what are u saving for the right guy? |
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 May 12 2008, 10:10 PM
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i noticed some girls holding back until they find the right guy.
like are u saving your first kiss for the right guy? or are u/ did you just do it with whoever. and same thing for anything else like sex. would u have sex with mr right? or no. or would u have sex with that random guy u met 2 minuts ago? or anyyything else. just tell me what your saving personally i think everyone should just have sex with eachother. but then we'd all have aids and die 
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May 12 2008, 10:16 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
I totally agree with you. Sex is just an act to show your affections for someone, why make it so sacred? People treat it waay too seriously, it's something personal so no one should be gossiping about it.
For my first time I don't really care if the guy put rose petals everywhere or have billions of candedels. If i really loved him, it wouldn't matter. |
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May 12 2008, 10:57 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
i'm just going for the abstinance thing-no sex till marriage. & that includes oral, too.
making kisses "sacred" is going a little over board IMO, though i do know a few adults who did that. |
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May 13 2008, 10:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 717 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,551 |
I'm... just saving marriage for the right guy. I've pretty much given everything else away, haha.
I used to believe in the abstinence before marriage, but have since then changed my minds (college does things to you <<) I used to kiss guys on the cheek all the time, but I REFUSED to kiss a guy on the lips until I found the right one, haha. |
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May 13 2008, 12:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 79 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 646,343 |
im savin everythin for the right guy
im savin the kiss the sex part everythin 
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May 13 2008, 12:47 PM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
QUOTE(Reconditee @ May 13 2008, 11:54 AM)  I'm... just saving marriage for the right guy. I've pretty much given everything else away, haha. I used to believe in the abstinence before marriage, but have since then changed my minds (college does things to you <<) I used to kiss guys on the cheek all the time, but I REFUSED to kiss a guy on the lips until I found the right one, haha. same here... although i'm not a virgin i don't sleep with just any random guy... i like waiting for the right time with the right guy (not the right guy, just a right guy!)... & i'm not one to kiss just anyone. to me kisses have meaning... the more meaning the better. i'm real selective in that sense. so in a way i guess i am saving myself but just not until marriage. |
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May 13 2008, 05:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,523 |
haha ya ya ya i have sex and stuff but i like to think im with the right guy... but i never have been w/ the right guy.
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May 13 2008, 05:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I'm definitely saving my virginity till the right moment or I meet the right guy.
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May 13 2008, 05:20 PM
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 metalmouth hoee Group: Member Posts: 786 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 566,794 |
Anyone who just has sex for the hell of it, imho, is a slut. especially if they're young. Im saving it for the right time, i would like to wait until i find the right guy, but im trying to be realistic, and i dont think it's going to happen.
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May 13 2008, 06:08 PM
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 na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
i'm definitely doing abstinance thing-no sex till marriage thing.
i mean..everything means alot to me, it really does..i don't like to play around when it comes to things like this, even though i definitely understand when you do it because it's a right guy and not the right guy...but still, it's just me. even a first kiss, i never even kissed my bf on the lips yet, haha. only on the cheeks..> < because i want to kiss the right guy, i want it to be special. i want it at the right time..i guess i'm just not ready yet =( like....urghh....i think you girls know what i mean???..right? =P |
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May 13 2008, 06:10 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
QUOTE(foxx @ May 13 2008, 06:20 PM) Anyone who just has sex for the hell of it, imho, is a slut. especially if they're young. i agreee, i know a messload of people that do that. it bothers me when they talk about it too. i wouldn't have sex with anyone but the person i'm with, in this case, it would be my "boyfriend". but yeah, i'm saving marriage for the right guy, i will not hurry my life just to get married. i'm excited for the period of time BEFORE i get married, when i'm going to be traveling and doing whatever the fxck i want. not appear on girls gone wild or anything like that. pssssh. |
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May 18 2008, 06:38 PM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
Honestly; I don't believe in a "right guy"; if there were supposedly "right guys" there wouldn't be anyone going through divorce settlements...Many people wait for marriage before they kiss or have sex and then poof 3 yrs later they're divorced...Nowadays you might not even get married so to say you're going through all these measures for something that might not even come let alone last is kind of crazy to me...so if you believe that, more power to you...I'm very selective & there are limitations; I don't sleep with or kiss any & everybody because there's too much out there & that's just not the kind of person I am...Hopefully I'm with a good guy now so all I'm saving for him are my vows...
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May 19 2008, 03:44 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
There will always be numerous "right" people in the world. I don't have my virgnity or my first kiss to offer but I have marriage.
 But that doesn't mean I'm some sexpot who gives it up to anyone who asks. I doubt there's one soulmate for you in this world. I mean, there a many people in this world. You could be compatible with a lot of people. I save...my love.
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Jul 22 2008, 06:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 666,473 |
I'm saving my virginity for the right guy/when i'm married. i don't want to lose it to some jackass.
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Jul 22 2008, 06:46 PM
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 Killed by the weakness, but forced to return. Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 666,374 |
I'm not a virgin. I'm not a slut. [though I suppose that is a matter of opinion] BUT I wont be unexperienced when 'the right guy' comes around.
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Jul 22 2008, 06:48 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
How will you know he's the "right" guy?
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Jul 22 2008, 06:49 PM
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 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,155 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,404 |
QUOTE(aybaybay007 @ May 12 2008, 08:10 PM) but then we'd all have aids and die That reminded me of the Team America song. EVERYONE HAS AIDS! AIDS AIDS AIDS! AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS!... Anyways, I don't think there's a 'right' person or 'second half' for anyone. If you click, you click. And I believe people should just do it when they feel that it's right. There's no need to rush or hold anything back. |
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Jul 22 2008, 06:49 PM
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Killed by the weakness, but forced to return. Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 666,374 |
Yeahh that is a good question. They say you 'just know'.
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Jul 22 2008, 07:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 290 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,423 |
everything :)
hm, i'm not sure if it's "saving" or just the fact that i had no opportunity to give those away haha. i dont think kisses should be special. |
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Aug 5 2008, 09:35 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
Because I've given everything away BUT the sex.. I'm definitely waiting for the right guy. If it's before or after marriage, just as long as I know it's right for me and him.
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