why black men date other races Options

[MilitaryFlower]

OMG this actually makes sense. take a minute and watch it has different part like 4 i believe.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FYwEy6y0bkc...feature=related

[Joanne]

The way he's swinging his head back and forth is really distracting. =\


Wanna give a summary of what he says?

[MilitaryFlower]

yeah just a sec i was busy when i posted it.

[brooklyneast05]

why is this dudes channel named "gurltalktv"....

anyway, you know, a lot if not most of black men date outside their race simply because they meet someone outside their race they think is cool and their into. so it's unfair to act like there always has to be some big problem with black women as to why this is going on.

but if we're going to talk about other reasons...

i'll agree with the attitude thing in a lot of cases though. i would say the "hostile dramatic i'm gonna tell you how it is" attitude is what has turned me off a lot of black women. they aren't all like that though, my gf is black and she never really gets in my face like that.

also, white woman want black men and make that apparent. this is just my opinion but maybe some of the black dudes on here can come back me up on that point. i can just say that from my experience and friends experience, there is a lot of white women who wanna be with a black dude. they seek them out and basically throw themselves at them to get attention. i'm not saying all white women are easy or anything. so sometimes i think instead of all this talk about OMG BLACK MEN ARE DATING OTHER RACES, they should say OMG OTHER RACES ARE THROWING THEMSELVES AT BLACK MEN.


i duno. damn dem angry black womenzzzzz

[DoubleJ]

also, white woman want black men and make that apparent. this is just my opinion but maybe some of the black dudes on here can come back me up on that point. i can just say that from my experience and friends experience, there is a lot of white women who wanna be with a black dude. they seek them out and basically throw themselves at them to get attention. i'm not saying all white women are easy or anything. so sometimes i think instead of all this talk about OMG BLACK MEN ARE DATING OTHER RACES, they should say OMG OTHER RACES ARE THROWING THEMSELVES AT BLACK MEN.
i duno. damn dem angry black womenzzzzz

Agreed, and this guy actually brought up a lot of good points. The problem with black women, like he said, is that they often aren't soft and pink. Who wants to constantly deal with that?

[towntown2]

Um..
His head shaking was distracting, indeed.
And his laughing is overacted.

What he's saying though..
It's interesting, but it's not exactly organized as clearly as it could be.

[Joss-eh-lime]

we talk about this is BSU
and things get heated.

black men need to stop making sweeping judgements of all black females. on the other hand black females do need to calm down with the attitude.

[AyeVickaye]

Let people date whoever they wanna date DENG. you dont own them.

[AngryBaby]

i personally don't care about that bullshit...i date who i want, cry some more.

lol why are you looking at this stuff anyway?

[MilitaryFlower]

^i wasn't looking this up...it was on a BET forum.

and don't get me wrong i know i have an additude problem sometimes but some of the stuff he says some chicks do sounds like they take it a little far. but if you look through some of through some of the comments it concludes what hes saying even more. Also the pond things bugged me through like the entire part 1.

[DoubleJ]

He is funny as hell though.

[MilitaryFlower]

you should watch the no sex but you can eat it thing...smh...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DxA1wFs8coE&feature=user

[ReggieM]

QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 20 2008, 08:18 PM) *
also, white woman want black men and make that apparent. this is just my opinion but maybe some of the black dudes on here can come back me up on that point. i can just say that from my experience and friends experience, there is a lot of white women who wanna be with a black dude. they seek them out and basically throw themselves at them to get attention. i'm not saying all white women are easy or anything. so sometimes i think instead of all this talk about OMG BLACK MEN ARE DATING OTHER RACES, they should say OMG OTHER RACES ARE THROWING THEMSELVES AT BLACK MEN.
i duno. damn dem angry black womenzzzzz



Agreed, and this guy actually brought up a lot of good points. The problem with black women, like he said, is that they often aren't soft and pink. Who wants to constantly deal with that?

cosign


I agree black girls do approach me more than other races but other races throw themselves at me more. But i think its because of my eclectic attributes but for me there just more other races that fit my preference than black girls.Just like how african americans are the lowest percentage in college, and im in college so that means the less i can interact with. ONE

[AngryBaby]

personally i don't think all white women or any other race of women THROW themselves at black men...there are CERTAIN women that have some type of case of jungle fever, that derives from some past issues or they think its cool/attractive or think they are most compatible with them. otherwise its purely out of love for that particular guy. but there is no epidemic of ALL women that have a mysterious infatuation with black men or anything. (i HATE the type of non-black girl that dates black guys because she thinks its cool, i don't give them the time of day.)

so personally, i don't see the "Women throw themselves at black men" theory as a good one. Ive heard that theory and imo i see it as naive, arrogant/cocky. i've never seen another race say anything of the sort, (sorry to say fellow black men, but you saw the video)
because there ARE many women of other races that black men certainly aren't their FIRST choice. (unless your a certain individual that is indeed attractive enough in their eyes, thus they are willing to change it up, but in general, for these women....not the first choice.) brutal honesty guys!

so in conclusion....yes there are uncle tom's that hate black women and themselves. yes there are certain women that throw themselves SPECIFICALLY at black men. yes there are black dudes that think black females have attitude problems, and yes there are black dudes that just so happen to not discriminate against ANY woman, but simply make themselves versatile to any type of women. everyone's different, this particular topic is so vast, its ridiculous. so everyone just needs to grow up.

[ReggieM]

they dont really throws themselves its more of a lateral or pitch.

[fameONE]

I have always been approached by Asian, White and Hispanic women. I don't have any particular issue with dating Black women, or women of any other race, for that matter, but I have my personal preferences. Over the past few years, I've taken a notice in the attitudes of some of the women I've dated in regards to interracial relationships. From experience, the women I've dated find a certain allure in dating a Black man. As if to noticeably point it out from time to time.

Personally, it doesn't make a difference to me. I know Black men that refuse to date Black or White women because "they're crazy." I don't agree with that, either (all women are crazy, its how you deal with it, or what you do or don't do to unleash the craziness). Perhaps there is something appealing about Black men in the eyes of women in other races, perhaps not. I would like to get some input from others.

[DoubleJ]

I think that there is definite appeal from other races. I agree with Evan in the sense that most girls think that it is cool to date black guys. A lot of the women that I know, will only date black or Hispanic guys, because they have a certain swagger about them. There is a certain confidence that a man of color exudes. There is always that mystique of being able to try and control us, because we have been known to be uncontrollable and strong willed.
There are those who also won't date us, because we are characterized as being unfit fathers, lazy, and lacking in overall quality.

I also know a lot of women who wouldn't date a white guy, because they think that white men are too soft. White men are known, for the most part, to be fairly weak in comparison to their male counterparts, and to women, that is indeed a turnoff. One girl I spoke to said, "If I dated a white guy, I could get whatever I want, because they are just that gullible and have no backbone."
There are those who will date them, because they feel as though white men can make more money, and can provide more in terms of quantity and maybe to some extent quality, than a man of color can.

To bring my long winded response full circle, it goes both ways when it comes to choosing reasons for dating/not dating within a particular race. My personal preference is not a black girl. I mean if I see one that I like, then sure I will go for it, but I am not going out there to find me a sista, like the guy in that video is. It really just depends on what you are attracted to, and who you want to be with.