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[ReggieM]

Now that i have a better understanding of girls and whatnot ive found that that its never a good idea to ask a girl advice about dating especially in the initial steps like when ur not dating the girl already. I came to the realization that guys advice to other guys on the subject is actually better than a girls especially a guy with success.

Do girls find this true as well? and visa versa?

idk it might seem confusing ill elaborate later on.

[LoveToMySilas]

Hm...well I always thought that guys went to girls for all their problems. But maybe its because girls always tell you the "dream guy" way of doing things where is a guy would tell you a more realistic way of doing it.

[EyeLuvMeesun]

girls always tell you the "dream guy" way of doing things where is a guy would tell you a more realistic way of doing it.

I'm going to have to agree with the above statement, and calling it true.

As for what I think:
1. When you ask a guy who has had his fair share of girlfriends how to "begin" to date a girl then it's pretty obvious that he has the right "moves" or "system" to get one of the opposite sex to like him. With this in knowledge, the asker is more self-assured about the "methods", because the "teacher" has had success before the "learner".

2. A female would tell the "learner" an "ideal" way of achieving one of the opposite sex. This however may promote "false-a-tivity" (I know it isn't a word, but bare with me okay?) or "fake-ness" (also not a word ) of a person in order to achieve what he desires. The "ideal" method is also most likely the hardest to pull off and in most cases fails because the "learner" is not capable of fully befitting the "character" he is supposed to become.

I am just merely stating my opinions and so hope that all who read my post know that this can also go vice-versa because the situation is almost identical in both cases of Male AND female.

[ReggieM]

yup^

[Glamourouz]

Advice from an experienced veteran is the way to go.

Exactly & it can be male or female but it all depends...I give advice all the time & it works because I keep it real...I don't go by all that dream guy crap anymore...if I need advice I go to a male because all the females I know come to me & they just are hopeless with relationships & some females are jealous or just tell you what you want to hear & not what you need to hear

[queen]

disagree. maybe the girls from whom you receive advice are idiots.

there's no better way to learn how to please a girl than from another girl. granted, we vary and have different tastes, but the basic stuff are pretty similar. guys always think they know what to do, but they never get it right until the very end, when they finally learn from their mistakes, find the right girl, and settle down.

how many of your guy friends are in a successful and happy marriage? just because one has been involved in many relationships doesn't mean they are successful at them; it just means they have more break-ups.

[katebaybayy]

I think it depends on the girl you ask advice from.
I mean, if its just some random girl (like on here) then im sure they will give you an honest answer without beating around the bush.
But if you ask your girlfriend or a girl friend, I think maybe they will stretch it a little bit because maybe they dont want to hurt your feelings.

[ReggieM]

disagree. maybe the girls from whom you receive advice are idiots.

nah homie i dont recieve any advice from idiots.

im not talking longterm dating or Girl friends...