if you were cheated on would you be able to forgive Options

[ThePrettyGirlIAm]

i mean honestly if you were cheated on could you forgive your mate? i know i couldn't , i mean afterall that woudn't happen me being as pretty as i am. you should all be jealous.

[Tomates]

ive been cheated on before
(or so i think)
i couldnt forgive him.
but i did because i was younge and naive and still liked him

[MiSSP]

It depends on the situation. Me and my man have been threw a lot so if it was just him f**king her because
'it just happened' then of course im going to be mad/upset at him but i wouldn't leave him. Theres a difference if its just a f**k and if he's actually lying to me to go basically have another relationship with another girl thats really what I consider cheating, expressing your feelings to someone who isn't your significant other and lying to you to go spend time with someone else and expressing/sharing his love with her.

[DoubleJ]

I would never take a girl back if she cheated:

A. That means that I am not doing something right
B. That means that she is a silly hoe
C. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

[mizzkewl06]

^ agreed. except about a boy. i've been cheated on twice. the first time i didn't find out until after we broke up and we haven't spoken since. the second time i knew it all along but i didn't care... we broke up & we don't speak to each other. i forgive both of them but i would definately not take a cheater back. if they did it once, what makes me think they won't do it again?

[yivan]

i mean honestly if you were cheated on could you forgive your mate? i know i couldn't , i mean afterall that woudn't happen me being as pretty as i am. you should all be jealous.

"Pretty" people still get cheated on, take celebrities for example.

But I dontthink I could trust a person anymore after being cheated on. Then the relationship would be in ruins and then it would end.

[Tomates]

i mean afterall that woudn't happen me being as pretty as i am. you should all be jealous.

Someone has a bit of an oversized ego

[Melie]

i've been cheated on and i forgave but forgetting is always the hard part. i still sometimes think about it from time to time.

but everyone is human because i've cheated before.

WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND!!!!

[Butterflyphoenix]

I don't think I would be able to forgive, I'm pretty stubborn. Though, if i really did love my mate then I think I would be able to forgive.

[karmakiller]

Right now, no. There's plenty of other people out there that will make you a hell of a lot happier. And they have broken your trust, and without trust in your relationship it's probably not going to last wrong. Even if they aren't doing something, you will probably end up bringing it up even if you claim you are over it.

If it's a situation that involves marriage and children, there might be a chance of working things out. But if it were me, I'd move on.

[Annabean]

Probably not right away, but eventually. i mean it's done; why hold on to it? right? but sometimes, just sometimes i hold on a little longer just to play with them and hurt them like they hurt me.

[aaayotiffany]

i mean honestly if you were cheated on could you forgive your mate? i know i couldn't , i mean afterall that woudn't happen me being as pretty as i am. you should all be jealous.

cocky much?

Probably not right away, but eventually. i mean it's done; why hold on to it? right?

true.

and no, i would not take someone back if they cheated on me. i hate seeing it happen to friends and they'll consider taking them back because the guys/girls can "sweet-talk" themselves out of trouble. its so stupid. no one should have to deal with that. if someone wants to do stuff with someone else, they're obviously doubting their relationship. and in that case, that could only lead to more trouble.

[Archana]

it depends what kind of cheating. a one night stand thing or if it's a full relationship.

either way - no :(

[towntown2]

I think with time I'll be able to forgive.
Cheating's a deal breaker for me, so I won't continue the relationship.
The forgetting part will take longer.

[MissFits]

When I was younger in a less serious relationship, probably.
But, I love my boyfriend. Part of being in love is trust. If he betrayed my trust like that I don't think I could ever forgive him.
I would probably try, because I am a very forgiving person, but I think the relationship would be doomed the second I found out.

[ThePrettyGirlIAm]

i'm cocky? i have a ego? no you have it confused. i have a high self esteem, you should all think you're pretty, that is if you don't have a low self esteem.

[xoxo_proud]

If it was a fling I wouldn't forgive him. But if I was in love I might try and work it out.

[Tomates]

i'm cocky? i have a ego? no you have it confused. i have a high self esteem, you should all think you're pretty, that is if you don't have a low self esteem.

Theres a difference between having a high self esteem and being cocky.
You are cocky.

I dont have a high self esteem
but i deffinatly dont have a low self esteem

but i wouldnt go around saying "i mean afterall that woudn't happen me being as pretty as i am. you should all be jealous"

[MissFits]

If it was a fling I wouldn't forgive him. But if I was in love I might try and work it out.

That seems kind of ass backwards to me.

[ilauqh]

i don't think i'd be able to forgive him very well but i know i wouldn't be able to break up with him.

[silent-rebirth]

I would be able to forgive. Better to forgive and forget then to remember it and have emotions take over.

[manny-the-dino]

I would forgive him eventually but I don't think I would take him back.

[ThePrettyGirlIAm]

Theres a difference between having a high self esteem and being cocky.
You are cocky.

I dont have a high self esteem
but i deffinatly dont have a low self esteem

but i wouldnt go around saying "i mean afterall that woudn't happen me being as pretty as i am. you should all be jealous"

i can't help it that i'm pretty , i mean if i could change being pretty for you i still wouldn't. just kidding

[xMayleex]

Personally I think it depends on the situation. Say it was a guy I was seeing for a few weeks and I wasn't exactly feeling deep feelings I would probably be able to be like .. okay whatever. We'd probably end up finishing but I don't think it would hurt as much but I still doubt we'd be friends. But if it was someone like my boyfriend who I've been seeing for almost two years, I think I'd be so broken that I wouldn't want to believe it. Obviously I wouldn't be able to forgive that ever though if it was someone who I didn't love then I'd probably be okay with it over time.

[SimplicityGirl]

Well depends...but likely not. It's a huge blow to the relationship--a loss of trust.