His mom, hates me. what do i do? Options

[libertie]

I have literally been in this exact situation before and I can honestly say that I felt totally helpless. I'm afraid I can't offer any advice, because ultimately we broke up because he was 21 and constantly blamed me for his mother not liking me. I couldn't handle it anymore and basically broke it off telling him that I needed someone more grown up. He was upset and tried to get me to change my mind, but at that point I was so fed up with the situation that I couldn't even consider having a relationship with him anymore.

All I can say is if you really want things to work out with him, don't let it get to that point. Be able to calmly tell him how hard you're trying and how it makes you feel that you don't seem to be getting anywhere, but don't come off like you're ranting. If you have to, explain to him that you're trying to be as rational as possible and that you don't mean any disrespect with anything you say.

[Kay-]

You and her should just talk it out and apologize to each other.
My boyfriends mom hates me too haha, this one time i went over to his house and she started screaming and swearing for me to get out of her house..

[heyo-captain-jac...]

Shes a bitch. Theres nothing you can really do about it.

[imnoxonesmemory]

friggin hate moms like that.
and he's 19?
sounds like your boyfriend and his mum need to grow up ( no offence)
if you've put up with it for 2 years congrats.
i think your BF cares, he just doesnt want to make his mum annoyed or feel like he's disrespecting her.. have you tried seriously talking to him about it? as for the mum.. forget her. like everyone else said, you're not in a relationship with her :)