ladiez askin the fellahz..., ??? Options

[Melissa]

i had a serious urge to post this on the guy's lockerroom,,...but i figured i poked my butt in there too much, so i'll post this up here

girls: do you ask guys out? do you feel comfortable with it? what exactly do you say?

guys: do you like it when girls ask you out?


...cuz theres this guy at my school...i have a feeling he likes me, and i reeally really like him...but i don't want to be the one askin him out...if ya know what i mean...

[starling]

haha, nope, I don't ask guys out, I'm too chicken. But my best friend is a guy, and he's told me that most guys woudn't have a problem with the girl making the first move, cuz apparently they stress out over it sometimes--that whole fear of rejection thing. I say go for it, just say 'hey, I was wondering if maybe you'd want to get together and go out sometime, maybe see a movie this weekend or something.' leave it open, kind of, so he's not way pressured into anything. or get some of your friends and go out with some of his friends, and just see how it goes.

Good luck!!!

[*krnxswat*]

guys: do you like it when girls ask you out?

I don't really mind at all. Plus, I don't find anything wrong with it. Just a rare occasion.

[wayne]

dont matter 2 me

[L00d]

if a girl asked me out instead i'd be completely fine with it.. it would show that she feels the same way about me =]

[Desperado]

a lot of times, guys do all the work trying to get the grl, starting convo, flirting etc.. so i'm pretty confident that we as guys won't mind grls making it easier for us sometime.

[nate6986]

ehm im completely fine with girls asking guys out...just cz i really dont like making the 1st move

[painfultears]

Um, I don't ask guys out. I feel shy and etc. I guess I get scared of rejection. But if I had to, I'll just leave it an open-ended question. Probably something like: "Hey, I was wondering if you want to go some place during the weekend. Maybe watch a movie, or something like that." I durno, I'm weird.

[darkestdesire]

Umm asking a guy out would be wierd.  Cause i suspect most girls are shy and scared of rejection.  But if i was in the 'guy' point of view i think they wouldnt care if they got rejected (if there cute) but if youre like a geek (no offense to those who think you are) they would be kinne shame.  Well thas all imma say

[Melissa]

i know some girls can get really bitchy when a guy she doesnt like asks her out...
so if a girl that you dont like in that way asks you......................

[k00alah]

if a girl asks a guy it.. the tradition is being taken away.. its cool and all.. but i prefer when guys ask girls out.. more old school.. ya know?

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

if a girl asks a guy it.. the tradition is being taken away.. its cool and all.. but i prefer when guys ask girls out.. more old school.. ya know?

i agree with him!!!

i've never asked a guy out before becuz im one of those who are afraid of rejection. but if it counts for like dances and stuffs like that i asked the boys cuz i didnt feel like waiting for one to ask.

[COLDasICE]

if a girl asks a guy it.. the tradition is being taken away.. its cool and all.. but i prefer when guys ask girls out.. more old school.. ya know?

I was never really asked out by a guy, well my bf that is.. its just.. well.. happend!

But I agree on the guy asking out the girl best.. It just doesn't seem normal when it comes to a girl asking a guy..

[k00alah]

here's a thought.. would a girl ask a guy to marry her?? haha never been done.. (in my knowledge) its just not right.. it loses its meaning..

[Melissa]

yeah...i agree with the tradition thing. so ...yeah.

[CloudUnionX]

I don't really mind at all. Plus, I don't find anything wrong with it. Just a rare occasion. 

I agree, I dont mind, but it does make me feel good considering all of the times Ive gone out on a limb to ask the girl.

[fragrance]

i dont like asking guys out
im shy and afraid of rejection

[noaccounthere]

heh, my first gf, asked me out. But the other two times I asked her... funny though, of all three times we went out she dumped me for another guy and then came back begging to go with me.

The third time I told myself thas it... its better juss to be friends.

[jennica]

hehe nahh* datll jus show u wer desperate...i wudnt...pero if ur sure no chance of rejection den i guess u cud...but id play hard ta get...hehehe

[CloudUnionX]

English please.

[Melissa]

hmm i'm likin the 'hard to get' idea.

my english teacher asked us this, and most guys were all like 'yea, why do we hafta do all the work?'

but...i dunno

[LatinaLady]

i dont ask guys out i get toooooo nevous lol. and i am afraid of being "rejected" so i wait for the guy to ask me out. i give hints saying that i like them etc...

[XxKrNqTcUiTyxX]

Um, I don't ask guys out. I feel shy and etc. I guess I get scared of rejection. But if I had to, I'll just leave it an open-ended question. Probably something like: "Hey, I was wondering if you want to go some place during the weekend. Maybe watch a movie, or something like that." I durno, I'm weird.

yur not alone, i feel da same way

[S0ULd0UT]

here's a thought.. would a girl ask a guy to marry her?? haha never been done.. (in my knowledge) its just not right.. it loses its meaning..

yeah, i agree on that one.
well, personally, i wudn't ask guys out

[aj637]

you can say i am accustomed to being old fashion and guys are the ones that asks the girls out. it is very weird to me when a girl ask the guys. maybe because i think thats wrong and lil too much from the girl.