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 Jan 12 2009, 12:53 PM
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 Hey, I'm Mike  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,241  |
So my cousin is dating one of my best friends and this weekend I had a party. My cousin hooked up with this girl at the party and my friend wasn't there. He was really drunk. So my question is do I tell my friend what happened or wait until she finds of from him or someone else??
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Jan 12 2009, 01:16 PM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
i say let them tell each other. Its not your problem too deal with.
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Jan 12 2009, 04:47 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
i would suggest maybe to tell your cousin that he should tell his girlfriend
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Jan 12 2009, 04:55 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Just because you are close to both people doesn't mean it's your place to blab right away. I'd say tell your cousin he really should tell his girlfriend, by not doing so, he is putting you in a completely awkward position. As long as he doesn't do it again, I wouldn't say anything. If he legit feels bad about it, let it go. If he continues said ***hole behavior, tell him if he doesn't come clean, you will.
How long have they been together? |
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Jan 13 2009, 03:20 AM
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i'd go with just waiting til the guy tells ur friend.
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Jan 13 2009, 06:43 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
yeah you should tell your cousin to tell your best friend. that isn't right, and even though he got wasted he shouldn't have done that. you best friend has a right to know, because what your cousin did was wrong. talk to your cousin about it, it'll help more (:
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Jan 14 2009, 12:04 PM
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Hey, I'm Mike Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,241 |
Well she pretty much Knows and she keeps asking me to tell her... he is a pussy and wont give her an answer haha I dk I just feel bad for her and he isn't going to say anything.
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Jan 14 2009, 06:40 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Well f*ck his pussy ass then, the girl deserves to know. If she called him out and he didn't tell the truth, it's time for her to move on.
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Jan 14 2009, 06:57 PM
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poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
well if she knows then i would tell her, it isn't fair for her.
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Jan 15 2009, 03:22 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Mind your damn business.
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Jan 15 2009, 03:06 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
wouldn't you want someone to tell you?
so, tell her. |
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Jan 15 2009, 09:25 PM
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I was in this situation once. I felt bad because everybody knew except her and i didn't tell her. I was waiting for him to tell her. He told her two weeks later and he ended up getting slapped in the face.
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Jan 17 2009, 02:12 AM
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we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
QUOTE(NoSex @ Jan 15 2009, 12:06 PM)  wouldn't you want someone to tell you? so, tell her. Sometimes its best to keep your mouth closed. |
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Jan 17 2009, 03:05 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
if everyone else knows and if she kinda knows. i think you should tell her. because she's your best friend. and family will always forgive you eventually. and he knows he did wrong, so he shouldn't be upset.
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Jan 24 2009, 12:16 AM
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i would let him know he better tell her first before i do. it's always better to hear from them than anybody else. if i was your friend, i wouldn't want to be the last one to know.
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