Do long distance relationships work out? |
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 Jul 8 2008, 08:41 PM
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I just moved across the country, and then this guy who I used to be friends with asked me out on a date for the next time I visit. It was great because I liked him a lot. I'm moving back in a year, and I'm going to visit a lot, so do you think it will work? How can we keep it interesting?
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Jul 8 2008, 09:37 PM
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Custom Member Title Group: Member Posts: 655 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 619,464 |
not at all, exept if your man has a 10 000 000 miles dick
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Jul 8 2008, 09:42 PM
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 . ish Happens . Group: Member Posts: 244 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 665,362 |
^^ha...wow^
uhh...it might depending on how ya'll are...like your needs in all...and how truely feel for eachother... once again just my opinion... |
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Jul 8 2008, 09:46 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
Personally. I dont think so
I know like two people who have just dated just fron a town or two over First one broke up and my friend cheated on her boyfriend. I guess if you really trustworthy it could work. but theres SO much potential of things going wrong. I would be constantly worrying if my boyfriend was cheating on me. |
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Jul 8 2008, 11:18 PM
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no
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Jul 9 2008, 12:24 AM
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no.
maybe if you can see each other like 2-3 times a month..? |
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Jul 9 2008, 08:29 AM
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QUOTE(Be-Faithful @ Jul 8 2008, 10:37 PM)  not at all, exept if your man has a 10 000 000 miles dick LOL. 
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Jul 9 2008, 08:36 AM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
if you really want it to it can, but you have to have a lot of trust in each other and of course honesty. personally i've never liked the idea, but if you really love/like someone and are willing to make that sacrifice then maybe it can work. good luck!
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Jul 9 2008, 10:58 PM
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QUOTE(Be-Faithful @ Jul 9 2008, 11:37 AM) not at all, exept if your man has a 10 000 000 miles dick Exactly, so forget the hype because long distance relationships don't work. I mean, they work sometimes, but that's a case of once in a blue moon. I don't know, don't take my word for it, I may just be biased because I've tried one and that totally exploded. |
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Jul 11 2008, 01:20 AM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
That's weird. So he asks you out when you leave to go out with him when you come back...a whole year later? That's just weird.
I mean I suppose it can work if you guys decided to like be in a relationship til' you go back and visit. And of course that's if both of you want it to work. If you both are open to date until you get back, then yea I wouldn't expect that date when you go back. But anywho, if you both are in a relationship now until you visit again to go on your date and such. Then yea it can work if you really want it to. I would suggest calling a lot and talking and such, I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 1/2 years and I mean we talk everyday and see each other every couple/few months. |
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Jul 16 2008, 12:54 PM
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 You have no idea. Group: Member Posts: 219 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,524 |
Make sure you guys communicate a lot if you're going to do this. Yeah, this can work out if you feel this is something you're really going to keep your heart on. To keep it interesting, do something new every time you visit him.
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Jul 16 2008, 12:56 PM
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QUOTE(RylieDinosaur @ Jul 8 2008, 09:41 PM) I just moved across the country, and then this guy who I used to be friends with asked me out on a date for the next time I visit. It was great because I liked him a lot. I'm moving back in a year, and I'm going to visit a lot, so do you think it will work? How can we keep it interesting? WTF... u lyke lyke bunchaa guyy huh.. hahaha.. u justt makee dizz othaa thradd sayenn u lykee diz guy.. noww diz.. 
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Jul 16 2008, 02:10 PM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
Basically through my experience it can work if you are willing.
But again: "If you love something, let it go, if it comes back it was always yours. If it doesn't, it wasn't yours to begin with". |
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Jul 16 2008, 02:18 PM
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QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Jul 16 2008, 03:10 PM) Basically through my experience it can work if you are willing. But again: "If you love something, let it go, if it comes back it was always yours. If it doesn't, it wasn't yours to begin with". datt madd dum... wat boutt summ ppll gott famillii probleemm orr no $ da drivv da c eechh othaa.. NUB.. 
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Jul 17 2008, 10:42 PM
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from my personal experiance, no.
Unless, you trust and care for each other then probably it will work. But I HIGHLY doubt that it works. Sorry, I'm totally against long-distance relationships...unless it's just "penpals". |
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Jul 18 2008, 04:11 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
from personal experience, yes. we saw each other like every other month or every two months. it really depends on the two in the relationship. you both gotta be dedicated to each other. its hard as fxck, but its all worth seeing their face later.
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Jul 18 2008, 04:15 PM
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It depends on lots of things.
The people, how often you talk, how often you see eachother, how you feel about eachother. I think if you guys really like eachother it could work. Even if it doesn't, it never really hurts to try, right? |
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Jul 18 2008, 04:28 PM
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 asdfghjkl; Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,121 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 665,416 |
QUOTE(Be-Faithful @ Jul 8 2008, 07:37 PM) not at all, exept if your man has a 10 000 000 miles dick LMFAO. &my bro and his gf has been together for a long ass time. she lives in ny, and he lives in ca. but, i guess you need to money to visit each other? itll work out, if you actually try your damn hardest. &stay faithful[x both people have to work at it. but its 'possible' |
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Jul 18 2008, 04:38 PM
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 What Up, Whats Hapening Group: Member Posts: 360 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 554,698 |
why all these guys like you so much
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Jul 19 2008, 09:36 PM
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 hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
I'm not loyal like that. I need a girl to keep me on check to prevent me from flirting. I;ve tried long distance and I've actually tried to be serious. didnt work. you need to be really dedicated
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Jul 19 2008, 10:14 PM
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sumtymmee worrkk.. sumtymee noo workk..
QUOTE(br3aker4lyfe @ Jul 19 2008, 10:36 PM) I'm not loyal like that. I need a girl to keep me on check to prevent me from flirting. I;ve tried long distance and I've actually tried to be serious. didnt work. you need to be really dedicated u aintt reedii da datee yitt kidd.. 
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Jul 19 2008, 10:21 PM
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hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
I've had my share of relationships...
just got out of a 2 1/2 year one =O Pretty sure im ready I just unable to hold back the lust.. lol |
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Jul 19 2008, 10:33 PM
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QUOTE(br3aker4lyfe @ Jul 19 2008, 11:21 PM) I've had my share of relationships... just got out of a 2 1/2 year one =O Pretty sure im read I just unable to hold back the lust.. lol daa biettchh dumm u rite...
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Jul 19 2008, 11:45 PM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
I'm in a long distance relationship & we're managing fine...long distance can work if you want it to work. It's never going to be easy, so you have to find out what works for the relationship & stick to it & ignore everything that could possibly interfere with it
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Jul 20 2008, 01:47 AM
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In my opinion, long distance relationships don't really work out.
But, if you and your lover are really into each other and is willing to wait for each other then i guess it would work out. But, in your situation, since it's just a date and you guys aren't really committed..it will be very hard to keep the spark between the two of you. You guys are away from each other and most likely, what will happen is that you two will lose interest in each other. BUT If you guys are really into waiting for each other, -then you guys can talk on the phone to keep each other updated -web chat -send letters and stuff[: |
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