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 Sep 20 2008, 05:57 PM
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SO.. I like this guy and I don't know whether I should just tell him or not. If he doesn't like me back, I don't want to ruin our friendship.
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Sep 20 2008, 05:58 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
wait...I thought you already had a boyfriend?
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Sep 20 2008, 06:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,625 |
we broke up, like.. a couple months ago.
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Sep 20 2008, 06:01 PM
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poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
aw. Im sorry to hear that. Anyways i would be flirty with him and then tell him that you like him
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Sep 20 2008, 06:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,625 |
It's okay >< I'm flirting with him non-stop and I'm hoping he'd get it sooner or later but he's not!! He's so stupid sometimes = =
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Sep 20 2008, 06:05 PM
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poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
a lot of guys are like that. They just can be completly oblivious to things. Maybe you can have some of your friends drop some hints to him.
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Sep 20 2008, 06:05 PM
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I'm scared that it'll totally screw up our friendship though ><
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Sep 20 2008, 06:07 PM
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poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
i know what you mean there. I had a crush on my best guy friend and i was totally freaking that it would ruin our relationship or something, but we ended up dating and since then we've been together for 4 months.
So in a way its all a risk but it makes things adventerous. |
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Sep 20 2008, 06:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,625 |
what if it goes the wrong way though?
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Sep 20 2008, 06:12 PM
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poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
well, thats the part thats unknown. If it doesnt work then you guys just end up being just friends.
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Sep 20 2008, 06:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,625 |
i mean like.. He's the kind of guy who freaks out when someone likes him if he doesn't like them back and just totally.. cuts off all ways of communication with them.
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Sep 20 2008, 06:15 PM
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poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
oh. Well what i would do is see if your friends can dig up any imformation about who he likes or who he is interested in. I know it probably sounds really petty but if he can be like that then its probably a good idea.
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Sep 20 2008, 06:38 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
This happened to me once.
I called my really good friend and left a message telling him that I liked him a lot. He returned my message and told me that he just wanted to stay friends. It was a little hurtful since it was my first rejection and my first time actually professing my feelings for somebody. But since then, our friendship never skipped a beat, and we're still very close friends. We even joke about it. The important thing is to know whether or not your friendship with him is mature and strong enough to move past the awkwardness that may come of you telling him your feelings. |
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Sep 20 2008, 07:04 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
If he's the type of person that doesn't react well to you being open emotionally with him about liking him, then maybe you should try to drop the hint in a less obvious way. Like, as him to hang out one on one...
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Sep 20 2008, 10:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,625 |
yeah, he's the guy who isn't open at all. Just think about all the stereotypes of guys on how they have no feelings and they never cry. Thats basically him.
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Sep 20 2008, 10:35 PM
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If you can trust yourself to deal with rejection, if it happens, then I would go for it.
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