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 Jul 9 2008, 09:11 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,163  |
bare with me everyone, i'll try to keep things short
 i have a guy friend who i'm really good friends with. he trusts me quite a lot i think cus he tells me a lot of personal things about himself. during the summer since we don't see each other, he would call/text/msn me almost everyday. he usually calls me when he's "bored" or when he has break at work. one time he called me at 12 AM and we talked for 30 minutes. so i'm wondering, does he have any feelings towards me? he called me at 12 AM just because he was bored... but the thing is, he said that he wants to get back with his ex gf. he told me on msn one time that hes gonna try and make her his gf again. this is what happened: me: have fun with your ex tomorrow! him: you know... i'm gonna try and make her my gf again me: i know.. him: wat u mean u know? me: u said it before didnt u? him: o = =well then me: im guessing ur gonna go to sleep? him: soon ^^ actually now, i'll phone u tmw if i get bored me: HMMM him: i love you ???????? (heart) me: noob him: :O :O me: *thumbs up* *thumbs up* him: haha nites I LOVE YOU? wtf? is he just comfortable with me or what ? T__T |
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Jul 9 2008, 09:32 PM
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 I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
im SO lost. is that the convo you had w/ him at 12 o'clock???
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Jul 9 2008, 09:36 PM
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 Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
Hard to tell, cuz it could just be his sense of humor.
But once he starts obsessing over you ("Why didn't you answer when I called you/Why disn't you IM when you said you would?blahblahblah") then you can assume he likes you. |
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Jul 9 2008, 09:38 PM
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I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Jul 9 2008, 10:36 PM)  Hard to tell, cuz it could just be his sense of humor. But once he starts obsessing over you ("Why didn't you answer when I called you/Why disn't you IM when you said you would?blahblahblah") then you can assume he likes you.  what guy tells a girl he loves her, jokingly?
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Jul 9 2008, 09:40 PM
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Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
^f*gs.
Or People at my school. |
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Jul 9 2008, 09:41 PM
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QUOTE(JokeInsideJoke @ Jul 9 2008, 09:32 PM) im SO lost. is that the convo you had w/ him at 12 o'clock??? lol sorry, that's not the convo we had at 12 o clock. dats just one of the msn convos we had about his ex gf, n then he said "i love you ???" afterward and i found it weird.
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Jul 9 2008, 09:42 PM
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I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
i think we need more info other than just this convo
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Jul 9 2008, 09:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,163 |
QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Jul 9 2008, 09:36 PM) Hard to tell, cuz it could just be his sense of humor. But once he starts obsessing over you ("Why didn't you answer when I called you/Why disn't you IM when you said you would?blahblahblah") then you can assume he likes you. lmao x) that makes sense actually =p he doesn't obsess over me though >< |
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Jul 9 2008, 09:43 PM
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Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
^Yay, someone likes my opinion!
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Jul 9 2008, 09:44 PM
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I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
did he get together with his ex?
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Jul 9 2008, 09:48 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,163 |
QUOTE(JokeInsideJoke @ Jul 9 2008, 09:42 PM) i think we need more info other than just this convo um i really dunno.. =X he never asked me if i liked anyone... or any of that relationship stuff reli. we only said a few things about his past relationships... n stuff like dat. err a few times he held my hand? like 2 times we were walking together and somehow i was doing this hand gesture and then he held it and said it was soft... then another time during PE he was showing me an incident that occurred and we were playing baseball so i had to wear a glove, and he was like, give me ur hand, and i gave him the one with the glove, and hes like no not this one, and i gave him my other one, and he put his hand on top of mine and demonstrated something lol... hm he seems to care about me a lot. like when i was feeling sad, he was like u look sad, what's wrong? u know that kinda stuff. but i think hes like that to everyone. he cares a lot about his guy friend of ours and he talks about him a lot.. =p |
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Jul 9 2008, 09:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,163 |
QUOTE(JokeInsideJoke @ Jul 9 2008, 09:44 PM) did he get together with his ex? him and this other girl were planning to hang out, and the girl is friends with his ex too so she invited his ex to come along. but that day his ex wasn't feeling well, so it got canceled. |
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Jul 9 2008, 09:52 PM
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 . ish Happens . Group: Member Posts: 244 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 665,362 |
::walks in:: 'reads' :watches what happens:
this is interesting...so im hoping to get in this... i have a question... ...do you like him?... |
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Jul 9 2008, 09:57 PM
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QUOTE(AsH-lYnn @ Jul 9 2008, 09:52 PM) ::walks in:: 'reads' :watches what happens: this is interesting...but i have a question... ...do you like him?... i dunno  i feel like lately i dunno what to say to him...
