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 Oct 28 2008, 11:49 AM
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My friend has kinda a big problem.
Which he says is fixed, but I don't think so. AND IT IS MY FRIEND. THIS IS NOT ABOUT ME. I guess that, he's been friends with this girl for a while, and she started to like him. Well, he had sex with her without them being already IN a relationship, and afterwards, there was no relationship established. She's been calling his phone for the past few days, not leaving him alone for anything, and filling his phone with text messages. He says it was only a one night stand, and that he thought she was aware of that. Turns out, she thought they were in a relationship, which is why he wouldn't leave him alone. He kinda likes this girl, but didn't want a relationship with anyone. Now that's he told her it's only for that one night, and there was no relationship at all, she's decided to go off and spread rumors of him being a player and such. Do you think he was wrong for not telling her directly? Or was she wrong for blowing it out or proportion? |
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Oct 28 2008, 03:13 PM
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 Has a PhD in horribleness Group: Member Posts: 866 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 686,301 |
He's an idiot for having sex with a girl that wanted more than a f**kbuddy.
She isn't really blowing it out of proportion, the guys kindof a dick. |
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Oct 28 2008, 03:52 PM
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 cake or DEATH Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 631 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,586 |
he brought it upon himself when he didn't tell her beforehand. he shouldn't have assumed anything, especially in this kind of situation. her reaction is normal, i mean, getting attached to someone and then having him tell you AFTER, "yeah it was just one night" is just a little disappointing.
but the girl shares the blame too, because she also assumed that he would commit. "communication is key" |
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Oct 28 2008, 04:00 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
your friend isn't a good guy. you can't just use someone like that.. especially with girls, cause some girls are really sensitive and sex is like meaningful to some people. and it's wrong for her to make rumors but he deserves it..
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Oct 28 2008, 04:03 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
QUOTE(shanaynay @ Oct 28 2008, 04:13 PM)  He's an idiot for having sex with a girl that wanted more than a f**kbuddy. She isn't really blowing it out of proportion, the guys kindof a dick. I agree, he shouldnt have had sex with her and although what she is doing may sound obsessive or whatever, i think she is just really concerned about whats going on and what happened and its not her fault. In a way your friend kinda took advantage of her and i dont blame her for doing waht she is doing no offence, he did kinda play her. I would be really pissed if a guy did that to me or even my boyfriend right now. I mean come on, wouldnt you be pissed if you had sex with a guy you liked and he just tells you theres nothing between you two? |
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| *Janette* |
Oct 28 2008, 04:06 PM
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well, is she pregnant?
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Oct 28 2008, 05:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 2,936 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 683,235 |
QUOTE(Janette @ Oct 28 2008, 05:06 PM) well, is she pregnant? naw. |
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Oct 29 2008, 07:42 AM
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yea shes kinda buggin. but with any one night stand both people should establish that it means nothing. She shud just get over it, shit happens.
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Oct 30 2008, 09:59 PM
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p.i.m.p.
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Oct 30 2008, 10:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 2,936 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 683,235 |
^L.M.A.O
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