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 Nov 2 2008, 02:47 PM
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So I have this friend. Let's call her Anna. I started talking to her through friends. Anna and I have been friends for about a month now. We talk a lot. Like on the regular. I don't even like talking on the phone, but I feel at ease talking to her on the phone. We live 2hrs away from each other. We hungout for the 1st time on Halloween.
I probably looked bored, but I had a great time. We went trick or treating and hungout with her friends at this party. I got seriously wasted. She didn't and I like the fact that she was watching me, because I went straight for the alcohol. Lol. But getting past that. On my way back home I realized I got feelings for her. We agreed to hangout again. But I know other guys like her. Just because a few dudes we knew came up and asked us were we a couple? I'm thinking they wouldn't have asked if they were interested in her... right? Anna told the dude we were just friends, but she said it fast. Even one of her best friends told me just to take things slow with her.. But point being to all this is next time I see her I wanna make a move, but I don't wanna push her away. A move as in nothing too strong. I was thinking about trying to hold her hand and asking her if we can be friends, but try dating each other. Does anyone have any positive suggestions? |
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Nov 2 2008, 03:18 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i think holding hands while asking her if we can be friends but date each other.. kinda give a tip off like i wanna be with you. you should take this slow, flirt with her a little, be gentle.. hold hands and talk about things she likes. that'll grab her interest.
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Nov 3 2008, 10:37 PM
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Talk to her and tell her what is going on in your head. That way you don't have to second guess what her feelings are. Then you can really find out if she wants to pursue a relationship with you. Talk to her
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Mar 25 2009, 11:41 AM
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QUOTE(dpl313 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:47 PM)  So I have this friend. Let's call her Anna. I started talking to her through friends. Anna and I have been friends for about a month now. We talk a lot. Like on the regular. I don't even like talking on the phone, but I feel at ease talking to her on the phone. We live 2hrs away from each other. We hungout for the 1st time on Halloween. I probably looked bored, but I had a great time. We went trick or treating and hungout with her friends at this party. I got seriously wasted. She didn't and I like the fact that she was watching me, because I went straight for the alcohol. Lol. But getting past that. On my way back home I realized I got feelings for her. We agreed to hangout again. But I know other guys like her. Just because a few dudes we knew came up and asked us were we a couple? I'm thinking they wouldn't have asked if they were interested in her... right? Anna told the dude we were just friends, but she said it fast. Even one of her best friends told me just to take things slow with her.. But point being to all this is next time I see her I wanna make a move, but I don't wanna push her away. A move as in nothing too strong. I was thinking about trying to hold her hand and asking her if we can be friends, but try dating each other. Does anyone have any positive suggestions? HEY SO DID YOU HOLD HER HAND AND ASK IF YOU CAN BE FRIENDS BUT LIKE DATE EACH OTHER ON THE SIDE? how'd it work out for ya? |
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