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Jul 9 2008, 10:01 PM
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. ish Happens . Group: Member Posts: 244 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 665,362 |
QUOTE(rainie8847 @ Jul 9 2008, 07:57 PM) i dunno i feel like lately i dunno what to say to him..."let me just say now i ask alot of questions so forgive me it i get too nosey..." but ohz...hmm... :thinks of another question:
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Jul 9 2008, 10:15 PM
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QUOTE(AsH-lYnn @ Jul 9 2008, 10:01 PM) "let me just say now i ask alot of questions so forgive me it i get too nosey..." but ohz...hmm... :thinks of another question: LOL ur so dorky 
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Jul 9 2008, 11:06 PM
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 Vae Victis Group: Official Member Posts: 1,416 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,227 |
That sounds like he's just being an economic girly man and saying it colloquially, like girls do. You should beat him up.
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Jul 10 2008, 12:40 AM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
QUOTE he cares a lot about his guy friend of ours and he talks about him a lot.. =p what more do you need to know. |
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Jul 10 2008, 03:45 AM
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He joking. Just flirting you.
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Jul 10 2008, 02:59 PM
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. ish Happens . Group: Member Posts: 244 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 665,362 |
QUOTE(rainie8847 @ Jul 9 2008, 08:15 PM) LOL ur so dorky  how am i dorky?.. 
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Jul 11 2008, 12:47 AM
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I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
QUOTE(rainie8847 @ Jul 9 2008, 10:48 PM) um i really dunno.. =X he never asked me if i liked anyone... or any of that relationship stuff reli. we only said a few things about his past relationships... n stuff like dat. err a few times he held my hand? like 2 times we were walking together and somehow i was doing this hand gesture and then he held it and said it was soft... then another time during PE he was showing me an incident that occurred and we were playing baseball so i had to wear a glove, and he was like, give me ur hand, and i gave him the one with the glove, and hes like no not this one, and i gave him my other one, and he put his hand on top of mine and demonstrated something lol... i dont think that counts as 'holding your hand.' sorry to burst your bubble, hun. now, this one time i cut my hand in science class and my teacher wouldnt give me a band-aid (that bitch) so, after school on the bus it was stinging and my bus driver didnt have a band-aid (she isnt a bitch <3) so i went to sit back down and the guy that i like, lest call him J, sits across from me ususaly, but someone was sitting there so he sat behind me. i showed him it and told him what happened, and he said "be more careful! your going to really hurt yourself one of these times." when my little 6th grade friend sat down next to him and turned on a song i liked i took the ear phone from J and we were figting over it and it rubbed agenst the cut (the f**ker was 3 inches long) well then J heard me breath in really fast and grabed my injured hand in his and he lightly ran his finger over the cut while his other hand came to cup under my hand. it should have seemed totaly weird b/c we were on a bu with 40 other people. but it wasnt :D when he finaly let go of my hand he looked into my eyes and said "i told you to be more careful." and then he grabbed the ear bud out of my other hand. that wouldnt be holding my hand either (as much as i want it to be). (can anyone tell, just from that if the guy likes me?  pretty please?! ) okay. sorry. long story. i had to tell it :D just to make a point
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Jul 11 2008, 12:49 AM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
hm. Could be potential
Sounds like he doesnt know who he likes in my opinion Seems like he likes his ex still but might like you? |
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Jul 11 2008, 12:51 AM
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I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
he also seems like a player, just a tad
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Jul 11 2008, 11:16 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,223 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,356 |
I don't think he likes you. He's just 'flirty' or in my opinion, I'd say he's acting normal. He probably sees you as a friend. Or you're slowly becoming a very close friend of his. Nah, sorry love.
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Jul 11 2008, 05:55 PM
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. ish Happens . Group: Member Posts: 244 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 665,362 |
QUOTE(Sandraaa @ Jul 11 2008, 09:16 AM) I don't think he likes you. He's just 'flirty' or in my opinion, I'd say he's acting normal. He probably sees you as a friend. Or you're slowly becoming a very close friend of his. Nah, sorry love. i agree once i think about it...i was gonna wit da same thing wit my best guy friend...we would straight ACT like we were goin together but once i you actually think about it you could pretty much tell we were really juz super flirty... and jokeinsidejoke... thats kinda weird how he just touched the cut like that...but uhh okay... |
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