Do long distance relationships work out? |
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 Jul 20 2008, 09:08 PM
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 That's what she said.  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200  |
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Jul 20 2008, 11:56 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 669,434 |
you two must be ridiculously dedicated to each other. If you're moving back soon, then I don't see such a huge deal... it's just that I found out that the guy that I liked for ages liked me back after I moved across the country and we tried to make things work out for three years, but it didn't because in the end, the biggest issue was when I was coming back.... and since I'm never going back, it ended and honestly caused more heartbreak than I could bear and had me regretting the whole thing.
So really, if you REALLY think it will work, then go on the date and try and work things out... otherwise, still go on the date because one won't hurt if it doesn't end up working anyway. If it does workout, I suggest you guys to talk constantly and visit constantly. use facebook or email and keep each other updated! hope i helped :) |
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Aug 3 2008, 10:06 PM
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nooo, sorry :(
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Aug 4 2008, 09:12 AM
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definitely a huge NO.
unless you both are out of school and are like 20 something years old..yes. If not, than no way. School will keep to too busy to meet him. But if you both have the money and time to meet each other, why not? |
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Aug 4 2008, 06:54 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
well I can't give any advice, but I do think they're possible.
My aunt and uncle had a long distance relationship between Canada and England for TEN whole years before they got married, and they're still very affectionate even after probably 30 years. And my parents stayed together even when my dad went to work in Singapore, and they're still happily married. But maybe that was back then, don't know about now. |
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Sep 5 2008, 12:16 AM
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 Jonothan Togo ♥ Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 682,924 |
im sorry but they dont work :I i got cheated on.
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Sep 5 2008, 12:20 AM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
Yup, they can.
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Sep 5 2008, 01:51 AM
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 [pandemonium] :3 Group: Human Posts: 225 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,107 |
QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Jul 16 2008, 12:10 PM)  Basically through my experience it can work if you are willing. yep, my brother and his girlfriend were in a long distance relationship for two years, and now it's been four years and they're still together. Don't get me wrong, it was really hard for him, but its worked out. but then again, their relationship could just be an anomaly. Maybe they're the exception. |
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Sep 5 2008, 12:28 PM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS ! Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669 |
Ive been through it and let me tell you - Doesnt work at all.
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Sep 5 2008, 12:45 PM
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 Melieized Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,372 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,715 |
long distant relationships can work as long as the relationship is strong and so is the trust.
<--military wife |
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Sep 7 2008, 01:35 AM
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 JOOWEE<3 Group: Member Posts: 116 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 680,398 |
-sighs- sorry but it won't really work outt. i've been through it &it kinda sucked. we talked by phonee, and my phone bill was crazy high. & talking by aim, fer the whole day made my parents tickk. so yeah :/ but you know, work it out. see each other every week? ...or maybe month? (:
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Nov 28 2008, 03:44 PM
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 SNOW TACO. Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 603,770 |
From what I've been seeing...
Most long distance relationships don't work out. Long distance relationships require an incredible amount of trust and fidelity. You need a lot of faith, too. They're extremely fragile, as well. Most relationships fail because it gets too hard for some people, not being able to be near the other, not being able to do all the stuff that couples who aren't in a long distance relationship are able to do. But lemme tell you. Personal experience. Five years and three months to date; I've been with my boyfriend. School is an interference, yes, but oh well. You learn to cope if you truly love them. I'm in high school, and my boyfriend and I are managing just fine; it's very serious. [: If you're really dedicated, then yes, it will work. |
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Nov 28 2008, 04:34 PM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Yes. They work. But it's not for everybody.
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Nov 28 2008, 04:35 PM
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imo, no. :/
the partner can do anything behind the other partner's back. |
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Nov 28 2008, 04:42 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(ninjaBeenly @ Nov 28 2008, 03:35 PM) imo, no. :/ the partner can do anything behind the other partner's back. What does that have to do with the distance? Your girl could catch a ride home from a friend, and suck him off on the way to see you. |
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Nov 28 2008, 04:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
well, its the trust, but its only my opinion,
if anyone wants to do it then go with it |
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Dec 3 2008, 07:48 PM
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Jonothan Togo ♥ Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 682,924 |
they really dont work out well. :/
when i had a long distance relastionship everything fell apart. i didnt know if he was cheating on me. and i when i really need him to be there for me he wasnt there which made me feel sad; but if your realstionship is strong and there is a way to see him and i think you should give it a shot (: (edit: my post before sounded so negative so i added somethings.) |
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Dec 29 2008, 02:04 AM
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 fad3d Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 483,080 |
It really depends by the couple.
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