GIRLS ONLY.. Do you say yes if you like a guy..? Options

[shoryuken]

If you really like a guy..but you two hardly know each other and he ask you out..would you turn down his offer if he ask you out..?

if so.. why would you turn it down.. or will you say yes if he ask you out../

[deplorable]

yes i would.
for me a relationship has to grow from friendship, but thats only my opinion.

im always wary of people i dont know well, and getting involved with someone i dont truely know on a personal level would freak me out. i dont think id be able to enjoy the relationship.

[Uronacid]

I would turn him down because I wouldn't know him well enough. I would want to get to know someone before I got "serious" and made it an exclusive relationship. But I'm not a girl soo...

[shoryuken]

I would turn him down because I wouldn't know him well enough. I would want to get to know someone before I got "serious" and made it an exclusive relationship. But I'm not a girl soo...

thought u a guy this whole time...?
*ahem*
then why not take the offer and go out with him to get to know him better?

[Uronacid]

thought u a guy this whole time...?
*ahem*
then why not take the offer and go out with him to get to know him better?

*pretends he's the girl*

You're coming on too strong. It turns me off. Haha... try to think like a girl buddy. She's probably worried abotu some dude just wanting to get in her poocha. You've got to be more subtle about it. Don't be so forceful.

[MissFits]

^ I agree.
I can say that I'd most definitely say no if some random guy asked me to be his girlfriend.

If you want to talk to her when you see eachother I'm sure that'd be fine though. Whatever you do, DO NOT come on to strong. Just try being her friend and see where that goes.

[shoryuken]

Im talking about just 1 date here ppl.. not get into RELATIONSHIP..

[Kontroll]

If you really like a guy..but you two hardly know each other and he ask you out..would you turn down his offer if he ask you out..?

if so.. why would you turn it down.. or will you say yes if he ask you out../

Well what do you mean? I know I'm not a girl. Deal with it. Seriously. Are you talking about a guy who ask you to go steady, or just on a date? I hope you wouldn't turn a guy down asking you to go on a date if you didn't know him. That's how things work.

*pretends he's the girl*

You're coming on too strong. It turns me off. Haha... try to think like a girl buddy. She's probably worried abotu some dude just wanting to get in her poocha. You've got to be more subtle about it. Don't be so forceful.

Haha, and Josh, you need to start thinking like a girl. Chances are they won't be thinking that. They'll be too busy trying to answer his questions. And if they have a nice conversation, chances are she will be attracted to him, from his sense of confidence and handsome features.

If girls thought that everyone was trying to get into their pants, do you think we would have as many married couples as we do? Or for that fact, people just dating. There's a certain swing to things, and when they aren't followed, things fuck up. The majority of the population will go on a date with a person they have never met before. That's what dates are for. To get to know eachother.

It's a fact. Josh, you watch Sex and the City. That's a perfect example.

[shoryuken]

Chances are they won't be thinking that. They'll be too busy trying to answer his questions. And if they have a nice conversation, chances are she will be attracted to him, from his sense of confidence and handsome features.

^ if thats the case then... i'll be getting something soon from a girl im planning on asking out.. ^^

jakkey.. but i'm FUGLY though.. will i still have a shot..?

[MissFits]

Haha, and Josh, you need to start thinking like a girl. Chances are they won't be thinking that. They'll be too busy trying to answer his questions. And if they have a nice conversation, chances are she will be attracted to him, from his sense of confidence and handsome features.

If girls thought that everyone was trying to get into their pants, do you think we would have as many married couples as we do? Or for that fact, people just dating. There's a certain swing to things, and when they aren't followed, things fuck up. The majority of the population will go on a date with a person they have never met before. That's what dates are for. To get to know eachother.

It's a fact. Josh, you watch Sex and the City. That's a perfect example.

I think Josh has the right idea.
I know I am only one girl and I don't speak for all of the female population, but I can tell you honestly that when I was single and guys I didn't know talked to me I would be friendly, but the second the conversation turned from "let's be friends" to "do you wanna go out" I was the biggest bitch I could be.
I want guys to be my friend and like me for me not my looks. If this guy doesn't know anything about me he is only wanting to date me for the way I look and that's just no fun seeing as I am more than just a set of boobs and a vagina.
I'd say talk to her for a few days. Ask her for her number. Then, ask her out after you get to know each other.

[superficial]

If you really like a guy..but you two hardly know each other and he ask you out..would you turn down his offer if he ask you out..?

if so.. why would you turn it down.. or will you say yes if he ask you out../

First off, I wouldn't like a guy who I hardly even knew... that's like love at first sight... and to me, that's bullshit.

But, if that wasn't a factor, I would say no. I agree with deplorable. It has to grow from a friendship.

