Seriously mixed signals Options

[xCutUpAngelxxx]

Okay, I'm really upset with a boy that I've kind of had my eye on.
It's a long story, but I feel that I have to tell it in order for everything to make sense. Basically, my best friend liked a boy for quite a while(a few months) and he was just interested in being friends with her. Then, she introduced me to him and we started talking and he and I ended up liking each other. My friend found out and she was extremely upset, because I guess everytime she wanted to hang out, he'd ask if I was there and she still really liked him, but he liked me.
Luckily, my friend's pretty mature and not a complete bitch and she said people can't control who they like and she said she wouldn't be happy if the boy and I dated or something, but she also wouldn't end our friendship.
I promised my friend that I wouldn't date the boy, but I couldn't garuntee (spell check) that absolutely nothing would happen between us.

Well, now, about four days ago, the boy and I were talking and he brought up something about a friends-with-benefits type of relationship and he said he still really likes me. I told him I'd be all right with trying it (I've never been in a relationship like that before, though) because I still like him.
And then today I found out he has a new girlfriend.

Fhgjhgkj. I just don't get why he would say that to me and then get a girlfriend. And I know for a fact they just started going out about two days ago, because I happened to notice a comment that one of his friends left him on Myspace.
Plus, I pretty much could have lost my best friend because of the whole thing.

I'm sorry, that was kind of long.
But, can anyone explain to me why he would do that? If he doesn't like me or doesn't want to take our friendship//relationship further, then why would he say he does? And if he does "still really like me", why would he get a girlfriend?(I guess he could just like her more)

[tokyo-rose]

FWB isn't a committed relationship. It usually involves two people who are only physically attracted to each other and hook up sometimes. (I say "usually" because in this case, you don't only like each other physically.) The two people are free to date others, because they aren't dating each other to begin with.

I don't know why the guy would do this, but you can't say that he's cheating on you or anything, because FWB is not a real relationship.

[queen]

^ agree.

to add on: he could've just wanted 'some' from you.

[aaayotiffany]

he basically kind of wanted something from you. i guess he likes that girl more but he still wants to have you around. he's not worth your time. he's a guy, guys don't think with their head, they think with their little head.

[Archana]

boys are idiots. i guess they can have a fwb relationship without getting emotionally attached to girls. in that case, i don't think it is worth pursuing unless you are in it for the action as well. if you're looking for a deeper relationship, you might just end up getting hurt.

[Rachel]

How is this mixed signals? He obviously only wants you for booty on the side.

[ReggieM]

boys are idiots.

i so hate it when people say that shit..

because I happened to notice a comment that one of his friends left him on Myspace.

noone happens to notice things on myspace. COMMENT STALKER!

[xCutUpAngelxxx]

^ Okay, fine, maybe I stalked a little. >_> <_< Aha.
&& I dislike when people say "boys are idiots" as well. Girls are frigging idiots too. *shrug*

The two people are free to date others, because they aren't dating each other to begin with.

I don't know why the guy would do this, but you can't say that he's cheating on you or anything, because FWB is not a real relationship.

I see what you're saying.
Yeah, it's not like I felt that he cheated on me (since, like you said, we were never going out or anything), I just didn't understand why he did it.

@ Aayotiffany: That last sentence made me laugh. :]]

Thanks, everyone for the answer//advice. :]

I guess it was kind of obvious to everyone except me that he probably just wanted some. :/ Hah.