omg what do i do Options

[ersatz]

f**k Armond duuuuude.

Why are you still in love with him? What is redeeming about him? You might just be in love with his former self, when he wasn't such an a-hole...

[Glamourouz]

Ok, well I don't know you or anything about your situation but from what I've heard by reading your post, you are being quite stupid. You are allowing your ex to control your decisions. If you continue to let the thought or hope of you two getting back together keep you from finding someone that's going to treat you any better you are going to keep putting yourself through a cycle and you'll never be truly happy. How can you honestly be ok with this? Yea, if you have been with someone for years it will be hard to let go & move on, but you should always give yourself the option to hang out with someone else. You don't even have to call it a date and just make it known that you just got out of a relationship & not ready to let someone else feel that spot yet. Always keep your options open. Your ex could continuously screw you over just because he knows he has you wrapped around his finger. He can tell you anything & you'll believe it because of the history but you'll be back where you are now. Just a thought...Don't let him hold you back from finding happiness elsewhere...

[aaayotiffany]

well, you're single. you can still hang out with him, you guys are just friends anyways. and your ex, you guys are broken up. he shouldn't have that leash on you anymore. lol, not saying you're whupped i'm just saying you don't have that line anymore that you can't cross.

just remember, you and that white buddy are just friends for now. and if he tries something, just set him straight and let him know you're not ready or don't want to get into anything.

[alyssa6789]

"I can't hang out cause he'll be pissed".

that sentance right there you should end it now. if he doesnt like you hanging out with other guys when your not even going out with him then thats wrong.

you said your not going to get bck together to the near future sometimes thats basically never.

if a guy wants to hang out with you hang out with him cause i dont see anything happening with your ex. if your ex and you were meant to be than eventually something will happen but for now live live not tied down to some one that "your not getting back to the near future with.

who even knows he can be talking to other girls too you never no.

you said he doesnt seem like hes your tpe sometims the opposite what you think is your type really is your type.

so i think you shoulg get to know the new guy if things dont work out eventually hings ith your ex will work out if its mean to be.

[Elba]

You know what, this guy is making me realize what a turn off it is to be after some body so hard...

I am going to tone it down with Armond and play hard to get.

[Just_Dream]

But I don't hang out with anyone!

WHATTTTT?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's it, when I get a car, things are going to be VERY DIFFERENT. Well, only because I'm a stalker.

[Elba]

lulz

[TiffanyFactorial]

what ruth & pinacoolada said. anyway, white boy is A CUTIE. no seriously, he's cute.

you really need to think about YOURSELF and not anyone else right now. i know it's selfish but you must think about yourself. you may love him but you must remember about yourself. there's this quote from sex & the city.

samantha recently got back with this guy who cheated on her and she was in love with him. she knew she couldn't trust him nor let him out of her sight. one day when they went on a trip to Atlantic City, every time he'd tell her that he would be in the room doing his work, she'd rush up to the stairs to make sure he wasn't banging the maid. then she blurted out to him:

"I'm sorry Richard. I love you but I love me more."

you gotta take into account for your feelings too. i know you don't want to lose him, but maybe you won't. be friends with him. take things slowly.

and this cutie pie white boy that's asking you to hang out, what if it's just a friendly hang out? and if anything, hang out with him if you're bored and you've got nothing else to do! maybe he'll help you get over all of this. don't use him as a rebound or anything and i know you said you dont want to hang out with anyone so play everything on your time frame. but make sure that you get YOU time and YOU get to relieve your woes by surrounding yourself with some good friends and try to have fun..without your ex.

best of luck! you're far too pretty to be dwelling over a boy. he should be dwelling over you.

[Joss-eh-lime]

put on a DGAF attitude about your ex and go hang out with the new guy.

[Mikael]

Guy. is your type. Ex. is ex.

Get yours. I have faith in you.