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[IamRad]

should i talk to him about this? he actually said he wanted to talk to me in person about this...just that he avoids me. ha

[TiffanyFactorial]

you might want to just drop it all together. he doesn't deserve your time. dont waste time on him unless you really want to keep him as a friend. then i suggest you talk to him. but if he doesnt try, then you shouldn't have to either.

[Glamourouz]

Sure, talking about it won't hurt...I say go on and listen to him but also tell him what's on your mind about the situation as well, don't just let him do all of the talking...

[Sandraaa]

So? What happened when you talked to him?

[IamRad]

ah yes! well, when he was shutting me down, he mentioned that he couldnt see himself having a GOOD conversation with me, which is total bull cause ive tried many times, hes just not responsive. so when we talked, i basically talked the whole time to get my words out there, and he just nodded and said yeah, i know, yeah.

Well, he was really closed up and stuff, kinda shy seeming ya know? he said something about how he wished he did like me cause it'd be a good thing for him, but he just doesnt.
I shouldve questioned that, poop.

Uhhh, then i asked him why he held my hand in the limo and why he kissed me back and whatnot, and he said that he just got caught up and wasnt thinking about anything but a good time. He said sorry, and he said he understands if i was mad at him, i just told him im not the type of person to hold a grudge against someone, and he said oh well i guess thats a good thing for me. I even told him i HATE awkward situations such as avoidance in the hallways, and he understood that, so now he notices me in the halls and says hi ha...


Oh! and he said something about how he didnt want a relationship to come between him and his frieds, hahaha...and before he said this i told him that im not trying to get him to like me or anything but its just the fact that he doesnt even know me, and he just judged me based on what he knows, which isnt much. After he said that friends bit, i told him he cant base his life upon someone elses cause thats just stupid and things never work out that way.

Now i dont know WHY, but i keep thinking about him and i DONT want to :[ It actually annoys the hell out of me, which is sad cause im annoying myself now :[

[rockable]

What an f**kbrain. He had no right to lead you on like that! Jesus!
He sounds like an ass to me.
Your just gonna have to move on hun, and try and work your way around him. As you said, its annoying that you cant get him out of your head, and it will be hard, but you can do it. :)

[imnoxonesmemory]

a-hole 101
shame. guys like this really suck.
he's a prick and doesn't deserve you , or anyone for that matter.
goodluck.

try slapping him in the face or kicking him in the balls next time :D

[vintage-toile]

he seems like a really unfair guy.
and everyone does the whole can't stop thinking about >> don't want to stop thinking about but secretly do >> stops thinking about..and just as they stop start again thing. that's natural.
over time it will all get sorted and you'll probably meet someone new, and a lot better.
just stay friends longer with a guy and don't let anything happen until youre really, really sure

[datass]

you two probably just had awesome chemistry --it doesn't have to mean you like each other either for that kind of connection.

yeah.

oh well, guy doesn't look you then.

and seriously, kicking him in the ball because he so called lead you on? maybe you were just thinking too much.