If it were possible would you want to know everything about your future mate?, o(-( |
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 Jul 22 2008, 07:48 PM
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 Drank wit your boy  Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997  |
I mean if it were somehow possible that you could learn everything about your intimate partner as in what they have done in the past, been with , cheated on , etc. would you take the opportunity to learn about it or just rather not know?
I would rather know. I mean I don't want be with a girl thats has been gangbanged, ran train on, peed on, etc. if I knew. I hope that a girl would be honest enough to tell me if she been ran through before we get married so I can call it off. |
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Jul 22 2008, 07:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Administrator Posts: 8,629 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 498,468 |
Haha, yeah I'd like to know too. I mean I'd be spending the rest of my life with them, no?
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Jul 22 2008, 07:52 PM
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 asdfghjkl; Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,121 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 665,416 |
of course. i wouldnt want a killer as my wife o.O
or an abuser, or psychopath, or anything of that sort. so YEA. |
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Jul 22 2008, 07:55 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
But then it takes away from the fun of finding out.
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Jul 22 2008, 07:57 PM
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I would want to know everything about my future mate. I want to learn more about him. But, It would also be nice to hear about his past coming straight from him(:
Honesty is the best policy, they say. |
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Jul 22 2008, 08:20 PM
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we as humans get curious, no matter how much we trust our partners. so yah, i'd rather know anything and everything so i could get over it way faster ;o.
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Jul 22 2008, 08:53 PM
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 [Insert something Witty Here] Group: Member Posts: 363 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,828 |
it seems too much like stalking to me.
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Jul 22 2008, 08:55 PM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
That would take all the fun out of the relationship.
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Jul 22 2008, 08:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Administrator Posts: 8,629 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 498,468 |
QUOTE(simplyytricia @ Jul 22 2008, 05:57 PM)  But, It would also be nice to hear about his past coming straight from him(: Honesty is the best policy, they say. Yeah... now that I think about, I would prefer they tell me themselves. |
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Jul 22 2008, 10:09 PM
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 =] Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
Of course I would want to know everything about him
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Jul 23 2008, 01:39 PM
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 BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
Well i guess it would maybe take out the fun in living. maybe just a few things like his name..maybe only first name so you can stay on your toes when you meet him /her.
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Jul 23 2008, 05:24 PM
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i'd definitely want to know. it might sound nosy or paranoid, but even if i trust my life with someone, i'd still want to know.
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Jul 23 2008, 05:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
Yeah.
I'd love to know exactly how my boyfriends mind works. I think it would lead to a better understanding of one another, and therefore leading to a healthier relationship. Unless it turns out he is some crazed maniac with intentions to kill me and eat me for Thanksgiving, then it would lead to my life being prolonged, which are both pretty good things |
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Jul 23 2008, 07:56 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
i do, but i don't because it would take the fun out of getting to know each other and learning how to trust each other and all that. but i do because of course, i wanna know everything about them. i'd trust them to tell me anyways, at least i hope they would.
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Jul 23 2008, 08:14 PM
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Drank wit your boy Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 |
I'm actually surprised at how many people said yes. I thought for sure people would say its morally wrong or something, therefore I expected a lot of no answers.
For those who say no, you say it takes the fun out of the relationship, but if thats the case what would be so fun 5 years down the line after you're married with children to find out your girl participated in a gangbang that involved her and 5 other guys. While I don't think I have the right to know I would like to know. Plain and simple so I could pack my bags and not waste my time. I think that she should know the same about me as well. |
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Jul 23 2008, 08:27 PM
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 i'm yemi, i-i-i rock. Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 668,679 |
QUOTE(BanDaSnowman @ Jul 23 2008, 09:14 PM) but if thats the case what would be so fun 5 years down the line after you're married with children to find out your girl participated in a gangbang that involved her and 5 other guys. LMAO! omg i choked on my food reading that. i agree with you though, i wouldn't want to know...most of a relationship is being able to learn about someone and accepting it during a period of time. |
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Jul 23 2008, 09:58 PM
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Drank wit your boy Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 |
QUOTE(yemiOH @ Jul 23 2008, 09:27 PM) LMAO! omg i choked on my food reading that.  I've learned that you should never read stuff on the internet while eating or drinking after I spit out my drink all over the keyboard one time laughing, however I still do it anyway. I'll never learn. |
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Jul 23 2008, 10:00 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
No not really. I like to figure out the mystery in someone. It'll be quite boring if you know them already too much. Leave that shit for 20 years down the line of a marriage when it starts getting dull, cuz you guys have nothing left to talk about.
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Jul 23 2008, 10:04 PM
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Here's a conundrum...
Is the knowledge contingent on your desire, or are they mutually exclusive? If you were to find out everything you wanted to know about your future mate, but knowing it led you to no longer desire that person, would that mean you no longer would know everything you wanted to know about that person? If yes, would the undesired knowledge then be forgotten, meaning that you would never lose the desire in the first place? And at that point would you regain the knowledge, causing you to lose your desire once again? Would this process proceed ad nauseum? |
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Jul 23 2008, 10:42 PM
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i'm yemi, i-i-i rock. Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 668,679 |
QUOTE(KryMeARiver @ Jul 23 2008, 11:04 PM) Here's a conundrum... Is the knowledge contingent on your desire, or are they mutually exclusive? If you were to find out everything you wanted to know about your future mate, but knowing it led you to no longer desire that person, would that mean you no longer would know everything you wanted to know about that person? If yes, would the undesired knowledge then be forgotten, meaning that you would never lose the desire in the first place? And at that point would you regain the knowledge, causing you to lose your desire once again? Would this process proceed ad nauseum? shzt. you got me.
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Jul 24 2008, 07:54 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
i wouldnt squeeze it out of him like a sponge though
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Jul 24 2008, 10:27 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I don't want to have to squeeze out all the nitty gritty details out of the them though. I believe that we all have our own little secrets...and really, if they trust me enough, eventually everything will be spilled out.
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Jul 24 2008, 10:30 PM
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/人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
Kryo has found a paradox.
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Jul 24 2008, 10:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,028 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 579,129 |
I'd like to know whatever I can.
Knowledge is power ! |
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Jul 25 2008, 01:09 AM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
I'd rather know.
I'd run the risk of discovering things that would jeopardize the relationship, but I can end it before it goes too far. Yeah, truth hurts. But it's the best. |
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