[shoryuken]

I think Josh has the right idea.
I know I am only one girl and I don't speak for all of the female population, but I can tell you honestly that when I was single and guys I didn't know talked to me I would be friendly, but the second the conversation turned from "let's be friends" to "do you wanna go out" I was the biggest bitch I could be.
I want guys to be my friend and like me for me not my looks. If this guy doesn't know anything about me he is only wanting to date me for the way I look and that's just no fun seeing as I am more than just a set of boobs and a vagina.
I'd say talk to her for a few days. Ask her for her number. Then, ask her out after you get to know each other.

i know what you mean.. i said somewhere i need 2-3 weeks until i ask her out.. i'm using those 2-3 weeks to get to know her.. then i'll ask her out..

its not like im just gonna walk up to her and then ask her out..

[Kontroll]

^ if thats the case then... i'll be getting something soon from a girl im planning on asking out.. ^^

jakkey.. but i'm FUGLY though.. will i still have a shot..?

Chances are you're not bad looking compared to some guys I've seen. Just think about it. We're guys. Throughout history we've been the dirty ones. We grow up playing in the mud and dirt, not sitting by the garden drinking tea. It's our nature to be a little bit manish, I guess you would say. Don't worry about what you look like. It's not the "hot" guy that gets all the girls, it's the confident guy.

I know this kid Bob, and he really isn't the most bright, or attractive guy I've seen. But, he landed a girl that looks like Keira Knightley. Everyone of my friends was thinking the same thing...How the hell is Bob with her? He's got his inner Bobness figured out. Figure yours out.

^ I agree.
I can say that I'd most definitely say no if some random guy asked me to be his girlfriend.

If you want to talk to her when you see eachother I'm sure that'd be fine though. Whatever you do, DO NOT come on to strong. Just try being her friend and see where that goes.

NO NO NO!!! DOn't be her friend. That's only going to get you one place. The worse place you can be in if you're trying to go steady with her. And that place is called the friend zone.

Once you're there...chances are you're never leaving there.

[shoryuken]

how about this jake.. is this ugly..?

[Kontroll]

how about this jake.. is this ugly..?

Nah. You're fine. Just be smooth. You look like you could be a smooth talker. It would work for you.

[shoryuken]

how would you rate me jake.. ^^ LMAO!!
scale 1-10.. lets hear something NICE!! ^^

P.Snguoicasison is GAY!! <<

[MissFits]

NO NO NO!!! DOn't be her friend. That's only going to get you one place. The worse place you can be in if you're trying to go steady with her. And that place is called the friend zone.

Once you're there...chances are you're never leaving there.

Not true. I have never dated a guy that wasn't my friend first. Most girls I know would rather date a guy she knows than date some dude she sees at work.

[Kontroll]

how would you rate me jake.. ^^ LMAO!!
scale 1-10.. lets hear something NICE!! ^^

Dude. You're missing the point. Looks have nothing to do with anything. Even if it did, there's six billion people on this planet. You're destined to find some one. But for now, you're young, and you got options.

So, relax. There's nothing to worry about.

The majority of the population will go on a date with a person they have never met before. That's what dates are for. To get to know eachother.

Maybe you missed that one, MissFits. I don't know.

[shoryuken]

i'm not worry.. i'm just being GAY..
*ahem*

i limit my options as low as possible when it come to girls.. very picky.. but now that i found this HOTASS blondie who been checking me out.. i'm MOVING in soon!!


BTW:JAKE THX FOR THE REQUEST I ASK FOR.

[Kontroll]

i'm not worry.. i'm just being GAY..
*ahem*

i limit my options as low as possible when it come to girls.. very picky.. but now that i found this HOTASS blondie who been checking me out.. i'm MOVING in soon!!

Why do you limit yourself? You're just stealing from yourself dude. You shouldn't need any limitations. Cause in the long run, you're just gonna screw yourself because you're going to keep that thought process going, and it's going to be hard for you to keep a relationship. Trust me I'm the same way. It's hard to erase, but I have to realize that everyone's got their flaws, and usually the ones with a little more flaws are way more interesting. From experience that is. Saying that, you shouldn't just go for the average girls. You could date some good looking girls dude.

[MissFits]

Maybe you missed that one, MissFits. I don't know.

I am just saying, it's better to get to know someone even if only for a few days before asking them out.
No one wants to feel like a piece of meat.

[shoryuken]

Why do you limit yourself? You're just stealing from yourself dude. You shouldn't need any limitations.

actually.. in a sense i am.. cuz im really picky.. only some out there that will make me wanna UH UH TAP DAT SHIETT!! well this blondie happen to be one ^^

I am just saying, it's better to get to know someone even if only for a few days before asking them out.
No one wants to feel like a piece of meat.

scroll up n read where i say about 2-3 weeks stuff..

[MissFits]

I was replying to IGetSex.
I paid attention to what you wrote

[Kontroll]

I am just saying, it's better to get to know someone even if only for a few days before asking them out.
No one wants to feel like a piece of meat.

That's what datings for. I'm not saying a guy should go up to a girl and ask her to be his girlfriend. That's ridiculous.

[MissFits]

It seems like that is what you said.
I guess I misunderstood. I apologize