Fat People Should Stick To Their Sizes Options

[superstitious]

I honestly don't give a rat's ass what people or wear or what fits them too tightly. I just wonder why someone would want to wear something that would be impossible to feel comfortable in.

[karmakiller]

I saw a girl today wearing really high high heels and really tight jeans. She was walking to her car and had to keep adjusting herself... I don't know why you wear something that you have to keep adjusting to make sure you are comfortable and so that other people can't see too much. No matter what size you are, clothes look better if they fit you right.

[sleepwalkerdream...]

I've seen girls wear tights with just a huge shirt or something,
a shirt that might not even cover their backsides.
AGH. T-T It's gross. Saggy excessive butt fat... D:

[firechild]

What? Why would anyone deep fry a candy bar? That's absurd.

Some are actually really good. :)

[Nadiyya]

Nom, nom, nom

If it ain't gonna fit, don't wear it.

[Melissa]

^ I think I'd rather see him wearing a tight shirt than wearing nothing at all.

[manic]

If you want to dress up like a doll, wear clothes that are too big/small, dress like a hooker, dress like a clown, dress like a goth, role play, dress like the opposite sex, wear spandex, wear short shorts in the winter, or a sweater during the summer time - I really don't give a shit, and I'm sure the people wearing these things don't give a shit what I think, anyway.

[gelionie]

^ omg do you guys know the Japanese lolita outfits?
Some girls are hardcore enough to wear them to an amusement park in the midst of the summer heat.

[berrypop90]

^^ Dresses at an amusement park??? I couldn't do it. But to stay on topic: I was in borders and this girl came into the manga section(where I was w/ a friend) and she was BIG & pale and wearing a really short plaid skirt w/ black socks, army boots, & a corset. I was talking to my friend & as she came into my line of vision I trailed off to stare incredulously. My friend & I were like

[mxfemme]

Hmm, I wonder if being big meant you were beautiful, would we have just as much negative remarks as this. I am concerned for people who are obese, and a growing epidemic of overweight people that should put there focus on being healthy. However, I think the media and society put too much emphasis what "IS" beautiful... the EUROPEAN look. Back in the early 1900's, women were large, and they were considered beautiful because it showed a sign of wealth and power. People were obviously being raised in poverty, and people who looked well fed were being showed royalty. I don't want to be skinny, I want to be HEALTHY. And unfortunately, if there was a girl who looked "normal" she would still be considered fat to the network industry.

[Joanne]

^ These people aren't talking about being big in general. They're talking about squeezing big into a small. You don't see people from the early 1900s with their love handles spilling out from the sides.

[PINAYSTER]

hahaha i totally agree!!
but to some guys, seeing a little fat is attractive i guess.. love handles?? lol

[aaayotiffany]

^ I think I'd rather see him wearing a tight shirt than wearing nothing at all.

lmao, i agree.

personally, i think having a little fat is better then no fat at all. most people look better when their bodies are rock hard. [except mark wahlberg ]

[mxfemme]

^ These people aren't talking about being big in general. They're talking about squeezing big into a small. You don't see people from the early 1900s with their love handles spilling out from the sides.

Actually, you'll see some girls with tight gowns with there flabs hanging out back in the 1900's. It has everything to do with that. I mean, Im stating that what if being big was trendy, and you would be well liked for being a "big person". Seeing someone big in small clothing doesn't irritate you, its the fact that they are just BIG! Being big is disgusting to you, its grotesque, people see it as a disease. I seen a guy tell a girl she was fat, and she grew hysterically worried. And she was thin.

[Joanne]

I can't speak for the others, but I personally have no problem with big people. Hell, I'm pretty fat myself (and I have been chubby all my life). I have friends that are on the heavier side, and even a few considered 'obese', but I am in no way disgusted by them because they don't wear clothes three sizes too small.


And I guess I can see why you're upset. I mean, I was a bit appalled when I first saw this topic... but did you take the time to read the posts? These people aren't criticizing these fatter people's health (? for the lack of a better word), but their sense of fashion! Hence the sub-forum this thread is posted in.

[mxfemme]

No, Im not upset at all. I just think that people should start thinking outside the box.

