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 Oct 29 2008, 06:44 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593  |
So this happens to me alot. Every girl I see as a potential hookup, ends up having a boyfriend already. I found out another girl I was crushing on had a boyfriend already. I don't know what's wrong with me. I seem to only find the girls who already are taken.
I don't pay attention to the girls who likes me though for some odd reason. It's like I only notice girls who seem to already have boyfriends, and I ignore the girls who don't have one who likes me. Is this just me? I mean there's some girls who likes me, and they are pretty decent looking, but I'm not attracted to them. I'm still attracted to these girls who I've found out have boyfriends though. Anyone want to explain what's the deal? Help a fellow Asian brother out Createblog. |
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Oct 29 2008, 07:07 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
I like how you both moved the topic at the same time. It really should be in Relationships, but since it's an emergency I'll move it when I come back...
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Oct 29 2008, 07:26 PM
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 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,156 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,404 |
Here's the way I look at it:
If you find a girl attractive and girlfriend-material, who's to say somebody else didn't see it earlier? Those guys they're already going out with thought exactly as you did, but they're just a step ahead of you. You know what I'm saying? I feel like I'm going in circles LOL |
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Oct 29 2008, 07:48 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
maybe you just like the hard-to-gets
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Oct 29 2008, 07:49 PM
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 ◕ ◡ ◕ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,779 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 416,697 |
hello future wannabe chuck bass. have you never heard of wanting what you can't have?
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Oct 29 2008, 07:51 PM
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 Has a PhD in horribleness Group: Member Posts: 866 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 686,301 |
I'll just say you got beat to the punch.
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Oct 30 2008, 12:40 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(kreios @ Oct 29 2008, 05:10 PM)  I kept the link-back. So I don't see what the huge problem with moving it was  I'll leave this be for now. Maybe I'll contribute once I read it. Stop moving my topic, and help me out.  QUOTE(Joannnnnne @ Oct 29 2008, 05:26 PM) Here's the way I look at it: If you find a girl attractive and girlfriend-material, who's to say somebody else didn't see it earlier? Those guys they're already going out with thought exactly as you did, but they're just a step ahead of you. You know what I'm saying? I feel like I'm going in circles LOL I think I kinda understand this. Hell no are they a step ahead of me. It's not my fault I didn't meet these girls earlier than they did. I mean there's some girls I've met before other guys, but I didn't had any interest in them, but other dudes did. QUOTE(misoshiru @ Oct 29 2008, 05:48 PM) maybe you just like the hard-to-gets They aren't hard to gets. They are just already taken. QUOTE(giraffe @ Oct 29 2008, 05:49 PM) hello future wannabe chuck bass. have you never heard of wanting what you can't have? LOL. Sandy help me out moar son son. You offer the best advice imo. QUOTE(shanaynay @ Oct 29 2008, 05:51 PM) I'll just say you got beat to the punch. 
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Oct 30 2008, 04:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Administrator Posts: 2,648 Joined: Apr 2008 Member No: 639,265 |
First problem is that picture under your username.
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Oct 30 2008, 05:19 PM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
I feel your pain. It's even more frustrating to like a guy who has a girlfriend one day, and doesn't have one the next day, and gets back together the other day...cycle continues.
Can't help you out, sorry. I wish I could find my own solutions as well. I think it's just the luck of the draw. Give it some time and I'm sure that either 1) They'll end up breaking up with their boyfriends or 2) You find the perfect, single girl. :)
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Oct 30 2008, 05:20 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 30 2008, 02:47 PM) First problem is that picture under your username. damn you so funny mipadi. ^_^. you are one of the few on here to be talking about looks.  you're gf must be really pretty.i think that's good advice gigi. i rather wait until i find a girl who is actually single. I mean the girls who likes me, but I don't like me back, nah. I ain't the type of person who will go for the first person who notices me. |
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Oct 30 2008, 05:23 PM
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 Get at me Group: Member Posts: 515 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,964 |
check the myspace and facebooks for relationship status bru.
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Oct 30 2008, 05:26 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
^ facebook lies.
either way, I'm still hanging out with my ex right now. we been hanging out like 3-4 times a month for like 4 months now. i have no clue why we are hanging out like a couple, when we aren't. sometimes i feel bad that i'm talking and interested in other girls while hanging out with my ex. sang knows what im talking about lol. he saw me with my ex at the mall couple weeks ago LOL. f**ken stalker. |
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Oct 30 2008, 05:30 PM
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in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
Facebook does lie, do you know how much the Facebook relationship status thing has killed my brain over these past few weeks? Yeah. I wish that didn't exist.
lol...that's a little weird, with your ex. Are you...is she...still interested? |
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Oct 30 2008, 05:30 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
gigi, is that guy who has a gf, still hitting on you?
edit - we aren't interested in getting back, but we are interested in hanging out and you know what else. 
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Oct 30 2008, 05:32 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(robbotic @ Oct 30 2008, 03:31 PM) I think you're subconsciously wanting what you can't have... How can I want what I can't have, when I had a crush on them BEFORE i knew they were unattainable and not single? |
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Oct 30 2008, 05:33 PM
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Get at me Group: Member Posts: 515 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,964 |
Ask the girl if she has a bf then you wont be blind sided every time, and if you're chilling w/ ur ex why worry about other girls?
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Oct 30 2008, 05:34 PM
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in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
I don't know if you could call it "hitting on me" but the stuff he does, it's like he's testing the fine line between friends, or more. It's annoying. If you have a girlfriend, YOU CANNOT DO THAT WITH ANOTHER GIRL!
You know, unless I'm completely imagining it all. But I'm sure I'm not...I would just prefer to keep my distance, but he's not letting it happen. LOL friends with benefits eh. Don't get your feelings hurt, Tung.
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Oct 30 2008, 05:34 PM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,156 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,404 |
Tung, I think you just have bad luck/timing.
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Oct 30 2008, 05:55 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
which is why I said "hard-to-gets". Because, they're probably "hard-to-get" until you find out that they have bfs.
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