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 Jan 27 2009, 06:37 PM
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 na-nancy  Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179  |
yeah, so my boyfriend breaks up with me
and tells me he loves me. i'm really confused, but trying to get over this little mess and moving on, but what's holding me back is why he still says this? |
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Jan 27 2009, 09:23 PM
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Eternal Syn Group: Member Posts: 398 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,000 |
maybe he's scared of letting you go? i think he's trying to hold onto you so if things don't go right he can run back to you.
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Jan 27 2009, 09:59 PM
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 monster hunter Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,203 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,188 |
QUOTE(na-nancy @ Jan 27 2009, 06:37 PM)  yeah, so my boyfriend breaks up with me and tells me he loves me. i'm really confused, but trying to get over this little mess and moving on, but what's holding me back is why he still says this? He's indecisive. He doesn't know what he wants, and sometimes he thinks it's you. He likes you, definitely, but he's still confused. Give him time, if he comes back, then yay. If not, just know that life goes on. |
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Jan 27 2009, 11:59 PM
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 kthxbai Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,832 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 621,203 |
You're not boyfriend/girlfriend with your parents, but you say "i love you" to them, don't you? You never specified which "i love you" he was saying.
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Jan 28 2009, 03:59 AM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
if you're trying to move on, ignore it. if you don't think you can, tell him to shut it and temporarily leave you alone.
when you're completely convinced that you're done with him, see if he'll still admit to it. if he does, tell all your friends and get a good laugh out of it. |
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Jan 28 2009, 01:04 PM
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 I love my babyboy Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,367 |
QUOTE(emberfly @ Jan 28 2009, 12:59 AM) You're not boyfriend/girlfriend with your parents, but you say "i love you" to them, don't you? You never specified which "i love you" he was saying. This is soooo damn true. Keep this in mind. He may love you, but he doesnt know if he's in love with you |
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Jan 28 2009, 03:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,288 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,380 |
You can love someone your not dating.
I know this girl, i've never dated her or anything, and i've known her for a little over 2 years only met in person about 5-6 times, and i love her to death, and she loves me the same. |
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Jan 28 2009, 03:38 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
I think he's not sure of what he wants (especially if you guys were together a long time). But just because he's unsure doesn't mean he should put ideas in your head (seeing as he did break up with you) or make you question what you're doing. If it's hard for you to hear that from him or it prevents you from moving, let him know. He may not realize that it's bothering you. And some time without each other might help you both.
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Jan 28 2009, 06:26 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i'm guessing he loves you in a not boyfriend way. or he's just pulling your leg, playing with your feelings. be carefullll
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Jan 28 2009, 10:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2009 Member No: 709,923 |
QUOTE(loveneko @ Jan 28 2009, 01:04 PM) This is soooo damn true. Keep this in mind. He may love you, but he doesnt know if he's in love with you basically don't let ur self fall into the trap that some guys use where they break up wit u but keep u emotionally attached so that if whatever they doin fall through they still got u wrapped round they finger so they can get at you when they ain't got nothin goin on |
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Jan 29 2009, 07:04 PM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
well, those were some thoughts I was thinking.
and wow, especially the "he may not be in love with you" got to me. I mean I guess I still do have feelings for him, it's only been about a week since, so of course the feelings are still there. sometimes i do feel like he's playing with my feelings, so i kinda wanted to talk to him about this, we haven't really talked much since he said that. i am trying my best to move on, i really am. but thanks for the advice, everyone. i love CB :) |
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Feb 1 2009, 10:45 PM
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 fad3d Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 483,080 |
he doesn't want to let you go and he's confused himself.
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