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 Aug 8 2008, 12:54 AM
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 BANG  Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234  |
I recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on his ex with another girl before he even met me. I was kinda mad because he doesn't seem like the type of person that would do that but im wondering, if he did that in the past, would he do it again? What do you guys think?
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Aug 8 2008, 01:11 AM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Although I'm sure you'll have your guard up now that you know this, let me just say that you shouldn't let his relationship with his ex effect the relationship that he has with you. Was he the one who told you this?
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Aug 8 2008, 01:34 AM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
yeah, you shouldn't let his past affect your relationship now. especially if you said that he doesn't seem like the type of guy that would do that.
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Aug 8 2008, 12:05 PM
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If I were you, I'd keep an eye on him. But who knows? Maybe he has learned from his mistakes and he's a better person. If you strongly feel like he's a type of person who wouldn't cheat on you, then I don't think you have anything to worry about. Don't let his past affect your relationship.
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Aug 8 2008, 12:55 PM
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 Photoartist Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,363 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 399,390 |
La gente puede cambiar, pero la gente también puede mantener los malos hábitos. Sólo tienes que ser cautelosos.
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Aug 8 2008, 01:02 PM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
cautelosa*
some people change and others don't. you have to determine whether or not you can and/or are willing to trust him. you have to be sure of what you two have and not judge him based on his relationship with someone else. if he hasn't done anything to break your trust then you shouldn't worry. you never know if maybe he had his reasons or what the circumstances were that lead to him cheating on her, so just relax and enjoy your relationship. don't start mistrusting him or be any different with him based on his past. |
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Aug 8 2008, 01:19 PM
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Photoartist Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,363 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 399,390 |
Ha ha, lo siento, he tenido sólo 1 año de español y es, evidentemente, no es perfecta aún.
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Aug 8 2008, 01:59 PM
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<(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
¿solo un año? creo que aunque tu español no es perfecto escribes mejor que algunas personas que lo han hablado todas sus vidas.
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Aug 8 2008, 02:03 PM
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Photoartist Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,363 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 399,390 |
Aw, gracias!
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Aug 8 2008, 02:04 PM
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<(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
de nada.
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Aug 8 2008, 02:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
It really depends on the person.
Some guys feel like players when they cheat. It makes them feel like every girl wants them and they can do anything they want. Some guys just make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes, it's part of being human. I'd talk to him about it if it really bothers you. |
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Aug 9 2008, 01:28 PM
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 (((((((((っ･ω･)っ zoooooooom~ Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 675,193 |
QUOTE(MissFits @ Aug 8 2008, 12:07 PM)  It really depends on the person. Some guys feel like players when they cheat. It makes them feel like every girl wants them and they can do anything they want. Some guys just make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes, it's part of being human. I'd talk to him about it if it really bothers you. I totally agree. And keep an eye on him, but don't let his past govern your relationship. |
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Aug 9 2008, 06:17 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
He's capable of it.
There's a possibility that he's changed his ways and will remain faithful with you. However, it never hurts to be a little more vigilant. |
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