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 Sep 6 2008, 08:26 PM
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I'm a senior in high school and I like a sophomore. We're friends and I asked her out on a date. She said she'd love to go out with me but her parents don't let her date older guys. Any ideas on ways to get around it or have her parents change their minds?
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Sep 6 2008, 08:28 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
meet her parents
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Sep 6 2008, 08:30 PM
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I thought of that....I'm not sure of a way to get to meet them because they don't even let her hang out with me so I basically just see her at school.
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Sep 6 2008, 08:33 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
that's weird that they are that strict on it. you're only two years older than her right?
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Sep 6 2008, 08:34 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
JC, two years is alot too many people. People call me pedo's because I flirt with 17 year olds, even though I'm just 19 years old. Two years difference.
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Sep 6 2008, 08:35 PM
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 Lets Get Dead Group: Member Posts: 381 Joined: Apr 2008 Member No: 641,562 |
Then it's probably for the best. Some states have age of consent laws and if she's under that age and you guys do anything her parents can very easily turn around and say you raped her. Speaking from experience here...
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Sep 6 2008, 08:40 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(Tungster @ Sep 6 2008, 08:34 PM)  JC, two years is alot too many people. People call me pedo's because I flirt with 17 year olds, even though I'm just 19 years old. Two years difference. to me it doesn't seem like two years is that much difference. i guess it just depends how old you are because different ages sound better or something to some people it seems like. i think a lot of people think 20 and 18 is better than 19 and 17 even though it's practically the same thing. |
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Sep 6 2008, 08:52 PM
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Lets Get Dead Group: Member Posts: 381 Joined: Apr 2008 Member No: 641,562 |
Two years is a bigger difference when you're younger. It isn't as much of one the older you get. I mean think about it, you probably changed a lot in the years between 17 and 19. I know I did, I'm nowhere near the same person. I'm not even the same person I was when I was 18. There is a lot of growing up and maturing that happens. (Usually)
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Sep 6 2008, 08:56 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(only-tuesdays @ Sep 6 2008, 08:52 PM) Two years is a bigger difference when you're younger. It isn't as much of one the older you get. I mean think about it, you probably changed a lot in the years between 17 and 19. I know I did, I'm nowhere near the same person. I'm not even the same person I was when I was 18. There is a lot of growing up and maturing that happens. (Usually) yeah i can see what you mean there i suppose. |
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Sep 6 2008, 09:06 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE( @ Sep 6 2008, 09:06 PM) Then I'm going to jail how olds your girl? |
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Sep 6 2008, 09:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 282,125 |
yeah...I guess I'll talk to her about meeting her parents. This age thing is ridiculous though...2 years isn't really much at all
Her parents are white lol. Posts Merged
Reason for edit: JC likes it in the BUTT
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Sep 6 2008, 10:06 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
Well, two years is a big deal for younger high school kids [freshman and sophomore years].
If you're really serious about being with her, then suggest a meeting with her parents to show how responsible you are. |
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Sep 6 2008, 10:39 PM
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hahaha. yeah I'll talk to her and see if she's okay with that. Thanks for the advice.
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Sep 6 2008, 11:14 PM
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 Two can keep a secret if one of them is dead. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,682 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,187 |
QUOTE(Tungster @ Sep 6 2008, 09:34 PM) JC, two years is alot too many people. People call me pedo's because I flirt with 17 year olds, even though I'm just 19 years old. Two years difference. hopefully the guy isn't 18 yet i say take risk to meet the parents and assure them that you like their daughter and plan not the do the naughty naughty < pretty sure thats why the parents are all like she cant date older guys because they are perverts. lol |
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Sep 7 2008, 12:12 AM
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Age aint nothin but a number. 2 yrs aint bad anyways...i see freshmans going out with seniors and a 6th grader going out with a freshman...which is kinda weird but it doesn't matter
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Sep 7 2008, 12:14 AM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(AyeVickaye @ Sep 7 2008, 12:12 AM) Age aint nothin but a number. 2 yrs aint bad anyways...i see freshmans going out with seniors and a 6th grader going out with a freshman...which is kinda weird but it doesn't matter lol 6 the graders and freshman |
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Sep 7 2008, 01:31 AM
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 JOOWEE<3 Group: Member Posts: 116 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 680,398 |
QUOTE(AyeVickaye @ Sep 6 2008, 10:12 PM) Age aint nothin but a number. 2 yrs aint bad anyways...i see freshmans going out with seniors and a 6th grader going out with a freshman...which is kinda weird but it doesn't matter LMAO i knowwww! its so wierd. well yeah to Trumpetman4eva; i think you should meet her parents and like convince them that you're not a pedo or anythingg. haha. 2 years is kinda like alot, but its okay if you guys like each other alot. her parents are prolly too strict, but if you change their minds then, that's a whole notha story (: |
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