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 Aug 30 2008, 04:05 PM
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k i managed to ask this girl out but every time i try too talk to her my mind goes blank and i can't seem to talk to her does anyone have any helpfull suggestions
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Aug 30 2008, 04:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,028 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 579,129 |
Then you suck.
I hate guys who are like that. I just find it to be annoying. Think of things that you know you and her can carry on a conversation about. Just think of anything to say, unless it's really stupid. Don't leave her there in awkward silence. |
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Aug 30 2008, 04:10 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Wow, you guys just started dating, and can't think of anything to say? That's suppose to happen when you're about 30-40 years into a marriage when you run out of things to talk about.
Wow, dump her then. |
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Aug 30 2008, 04:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
At least make her laugh.
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Aug 30 2008, 04:15 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 681,646 |
i don't want to dump her i realllly like her just to quiet to say anything i usually kept quiet when i liked a girl thing is this is my sisters friend and i kinda got pressure into asking her out when some of her friends told me to ask her out which made things more difficult since i was horrible at thios stuff but i had scrached all the courage i could get up and asked her sadly i used all the courage up and now paying for it
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Aug 30 2008, 04:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
QUOTE(tucker32 @ Aug 30 2008, 01:15 PM)  i don't want to dump her i realllly like her just to quiet to say anything i usually kept quiet when i liked a girl thing is this is my sisters friend and i kinda got pressure into asking her out when some of her friends told me to ask her out which made things more difficult since i was horrible at thios stuff but i had scrached all the courage i could get up and asked her sadly i used all the courage up and now paying for it After five minutes of translations and inserting pretend commas ... You are saying you were just forced to ask her out?  Sounds like a dare instead of a relationship. |
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Aug 30 2008, 06:01 PM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
Carry a little notebook, like one of those moleskin journals. Then when you can't think of anything to say you can look in your little book and find something to talk about XD
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Aug 30 2008, 07:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 681,057 |
Well u obviously haven't had much experience with girls, which isnt a bad thing. Once you get more confidence i'm sure it will come to you. The easiest way to start a convo is to find something that you both are interested in and it should escalate from there.
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Aug 30 2008, 07:24 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 681,646 |
well thanks u all u've been a real help
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Aug 30 2008, 09:26 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
Haha, just relax.
Talk normally as you would with any other person. Before you two went out, you were probably more relaxed around her. And then you changed once she agreed to go out with you. Girls hate it when guys change once they enter a relationship. Wait...you were forced to ask her out? Did you even like her before this? |
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Aug 31 2008, 03:43 AM
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 Onen i-Estel Edain, ú-chebin estel anim. Group: Official Designer Posts: 425 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,128 |
Just do whatever you did when you liked her - it worked out didn't it? Just be yourself. If you can't talk to her about yourself, ask her random questions =] Try playing 20 questions - it might give you guys something to talk about ^.^
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Aug 31 2008, 05:48 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
Or just ask her how was her day.
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