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 Nov 15 2008, 02:20 PM
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ok so im going out with the best guy you ever imagine and i'm really glad im with him we have a good time and everything
but...theirs this guy that flirts with me and he is bf enemy...and now i kinda like the other one WHAT SHOULD I DO???? HELP PLEASE
Reason for edit: Merged double posts. - Cristy
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Nov 21 2008, 09:46 PM
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Be faithful. Or dump him for the other. Or do a threesome, if u guys are into that kinda thing
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Nov 21 2008, 09:56 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
what should you do? get a brain, and a large dose of common sense along with it.
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Nov 21 2008, 10:09 PM
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 Hello, I'm Heli Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,604 |
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Nov 21 2008, 09:56 PM)  what should you do? get a brain, and a large dose of common sense along with it. LOL! |
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Nov 21 2008, 11:42 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Nov 21 2008, 08:56 PM) what should you do? get a brain, and a large dose of common sense along with it. I agree. I mean, OP, you can't be serious  |
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Nov 22 2008, 04:51 PM
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Sorry you're confused lol.
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Nov 22 2008, 05:01 PM
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QUOTE(misoshiru @ Nov 21 2008, 09:56 PM) what should you do? get a brain, and a large dose of common sense along with it. Oh boy. Lol. I didn't expect that one. I think you should get rid of, "the best guy ever," for one. If that was so, then you wouldn't be thinking of someone else and liking someone else. As for this new guy, no one can tell you what to do with that one. If you choose to be with him, I wish him luck. Not to be mean, but if you do it to one, chance are you'll do it to another. |
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Nov 22 2008, 05:04 PM
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QUOTE(TheFranchise216 @ Nov 22 2008, 05:01 PM) Oh boy. Lol. I didn't expect that one. I think you should get rid of, "the best guy ever," for one. If that was so, then you wouldn't be thinking of someone else and liking someone else. As for this new guy, no one can tell you what to do with that one. If you choose to be with him, I wish him luck. Not to be mean, but if you do it to one, chance are you'll do it to another. Totally agree. If you are having the slightest bit of doubt with, "The best guy ever," then you need to reassess yourself. Either way I think you need to do something other than beginning to lead this "nice guy" on. |
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Nov 22 2008, 05:39 PM
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QUOTE(applejaxkz @ Nov 22 2008, 05:04 PM) Totally agree. If you are having the slightest bit of doubt with, "The best guy ever," then you need to reassess yourself. Either way I think you need to do something other than beginning to lead this "nice guy" on. Absolutely. The worst thing you can do is lead someone on. In this situation, you could be leading two people on. |
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Nov 22 2008, 05:40 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
If he is your boyfriends enememy and is flirting with you then he is only doing it to ruin your relationship and to piss him off. If you break up with your boyfriend for him then he is most likely to only go out with you for a bit or not do anything at all.
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Nov 22 2008, 06:36 PM
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 AIDS at RAVES. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,386 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,878 |
either backstab or be loyal,
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Nov 22 2008, 08:54 PM
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QUOTE(TheFranchise216 @ Nov 22 2008, 05:39 PM) Absolutely. The worst thing you can do is lead someone on. In this situation, you could be leading two people on. Exactly! Bottom line, don't be a bitch. |
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Jan 2 2009, 06:31 PM
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QUOTE(Tomates @ Nov 22 2008, 05:40 PM) If he is your boyfriends enememy and is flirting with you then he is only doing it to ruin your relationship and to piss him off. If you break up with your boyfriend for him then he is most likely to only go out with you for a bit or not do anything at all.  oscar, grammy, emmy, or one of those is deserved. best insight given.
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Jan 2 2009, 08:24 PM
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Well, I say. Speaking from personal experiences. Stop talking to the other guy before your boyfriend finds out. And when he does, it is definitely NOT good.
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Jan 2 2009, 10:36 PM
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What's with all the sarcastic replies? :( I'm actually having this problem except I'm holding off the relationship because I kind of like this other guy. If you're having second thoughts, regardless of whether or not you're going to pursue them, break it off. It's not fair to your boyfriend who has only been great to you.
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Jan 3 2009, 02:06 AM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i really think this is a dumb decision. i mean if you have the boyfriend of your dreams obviously you should stay with him! and maybe that guy is only flirting to make your current boyfriend jealous since there enemies?!?
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