How soon is too soon?, your love dies, how long should you wait. |
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 Jul 31 2008, 11:27 AM
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ohh fuu shuu..
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Jul 31 2008, 11:30 AM
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all he has is his father.
but i don't know why i'm trying to explain it to you. you wont get it. stereotypes. just because i live in the us doesnt mean i'm going to get pregnant before i graduate hight school. you don't know me. or the situation. so why are you still talking? |
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Jul 31 2008, 11:33 AM
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QUOTE(dhxdezigns @ Jul 31 2008, 12:30 PM)  all he has is his father. but i don't know why i'm trying to explain it to you. you wont get it. stereotypes. just because i live in the us doesnt mean i'm going to get pregnant before i graduate hight school. you don't know me. or the situation. so why are you still talking? ok.. now princc feeell baadd fuu da boi.. *princ rub dhxdezi head.... walkk outt thrad..* 
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Jul 31 2008, 11:34 AM
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QUOTE(dhxdezigns @ Jul 31 2008, 09:24 AM) -_- i paid for him to go to california so that he could go to his command post and work. when did i ever say anything about children? also, i'm not bitching. i was asking for peoples opinions. and he wont be driving anywhere. he's dead. pay attention. [[interrupts]] He's dead?...I must be reading something wrong...cuz that lost me... |
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Jul 31 2008, 11:36 AM
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ok, if you read the name of the thread. the description says..
"your love dies, how long should you wait." yes, he is dead. he was on his way to cali when his car went off the road, down 100 feet, and caught on fire. |
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Jul 31 2008, 11:39 AM
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QUOTE(dhxdezigns @ Jul 31 2008, 12:36 PM) ok, if you read the name of the thread. the description says.. "your love dies, how long should you wait." yes, he is dead. he was on his way to cali when his car went off the road, down 100 feet, and caught on fire. WTF... u nevaa saii dat in u postt..  
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Jul 31 2008, 11:40 AM
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well see i thought that you meant emotionally.
smh...nevermind...ok...I understand now... QUOTE WTF... u nevaa saii dat in u postt.. blink.gif _unsure.gif ^^I know... |
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Jul 31 2008, 11:40 AM
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sorry i'll edit the post o_o guess i wasn't clear.
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Jul 31 2008, 11:46 AM
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QUOTE(dhxdezigns @ Jul 31 2008, 05:51 AM) I've recently lost the most important person in my life. Edit:He was killed in a car accident about a month ago. We were together for almost a year and a half [two days shy]. We talked about getting married. We'd looked at rings and had one picked out, all he needed was money. We were perfect. How long would you say is not long enough to wait to find someone else? In my opinion it really depends on how long you were with the person and just how well you got along. Really it's a personal decision, I'm just curious how long people would wait. wen u readdi.. |
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Jul 31 2008, 12:38 PM
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I'm a big believer in when the time is right, your heart will let your head know.
Mizzkewl06 is right. There's no specific time period for someone who is grieving before they can date again. |
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Jul 31 2008, 06:56 PM
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There is no rule book to life. You'll just know.
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Aug 3 2008, 12:58 PM
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you can always take time
a lot of times people are confused about having a new boyfriend/girlfriend because they are afraid that they are "replacing" your lost love which is never true take your time and when you find that person where you have thoughts of living with them forever your know you have the right person i bet your boyfriend would rather have you happy then be lonly |
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Aug 3 2008, 01:09 PM
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wow i cant imagine what your going through and it must be hard.
Thats something that could take a while to recover from which is ok. You will figure out if your ready or not to move on and if it takes a long time thats fine. and i agree with robbotic this is deffinatly not something you can cure with ice cream. and what a pathetic answer that was too. Just take your time. and again im so sorry for your loss. |
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Aug 3 2008, 01:54 PM
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the earlier posters may not have understood that i was trying to say he is dead. i don't think i had made myself clear therefore i made and edit. they may have thought i was just saying that we broke up or something.
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