Is he shy or just uninterested? |
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 Oct 17 2008, 02:32 AM
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okay i met this guy he looks quiet,shy and cute he's one of my class i didn't notice him before and now i do, and i started saying hi to him, but the thing is he seems really shy and he never said hi to me first like i have to do it first one time i was looking at him and he was looking back but he didn't say hi he just looked back and i was the one who waved at him and said hi, and then if i dint talk to him, he wont talk to me, but he looks at me sometimes and i said hi to him again the next day and he was laughing/smiling but he never ever talks to me at first. I saw him today after school and he saw me but he didn't talk to me or said hi to me is he just shy or just uninterested? what should i do?
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Oct 17 2008, 02:49 AM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
He sounds like he's shy. In fact, that sounds like something that happened to me a few years ago.
I tried to be really nice to this Korean guy in my food studies class. We constantly asked him if he wanted certain ingredients in the food we were making that day, like, "Oh, do you like green onions?" But he would always just nod or shake his head quickly. We sort of gave up being nice to him after a while because our gestures never did illicit a response. I found out like 2 years later that he had a huuuuuuuuuge crush on me. One day when my other group members weren't there, I cooked with him, and he had gushed to his other Korean friend "I COOKED WITH GIGI TODAY!!!!!!! kekeke" *insert supacute Korean emoticon here* Bottom line: Boys are stupid. Some of them are shy and stupid. I guess you could keep being nice to him as I should have done. The worst case scenario is that he's not interested, but you could still attribute your 'niceness' to being, well, just a nice person, instead of being interested in him. At least you'll (hopefully) gain a friend out of this, if he's not a complete weirdo. |
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Oct 18 2008, 03:56 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
lol i have the same situation with a guy that i find attractive. he is just plain shy. and i always have to start the conversation or say hello, but he always notices me. i find it oddly annoying at times! hehe (x
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Oct 18 2008, 04:09 PM
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in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
QUOTE( @ Oct 17 2008, 01:36 PM)  Alright, cause most of you's always hit and run after some awesome advice, I'm gonna give it to you short hand. If the guy doesn't communicate first after basic acknowledgement of your astablished acquaintiance. Ages: 0 - 13 [GTFO unless u packin Yugioh] Ages: 14 - 17 [Shy] Ages: 18+ [Gay] Thats just basic. LOL @ Yu-gi-oh. Concise and accurate... |
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