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 Jun 25 2008, 02:13 AM
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when he gets back from out of town next week, I want to kiss my guy friend.
we've been hanging out and flirting for over a month but everytime we've gotten close to kissing, we both get too shy to actually go in for it. what should I do? I think I'm determined enough to actually make the first move, but when and how? typically the guy does it, so I don't know. when we're playing xbox or watching tv, that isn't very romantic. and I feel a little too bold to be the one to lean over in the car when he drops me off at home, especially cause he drives a manual and the stick shift is in between us. help? and is it a turn-off if I make the first move? |
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Jun 25 2008, 02:18 AM
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I'd go for it. I'm hoping to have the courage do do that to my guy friend when he comes back in august. of course two months later he's leaving again for three years so yeah...
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Jun 25 2008, 02:30 AM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
If he likes you, go for it
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Jun 25 2008, 07:19 AM
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I'd say go for it! The worst that could happen is he could turn you down, but if he is a good friend to you he wouldn't do it in a mean way, you know what I mean?
I'd say wrestle around with him, see how he reacts to physical flirting before I jumped in whole hog. If you guys have chemistry there will be a good moment to do it, I guess. Unless you never just sit and talk. |
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Jun 25 2008, 01:56 PM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
i say go for it. and the perfect time would definately be in the car when you're saying bye. just plant one right on him and the stick shift should be no obstacle. just go for it! carpe-diem!!!
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Jun 25 2008, 08:15 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
If you never do it, you'll never know what could have been. If he shows signs of wanting to kiss you as well, then you shouldn't have an issue with awkwardness.
As for the kiss in the manual car, that definately won't get in the way haha, just lean over :) or! make him walk you to the door if its dark, say you heard something about a creep walking the neighborhoods at night, hahaha. and plant one on him! front doorstep kiss, so romanticcc ha. goodluck! |
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Dec 29 2008, 02:30 AM
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 fad3d Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 483,080 |
Kiss the damn guy already OR make him work for your kiss.
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Dec 29 2008, 02:31 AM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
QUOTE(fad3d @ Dec 29 2008, 01:30 AM)  Kiss the damn guy already OR make him work for your kiss. Look at the dates on these threads. |
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Dec 29 2008, 03:30 PM
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fad3d Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 483,080 |
Yes, I did notice the dates on all the threads I've replied to. I wrote for the fun of it. :)
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Dec 29 2008, 07:21 PM
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 i'll fvck you til you luv me fagget Group: Official Member Posts: 2,152 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 428,884 |
QUOTE(secrets-out @ Jun 25 2008, 01:13 AM) when he gets back from out of town next week, I want to kiss my guy friend. we've been hanging out and flirting for over a month but everytime we've gotten close to kissing, we both get too shy to actually go in for it. what should I do? I think I'm determined enough to actually make the first move, but when and how? typically the guy does it, so I don't know. when we're playing xbox or watching tv, that isn't very romantic. and I feel a little too bold to be the one to lean over in the car when he drops me off at home, especially cause he drives a manual and the stick shift is in between us. help? and is it a turn-off if I make the first move? Definitely Halo 3 on xbox. |
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Dec 30 2008, 06:30 PM
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QUOTE(dirtyelbows @ Dec 29 2008, 07:21 PM) Definitely Halo 3 on xbox. Yay. aleast someone likes halo anymoree. |
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Jan 1 2009, 12:25 AM
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 Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
QUOTE(secrets-out @ Jun 25 2008, 02:13 AM) when he gets back from out of town next week, I want to kiss my guy friend. we've been hanging out and flirting for over a month but everytime we've gotten close to kissing, we both get too shy to actually go in for it. what should I do? I think I'm determined enough to actually make the first move, but when and how? typically the guy does it, so I don't know. when we're playing xbox or watching tv, that isn't very romantic. and I feel a little too bold to be the one to lean over in the car when he drops me off at home, especially cause he drives a manual and the stick shift is in between us. help? and is it a turn-off if I make the first move? ooh neat, what kind of car does he drive? 
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