What to do? |
  |
 Feb 23 2009, 02:11 PM
Post
#1
|
|
|
Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 80 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,948  |
I used to give this girl advice on this forum I use for a while. We became friends. She was 15 and I was 18. I saw her as a younger sister/friend. We lost contact and got back in touch recently. I realized I have an interest in her. I think she likes me somewhat too. I am going to visit her this weekend.
But point being. I don't want her to see me as a older brother or friend. She's 18 now. I want her to see me as someone she'd want to be in a relationship with. Should I tell her that off the bat, or wait until the date progresses to say something? Also, I don't want her to think I'm just out for sex either. But if that's what happens.. then I'm going to go with it. Should I bring up sex somewhere along the date? |
|
|
|
|
Feb 23 2009, 02:23 PM
Post
#2
|
|
 cαиdчмαи™ Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Feb 2009 Member No: 713,621 |
hmm...i would say that you should wait until the date progresses until you tell her how u feel
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 23 2009, 10:00 PM
Post
#3
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Administrator Posts: 8,629 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 498,468 |
Yeah wait for your meet-up with her. You should either tell her flat out you like her or drop hints, so she gets it. And I would not mention sex on the meet-up. That will just make you seem like sex is all you care about & that'd be creepy.
|
|
|
|
|
Mar 25 2009, 11:37 AM
Post
#4
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,454 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 696,018 |
QUOTE(dpl313 @ Feb 23 2009, 03:11 PM)  I used to give this girl advice on this forum I use for a while. We became friends. She was 15 and I was 18. I saw her as a younger sister/friend. We lost contact and got back in touch recently. I realized I have an interest in her. I think she likes me somewhat too. I am going to visit her this weekend. But point being. I don't want her to see me as a older brother or friend. She's 18 now. I want her to see me as someone she'd want to be in a relationship with. Should I tell her that off the bat, or wait until the date progresses to say something? Also, I don't want her to think I'm just out for sex either. But if that's what happens.. then I'm going to go with it. Should I bring up sex somewhere along the date? so hay, did you bone? |
|
|
|
|
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: