
QUOTE(heartquasm @ Mar 31 2009, 12:27 PM) ... wouldn't that be anybody who posts in the relationship forum? Nah, because a lot of people here know each other. The OP only has a couple posts and I don't think anyone knows anything about her. |
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Mar 31 2009, 05:17 PM
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If your best friend isn't being your best friend at the moment, you should let him go. Best friends always tend to fight, and if you guys can overcome it then thats great. If not, screw it and don't go back.
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Apr 1 2009, 07:48 AM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ Mar 27 2009, 11:38 PM) Friends come and go. they do buh if it is a friend dhat yhu known forever try and work it out yhu shuldnt lhet a friend ship ggo down because of some random new girl |
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Apr 1 2009, 10:41 PM
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yea, they're most likely f*cking.
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Apr 1 2009, 11:07 PM
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DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
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 QUOTE(DjYungX @ Apr 1 2009, 07:48 AM) they do buh if it is a friend dhat yhu known forever try and work it out yhu shuldnt lhet a friend ship ggo down because of some random new girl Yeah, but they can also come and go on the guys part. He's being friendly to a girl who isn't good for him and she can go just as fast as she appeared. |
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Apr 2 2009, 01:38 PM
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Ummm... I can't think of anything creative to put here Group: Human Posts: 410 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,965 |
If he dont wanna act right ;F*CK em. Simple.
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