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 Aug 14 2008, 11:34 PM
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I like this guy since May..he was in my class, we didn't really talk so i don't know why i just started liking him..thing is i ended up telling him and he said he has a girlfriend..but after he told me that; he would stare at me all the time then he would look away when i catch him..he even tried starting a convo with me on msn one time but i wasn't at my computer...so i thought i would get over him by summer, turns out my feelings are getting stronger and i have all these emotions bottled up inside of me and i want to let them out to him but i can't...we don't even have a relationship..i can't even talk to him on msn..that's how shy i am..i just don't what to do anymore..i'm so helpless..
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Aug 15 2008, 02:51 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,994 |
That's funny. I would say find a new guy, but you can't even talk to a boy on MSN. Honestly, your shit out of luck, and apologize for my harshness. I believe that critizm helps people improve, and you need to obviously improve on your social skills.
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Aug 15 2008, 02:13 PM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
You are going to have to work out of your shyness. You're never going to make any progress if you don't garner up the courage to tell people how you feel.
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Aug 15 2008, 02:15 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Tip one: if you talk to him online, don't type in that font colour.
Tip two: kill his girlfriend by means of raccoons |
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Aug 15 2008, 02:25 PM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
^
 i really don't recommend killing his girlfriend, no one is worth that much jail time.  QUOTE(superstitious @ Aug 15 2008, 03:13 PM)  You are going to have to work out of your shyness. You're never going to make any progress if you don't garner up the courage to tell people how you feel. that is honestly the best advice you could ever follow. try to be more outgoing and friendlier. it's hard when you're that shy, but sometimes you have to step up your game to get the things you want. good luck! |
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Aug 15 2008, 02:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 659,586 |
just follow basically what everybody's been saying so far. Guys like to have a confident girl so if try to gain some self-esteem in yourself and also improving your social skills.
QUOTE(coconutter Posted Today @ 03:15 PM ) Tip one: if you talk to him online, don't type in that font colour. Tip two: kill his girlfriend by means of raccoons
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Aug 15 2008, 04:10 PM
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 BBM: 310ED181 Group: Member Posts: 613 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,976 |
Talk to him. Be blunt (guys don't always "get" subtlety) Tell him how you feel.
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Aug 15 2008, 05:31 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
Don't be shy.
I think you're being a little paranoid because you're scared that you'll make yourself look like a fool in front of him. Well, you know what? Get over it. Talking online should be less stressful for you because you won't be face to face with him. That should give you more freedom. Take risks. The one thing that I have learned this past year is that if you let go of your inhibitions and show a guy who you really are [faults and all], he'll be more attracted to you. Win him over with your personality! |
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Aug 16 2008, 03:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,822 |
QUOTE(MolecularStudios @ Aug 15 2008, 05:10 PM) Talk to him. Be blunt (guys don't always "get" subtlety) Tell him how you feel. Molecular Studios is right We(men) are direct creatures, for the most part. I know I appreciate it when a woman gives it to directly that includes criticisms, feelings ect. But try and contain your feelings. BE VERY DIRECT. The reason he stares is that he knows you are attracted to him. All of us(men and women, although women are more subtle about it) will stare if we know that the person we are staring at is into us. It is just human nature, not that it makes it easier. Take a chance, jump in and swim like there is no tommorrow! |
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Aug 16 2008, 04:13 PM
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BBM: 310ED181 Group: Member Posts: 613 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,976 |
^ We like that kind of thing
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Aug 18 2008, 01:14 AM
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 [pandemonium] :3 Group: Human Posts: 225 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,107 |
Shyness does suck. I'm in the same boat baby, except I've liked a guy for three years, and then he became my best friend. And I don't even know anymore.
But honestly, tackle your shyness. From what most guy friends have told me, they like that confidence. I'm glad you told him that you liked him, that's like a giant step. I think it was just wrong timing. |
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Aug 18 2008, 09:49 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,011 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 533,410 |
you have to be persistent and get over being shy . If you don't go for
it now, it will just be too late later on . the more you wait to actually start a relationship with this guy ,the harder it will get . |
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