I did read most of the post, and I have to say it was like peeling an onion. There has to be more of a significant reason why people feel this way, and I have to say it's because were so biased when it comes to weight. Theres been countless studies where people gratify others who are the more attractive, the more beautiful, the more less fat.....

When I see big people wear things too small, it doesn't bother me one bit. I feel comfortable with my body and with others. It's like when I see a super skinny girl on the runaway, and she really looks like she's on the verge of suicide from bulimia, but the people filming her, photographing her thought it was normal for a female to be that thin. Why don't people bash on that? its just as horrible! I think it's time to stop criticizing "fat" people, and start helping them. Were belittling them, and we all know that's never helped anyone. Instead of "you look gross, thats disgusting I see your fat" we should be more supported of weight loss programs. No one has to agree with me, its just my opinion, but I have ow friends, and I have helped them this way.

[Joanne]

It's like when I see a super skinny girl on the runaway, and she really looks like she's on the verge of suicide from bulimia, but the people filming her, photographing her thought it was normal for a female to be that thin. Why don't people bash on that?

People criticize skinny people all the time.

[Tung]

How about you re-read the topic over again, and be more open minded, and don't get so upset that this topic talks about fat people. We ain't dissing fat people, and how they aren't beautiful. We are discussing how fat people in general should stick to their true size, instead of wearing something that is obviously too small for them to fit, but yet they try to squeeze in it anyways.

The same could be said for an "average" person. If you're a size Medium, please don't wear size Extra Small. It's the same concept. But I'm targeting fat people in this topic, because I see alot more fat people wearing clothes that are way too small for them.

[manic]

^ omg do you guys know the Japanese lolita outfits?
Some girls are hardcore enough to wear them to an amusement park in the midst of the summer heat.

Yeah, it is kind of strange that a grown woman would dress up like a little girl, but whatever works, I guess.

I'm more a fan of clothes mimicking the Victorian era, just not so little-girl/dollish.

Reason for edit: Merged double posts. - Cristy

[towntown2]

^ Still, the part about the models is a little defensive.
It's what a lot of fat people use as a counterattack during a discussion on a topic similar to this.

We can shove weight loss programs down their throats until they're blue in the face, but if they still don't want to do it, then there's nothing we can do.

I think--for the most part--the posts here deal more with size denials, not fatness. That in itself is unhealthy behavior.

[Melissa]

People criticize skinny people all the time.

Exactly.

Hell, I was just eating lunch in front of VH1's "top 20 skinniest hollywood stars" or something like that and they were pretty much bashing on anorexic-looking stars.

[babecakes]

Hmm, I wonder if being big meant you were beautiful, would we have just as much negative remarks as this. I am concerned for people who are obese, and a growing epidemic of overweight people that should put there focus on being healthy. However, I think the media and society put too much emphasis what "IS" beautiful... the EUROPEAN look. Back in the early 1900's, women were large, and they were considered beautiful because it showed a sign of wealth and power. People were obviously being raised in poverty, and people who looked well fed were being showed royalty. I don't want to be skinny, I want to be HEALTHY. And unfortunately, if there was a girl who looked "normal" she would still be considered fat to the network industry.

wtf is wrong with you, we aren't yearning for a f**king history lesson, nowadays i dont like seeing muffintops

[mytangerine]

fat people make me laugh so much. the guy on the right's giant belly alone probably weighs more i do .

[AngryBaby]

Hmm, I wonder if being big meant you were beautiful, would we have just as much negative remarks as this. I am concerned for people who are obese, and a growing epidemic of overweight people that should put there focus on being healthy. However, I think the media and society put too much emphasis what "IS" beautiful... the EUROPEAN look. Back in the early 1900's, women were large, and they were considered beautiful because it showed a sign of wealth and power. People were obviously being raised in poverty, and people who looked well fed were being showed royalty. I don't want to be skinny, I want to be HEALTHY. And unfortunately, if there was a girl who looked "normal" she would still be considered fat to the network industry.

so what your saying is...your fat,thats what your saying right?

[manic]

Again, I wasnt upset. I thought I already said that.

Hey, I didn't post this, why was it edited into my post?